Providers that do the work vs providers that let dude do the work?

[214_TX]

Providers that do the work vs providers that let dude do the work?

[Analeese]

One earned their money and the other one didn't?!?

[pashunfroot]

for me.. I like to be taken care of. more so because in RL I have to take charge so its good to have someone else in charge and leading for a while, but we both gotta work at it.

[milfy2002]

I prefer for it to be 50/50.

[Starz]

It's pleasure! I make sure pleasuring the other person as much as myself!

[2short@desky]

I believe that depends on the participants, the setting, and the mood vibes they receive and give each other. Call it chemistry. I feel incomplete if I can't get the lady to O...but not a bit bothered if she doesn't get me to. I always have a good time either way.

[Reverseheadstock]

I suppose GFE is being taken care of, the lady providing most of "the work". Maybe a PSE is straight 50/50 he fucks and licks her and she fucks and sucks him right back. Or in a dom/sub she just does whatever he tells her (close to 50/50) or he just puts it to her like a meat puppet and she "gets taken care of", could be the man doing most of the work, but play hard WORK HARD seems to be popular with me.

[pyramider]

I just lay there.

[Kickrocks]

Providers should be doing most of the work. That's what they get paid for. You fuck lazy bitches in the rw, not when your paying.

[KittyLamour]

Originally Posted by Kickrocks

Providers should be doing most of the work. That's what they get paid for. You fuck lazy bitches in the rw, not when your paying.

Well, I don't mind working but, I draw the line now when a guy is so fat he hasn't seen his own dick in years and I'm having to wrestle his fat apron up just to give him a bj, then he expects you to ride him and you're only 5'3" and can't do the splits that far... Then after all your hard work he gives you a "No" review and claims you are not sexually flexible yet fails to mention he is obese and smells like sharp cheddar. Ijs... Play fair.

[pyramider]

And here we go ...

[KittyLamour]

Originally Posted by pyramider

And here we go ...

No...here we don't go, it's ok to expect good service, but don't be critical when we have limits that are beyond physical capabilities.

I wore myself out trying to please and then he get's upset because he's too fat to fuck like a porn star and takes it out on me. Fantasy is all good but keep it realistic.

[chicagoboy]

Originally Posted by pyramider

And here we go ...

Yep.

[Admiral Giggle]

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

Well, I don't mind working but, I draw the line now when a guy is so fat he hasn't seen his own dick in years and I'm having to wrestle his fat apron up just to give him a bj, then he expects you to ride him and you're only 5'3" and can't do the splits that far... Then after all your hard work he gives you a "No" review and claims you are not sexually flexible yet fails to mention he is obese and smells like sharp cheddar. Ijs... Play fair.

Not really the best Ad or Sales Pitch since a large percentage(pardon pun) of hobbiests somewhat fit your description.

Thanks for the visual. Time for me to go to some sit ups so I can eventually see my dick.

[oldmarine]

I don't expect the provider to do all of the work but I do expect her to work at satisfying me. I kind of like it when she gets aggressive.