Confidence is sexy

[Vane4559]

Often men’s impulses to degrade women seem to express a desire to retaliate for feelings of rejection, humiliation and impotence.

[ElBandido]

Sexy indeed.

[IcI8P4Fw1e]

Originally Posted by Vane4559

Often men’s impulses to degrade women seem to express a desire to retaliate for feelings of rejection, humiliation and impotence.

Agreed! Confidence is very sexy. You're a gem and we're lucky to have you.

You bring up an excellent point. While this is supposed to be a forum to share our experiences and support each other, I've noticed some posts that are unnecessarily coarse and degrading in their nature when discussing providers. Not all providers are for every hobbyist, but there is a way to convey that in a respectful manner while sharing with the community. We can do better.

My two cents.

[Vane4559]

You’re right lcl8p4Fw1e, it just speaks to a person’s character more than the one they are insulting in order to feel better about themselves. Especially when they do it to so many. Very immature. Insecurities are loud.

[heyhun]

Love your eye contact and the wisdom you share! Been a while since we shared our thoughts.

[Vane4559]

Thank you Bandido, you’re always so sweet!

[Vane4559]

Thank you heyhun! It sure has, hope you’re doing well.

[Imperium]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this Vane! I'm sure a lady such as yourself has examples galore of these insecurities manifesting themselves in some of your interactions.

Insecurity is generally expressed selfishly whereas confidence is generally expressed selflessly.

You look ravishing in red btw!

[Vane4559]

I appreciate the kind words and understanding Imperium. I sure have believe me. All I can do is give them a piece of my mind bringing them right back down to earth and move on. Small men cannot knock my confidence.
Thank you, one of my favorite outfits

[Celestedoll915]

Vanessa, I completely agree and bravo! It's obvious someone didnt get the message, no children allowed!
Were not looking to be everyone's cup of tea but are more than happy to enjoy our favorite brew of ........

[Celestedoll915]

Great pic and red is my favorite color girly! Looking good, lunch and drinks soon

[Blue Moon Man]

You have been nothing but great and first-class with me. Keep on.

[Vane4559]

Thank you doll! Yes we treat people with kindness and respect, it shouldn’t be too much to ask for the same in return. A little class. Definitely, can’t wait to catch up and thank you ��

[Vane4559]

Blue moon man, thank you I appreciate the support. It means a lot. Of course, anything for a great man ��

[PonsterMenis]

Wow so true. Which is why I like to treat everyone with respect. Give respect to get respect. And by the way you look amazing in red, next time we see each other I would like to see you in that ��