Stripper VS Sole Provider....???

[GingerB]

I respect strippers....believe me I do. I always wanted to be up on stage as I was hangin out at BABES or THE LODGE with my X .... or with good friends. I just couldn't make myself get up on stage....with all those hungry eyes lookin at me....it freaked me out!
You girls have some guts, and nice asses too!!!

But, I was wondering....two things:
1) In hobbyist opinion....are strippers more...open minded....more crazy....more fun....more uh hem....experienced in certain techniques?

2) In Strippers opinion.....do you like stripping AND providing? Isn't that very taxing on your allowance of time? How do you keep it together?

Just curious...
GingerB

[Guest082216-1]

An advantage for strippers is we get to see the goods, maybe play a little, talk to and get to know the girl before any BCD activites if we want. Being able to get to know someone first has advantages. Not sure they are any "better" per say.

[Bushaholic]

Bubba covered a lot of it, but yes, strippers can be more fun and crazy. However there's a few other things about them I find appealing, for those interested in the appeal some of us may have.

I've found strippers are typically more confident about themselves physically, sexually, and about their role of turning a guy on before activities start. Some can create a very intense craving/desire for them which heightens the sexual experience for me. And unlike GF's or some providers I've seen, they don't ask "what do you wanna do next", they will certainly surprise the heck out of you with what's coming next, and I've often found it to be enjoyable. Also, they don't hesitate to put any of their private parts in our faces without asking, which I find very hot.

The ultimate provider for me would be one that provides a "stripper experience", starting off with 3 lap dances...first clothed, second nude, third nude with mutual contact....then to the bed, with a "stripper slide" included somewhere in the mix, and the rest will take its course.

Yes, I know I can special order that from a provider like my favorite burger, but it's no fun for me if I have to ask. Sort of like someone asking what you want for your birthday, you tell them, and they get it for you. It's not the same vs. someone knowing what you want. I'm mainly a strip club hobbyist, as most of my posts indicate, and often wonder when I set an appt with a provider, why she even asks "so what do you like". If a provider would scroll through the types of posts a hobbyist makes, or look at the areas in which he spends lots of time, there's a good chance she can pick-up clues about what he likes before the appt, and doing so might allow her to respond to his needs in such a way that she becomes his new ATF.

The frustration of finding a provider that I don't have to tell what I want, is why I mainly stick with strippers, occasionally talking certain ones into p4p action OTC. Going that route, I've rarely been disappointed.

[bigmarv]

Originally Posted by Bubba3452

An advantage for strippers is we get to see the goods, maybe play a little, talk to and get to know the girl before any BCD activites if we want. Being able to get to know someone first has advantages. Not sure they are any "better" per say.

This is what I've always liked about strippers. Getting to know them for a while before actually doing any OTC activities, if it ever developed into that sort of arrangement. I personally think the right stripper can become the best provider.

[TexAss]

I've had more BCD experiences with strippers that were OTC that verified providers. I can't explain it really, but strippers who want to leave the club and make some extra spending $ are fun as hell. I've got one that I "see" on a semi regular basis that is a freak in the sheets and we click well together. She told me she is so damn horny after a shift that she almost HAS to get laid. Got to love a girl like that.

And no, I will not reveal who she is, where she works or give out contact info, sorry guys. This one is very UTR.

[GingerB]

wow.....I am starting to understand the difference. Thanks u's guys...very descriptive, and also insightful info.

It's quite funny, but I just spent several hours at the LODGE with one my favorite hobbyist (yes, FUBAR.....you know who you are)!....anyway....he and I talked about how the strippers have a much different mentality when it comes to the BIZ.

And, nevertheless.....we had a stripper join us....(surprise)??....which we touched upon the subject.....and could see that they just DO NOT think the same way providers do. During the lap dance, she could not get away from me and my Aura. She wanted to f**k me....and begged for it.

So, all being said, I am rather envious of the "stripper power"....which they posess.....and how they can exude sexuality up front without the connection.

This is fascinating....

Cheers...
GB

[morefunat38]

Girls need to advertise - "Stripper Experience"

[digitalbananna351]

Originally Posted by morefunat38

Girls need to advertise - "Stripper Experience"

I agree

[johnrubmehard]

Ginger,

I think most guys are too lazy to be hungry and to put the effort into landing a stripper. We really just go to strip clubs and hang out. Next time you are at a strip club, observe how many guys are enjoying their beer more than the stripper.

Originally Posted by GingerB

with all those hungry eyes lookin at me....it freaked me out!GingerB

[cubsoxbull]

I have met a few very fun strippers and some that were not so fun. I think you have to be careful,and find some that enjoy your company, and stay away from the one's who just enjoy your $$$. It's nice to meet in the club since you get a chance to break the ice and see if you both enjoy having fun together.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by morefunat38

Girls need to advertise - "Stripper Experience"

Oh wonderful . . .

I can see the experience now . . . Take all my money and leave me with blue beach balls.


I thinck I will stay with providers.

[TexTushHog]

I have a theory that men either love strippers or they are completely baffled by why the guys that like them put up with them at all. I'm in the latter camp. I see no appeal whatsoever to strippers if the other choice is a provider. But others clearly have other ideas.

[guest2820]

Good topic..I always wonder during appt if I get 1 or 2 lap-dance before taking clothes off...TURNs on every fetish in me!! might be porn movie too with pop corn and coke!!

There is no fun in starting action without some get together thru lap dances! yet to meet some stripper experience provider!!
Where are you ex strippers?

[Guest082216-1]

First, let me say I am not stupid (Well, not all the time). I know strippers and providers are working for the money. They may grow fond of me, even like me, but its my wallet that gets their attention. 95%+ have no real intention of ever wanting a relationship with me outside of a work relationship. A few may have some OTC outings with me but its still primarly a p4p relationship.

That said:
I, for one, enjoy the intereaction, the thrill of the chase with a girl. A provider may be able to offer me the best sex I have ever had. But, if I have the cash, I get the action. With a stripper, its not a given. Both have their place. Both have their charms.

Your post made me think a little about why I like strippers.
In no specifc order
1. I get to see the actual, live girl before I spend money. No stolen photos no airbrushing. What you see is what you get.
2. I can talk to the girl for little cost. A few stage tips, a drink or two and I will know if I can stand this woman enough to want to have her sleep with me or even give me a dance.
3. If I don't get what I am looking for from her in a dance or two, I can stop, pay her and move on to the next. Being out $50 for a couple of dances and a drink is a lot cheeper than 2-300 for a bad private session with a stranger.
4.Varaity- Lots of girls in one place. And, if I dont see anything interesting, I can go to another club in a matter of minutes.
5. No scheduling. If I have a time, I can get up and go. If I have a regular I want to see, I might contact her first to make sure she is going to be there, but I can still see somebody any time I want. Or I can just take a chance and drop in.
6. The thrill of the chase. I know damn well if she is willing to go OTC with me, she does with other guys. But, its still fun to pretend she likes me that much, especialy if she is a good actor. Can I get her to actualy do it? Thats part of the fun sometimes.
7. Extras. Again, I know if I get to do some SE, she lets other guys do it as well. But, I can still get that feeling of I got away with something with her and in public as well!
8.Time for money spent. If I am carefull, I can have an entire evening of playing with a number of good looking woman for the cost of a slightly above average provider for an hour. Do I always get laid? No, but sometimes that is not the only goal for me. Sometimes, I just like the attention and having women suck up to me for awhile.
9. Relationships. Its possible to build a level of relationship, within the confines of the industry, with a stripper. I have girls who have not danced for me in a long time, if ever, still stop and talk to me, give me hug, a little grope, etc all the time in my regular hang outs. If several of my regulars are there, it can be fun to watch the race for who gets to me first. Its kind of fun to walk into a club and the dancers, waitress, even the DJ give you a shout out. A Cheers experience in a strip club!
10. Selling it. Some of these girls make a lot of money. They sell it every minute. They dont sit back and wait, they are out hustling and working. They can make a guy feel like he is the luckest guy in the world just becasue she is talking to him and letting him feel her breast during a dance. That kind of energy and performace can be a huge turn on


I am sure I can come up with more. And, there are plenty of negitives as well. But, those are some of the reasons I go to a strip club. If I could a provider that was able to incorparate some of those things into her offering, I might just fall in love! (Sure, its real love, has to be, right?)

[Big Daddy Moose]

I have never gotten anywhere with a stripper. I continue to try . . .