Spontaneity in a session?

[Sir Lancehernot]

By and large, most encounters reported here (and those I've experienced personalluy) follow a pretty plain vanilla formula, and I'm wondering what the ladies and gents here think are some good ways to add some spontaneity to an encounter.

Usually, it seems, that there's not much variation at the studio or multi-girl incall locations. She meets you at the door, guides you to the room, leaves to allow you to "get comfortable"," and returns. If it's a first-time visit, you're bid to lie down on the table for a bodyrub, then flip over for some more rubbing, and then the fun stuff starts. If you're a repeat visitor, sometimes you can dispense with the BR pretense and move more quickly to the fun part, with the BR afterward actually being more enjoyable.

Outcalls or incalls at other locations seem to similarly lack a lot of variation. You might lie down on the bed or share a drink and get to know each other a little, or you might start getting undressed immediately, or you might stat kissing and slowly work the clothes off.

But, ultimately, there's not a lot of spontaneity. Occasionally, a girl will meet you at the door naked and maybe start fluffing you the instant the door closes. Or, as whitechocolate did recently, you can meet the girl at the door naked and spouting a chubby. (Sounds intriguing, but I don't think I could do that.)

I know that the confines of an hour don't allow for a lot of some of the really cool stuff, like waking up with your dick in her mouth, or you waking her up and slowly bringing her to a boil. And it's hard to engage an escort, ask her to pick you up at a bar, and pretend it just happened because you're such a studmuffin.

Me, I'm too afraid of hearing "no" to suggest much, though I am receptive to suggestions. But I suspect that there are plenty of others here who aren't as reserved, and I thought I'd ask about what you do, have done, or thought about doing, to make some elements of a session more spontaneous -- stuff along the lines of, "Wanna try ....?", or "Hey, let me try this on you," or "Let's try something."

(I 'll add that in my RW background, a wild time would be considered leaving the lights on or doing it somewhere outside the bed.)

[Prolongus]

Did you see the movie Crimes of Passion with Kathleen Turner? She played a hooker and I remember a scene where she walking downtown when she sees a guy across the street...he runs towards her, she runs away to an apartment, he bursts thru the door and has his way with her. All planned for a next encounter when they saw each other. Really hot.

Another scene has her fucking a cop and her ramming his nightstick up his ass while she's in CG. Hell, might have been the same scene...I've thought about setting some thing like this up.

Get a nightstick, SL, lol.

[OldGrump]

Sir L, an unscripted session is great. Most will comply if you let them know that is what you like. There is nothing like just chatting a while, getting comfortable, and doing with feels good at the moment without being obliged to try any specific act in any specific sequence. It's sort of what it would be like if your SO was as open and willing as your lady for the hour.

You are so right. There is only so much you can do in an hour. That is probably the biggest obstacle to perfection (well, the lack of funds for multi-hour sessions is a pain).

The beauty of this hobby is there is a wide variety available. Prolngus seems to have more adventurous ambitions (and ability). Go for it!!!

[HDnTX]

Remember a session with CherriDarling,......right in the door and lots of kissing and looking into those big blue eyes (guys who have seen her know about those eyes). Nice and slow from there. All it really takes is when she can make you feel like you are different. When a provider makes you believe you are not just another guy; that is what separates the great ladies to me.