re: Jada

[Zay Siding]

Fine since I share my whole lifestory on here. How about once and for all I show with you the entire Jada story how it happened chronologically, so now you can all see it now and understand why I obsess. I have idyllic memory with dates. Before I only told you bits and pieces. Here goes:

8/2019 - I first discover the other site (USASexGuide) and join to post reviews on providers I am seeing.

9/2019 - I make a post on the other site inquiring about any good providers in Schenectady, as I was in the same predicament then as now with looking for good provider. Several members recommend UTR Jada and gave her number.

10/24/2019 - I decide to take their advice and contact Jada. She quickly responds and we meet that very night for outcall to my apartment (first time ever doing an outcall, she stated she cant do incalls). So she takes an uber to my apartment, we engage in CFS and good time. I liked her, thought she was a sweetheart, like rest of you. I offer to give her ride home to be nice, since she only lived 2 miles from me.

11/6/2019 - I see Jada for second time outcall at my apartment, this time I pick her up and bring her back in my car. My first time in my life I have a girl in my car and I feel like I was at top of the world, like I was a teenager with his first girlfriend. We were making out at red lights, etc. We both forgot condoms and she agrees to BBFS. Have great time with her and she acts like a sweetheart.

11/20/2019 - I see Jada for third time outcall to my apartment, gave her ride there and back. Since I was having such a great time seeing her, I increased my time from hh to one hour with her. We did BBFS, then spent the remaining 45 minutes cuddling naked in bed under the covers together. It was at this time, I first developed romantic feelings for her. It was the cuddling rather than the sex that caused this infatuation. Also she told me I could text her between sessions to say hi, which I began doing.

12/4/2019 - I see Jada for fourth time, one hour again, exact same repeat as last time, great time, she is very nice

12/10/2019 - Jada's phone stopped recieving my messages (she later told me her phone broke). I flip out thinking she blocked me for no reason and go crazy. I am up all night crying and had to call Ellis Hospital Crisis number and talk to social worker to calm down

12/11/2019 - I see girl #16, from Motel 6 on Central Ave for outcall to my apartment. I did this cuz I felt if I saw a different girl for outcall, who I gave rides to in my car, I could stop obsessing on Jada. It helped somewhat, but I did not like girl #16, so after dropping her back off at motel, I blocked her number and wrote her off.

12/15/2019 - Jada texts me on texting app that her phone broke, so all is good with us

12/17/2019 - I see the movie Aeronauts at Saratoga Springs movie theater featuring an 1800s couple in a romantic balloon ride. Throughout the entire movie, I fantaze, its me and jada on the balloon ride

12/19/2019 - The first time problems began. I am all set to do outcall with Jada and I arrive at her apartment and she does not come out or answer phone. Me being new at the hobby and naive, I dont know the proper ettiquite, so I get out of my car and knock on her door and can see and hear people inside with music. I get upset and drive off. I go see Saratoga Sky Jen instead that night for sex to help me calm down.

12/20/2019 - Upset over Jada still, I write my first bad review on her on other site, just being honest about her blowing me off. Jada then suddenly texts me, claiming her father had a medical emergency the night before and she had to rush to hospital and left her phone at her place, her kids were there alone when I knocked and told not to answer door. At first I believed story, but find it fishy, since she lies so much.

Later that day, Jada found my bad review and went balastic at me. I then finally tell Jada how I feel, that I like her and want to be her boyfriend. I am then up all night crying and again had to call Ellis Hospital Crisis Unit to calm down. I was crying thinking I lost Jada cuz of my posts and finally calm down when Jada agrees to reschedule

I contacted A2 on the other site asking to delete the bad jada reviews I left and he refused. I then attempted to retract the reviews by claiming it was Harley Quinn Jade I was referring to who blew me off and I got her mixed with up Jada cuz of their similar names.

12/22/2019 - I see Jada for our rescheduled outcall. When I pick her, she has it out with me and is yelling at me in a violent manner about how I acted. I almost kicked her right out of my car on Van Vranken Ave because I did not want to be verbally assaulted, but decided to give her chance. She calmed down and we do usual one hour outcall at my apartment. I then ask her to be my girlfriend and she tells me, no. I accept it well and agree to see her as just a client

12/24/2019 - When vaccuming out my car, at carwash, I discover Jada had dropped her debit card in my car underneath my seat. I text her asking what I should do and she is vague and blows me off.

Christmas Day 2019 - Not knowing what to do since she ignored my texts, I drop off her debit card at her mailbox in an envelope. She later tells me that she cancelled that card a long time ago cuz it was missing

I take a break from seeing Jada for a few weeks cuz of this stuff but resume contact in January 2020. Also at this point, all romantic feelings I had for her ended. I just wanted to continue to see her as a client like the rest of you.

1/15/2020 - Final time I see Jada for outcall. She is very nice and forgiving for the earlier stuff and we do the usual one hour, but she insists I use condom and no more BBFS, which I agree to. Calm before the storm with her being nice

1/19/2020 - Jada texts me asking if I can pay her cable bill of $312, agreeing to two free sessions if I say yes. This is my biggest regret and something I wish I had never done, this is what caused the problem with her and all of this drama

1/26/2020 - Jada texts me needing a ride to urgent care cuz she is sick with possible flu. I gladly give her ride to and from and she is very nice and thankful

1/29/2020 - Jada texts me asking for $40 for her tamaful she cant afford. I give her the $40, raising her debt to me to $352

2/5/2020 - We set up our next outcall, but Jada suddenly texts me that her son is sick and she needs to cancel. I instead see Jessica in Mont Pleasant for outcall to my apartment, so I can still get laid that night.

I text Jada about rescheduling and she ghosts me. I become very anxious because I feel she ripped me off and wanted my money back or the two free promised sessions. Then she becomes mean telling me she doesnt want to see me anymore. I dont know what to do. Desperate, I contact her mother explaining the situation. I realize now I was wrong for that, but my autism sometimes causes me to make poor decisions

2/20/2020 - at about 2:45 PM, while I was at work, Jada calls me and violently threatens to smash my windows in retaliation for texting her mother. I tell her never to contact me and block her number. I am terrified and go home from work scared, everytime a car pulled in my apartment complex parking lot that night, I was scared she was true to her threat.

3/9/2020 - In response to several good reviews on Jada, I post bad reviews and out her on this site. I did that cuz I was very mad about losing my hard earned money to her. I realize now I was wrong for the outing her part

3/10/2020 - at about 8 AM, Jada calls me on an unlisted number and threatens to send people to my apartment to physically hurt me (in retaliation for outing her) and then has her boyfriend threaten me also. I was very shook up and had my tax appointment that morning (a week before everything closed by covid). The tax preparer saw how shook up I was, so I told him about the situation (but of course left out that part that she was an escort), and he wrote down the number of adult protective services on my tax envelope, trying to help me. I was reminded this year again when I did my taxes, when I had to bring last years taxes and saw his writing on the envelope.

After that, no communication with Jada whatsoever.

I hope this clairifies once and for all, what happened and why i have held this grudge for so long.

[Funtimes44]

didn't read the post it was way too long but I do know now not to stick my dick in Jada know lol

[Warrenajeffers]

This is the first instance I’ve ever heard of a tax accountant also having to double as social worker..

[Zay Siding]

Originally Posted by Warrenajeffers

This is the first instance I’ve ever heard of a tax accountant also having to double as social worker..

Correction he wasn’t a tax accountant. He was just a United Way volunteer. Since my income is low enough, I get my taxes done each year for free with VITA thru United Way with IRS certified volunteers who act as preparers. Like a clinic.

And I only told him cuz he saw how visibly shook up I was at my appointment and I had a hard time focusing and everything. My appointment was like 2 hours after her phone call that morning.

[Warrenajeffers]

Jesus Christ with all the crap he had to go thru with you I hope he remembered how to do your taxes correctly!

[Zay Siding]

Originally Posted by Warrenajeffers

Jesus Christ with all the crap he had to go thru with you I hope he remembered how to do your taxes correctly!

I am sure he did.lol Cuz a second VITA volunteer always looks over it afterwards to confirm its correct.

And just to think if I had waited one week longer last March, I wouldn't had to do my taxes until July I think it was.

I also remember the following evening that same day (March 10, 2020) I saw the movie "Call of the Wild" at Wilton Mall with one of my few friends who tolerates me (older guy named Mike). Final movie I saw before everything shut down last year.

And since I am telling my life story, I will add this friend Mike, we go back 20 years. He was actually a rec/crisis worker at Schenectady Child Guidance/Northeast Parent back when I was 13/14 and was called on many occasions to deescalate me and was involved when I was at Ellis Hospital Adolescent psych unit as well. I also saw him for recreation and we would shoot hoops or go for short hikes on bike trail, he was like a mentor me. I stopped seeing him after we left that agency, but never forgot him. I found him on facebook when I was 21 and reconnected. We began a friendship and since then, he has been of my true friends. We get together and go hiking or to the movies. He even sold me his old car and then three months later after it broke, feeling bad about selling me a lemon - he paid me back half of what I gave him. Now thats a true friend, something most people wouldn't do.

[EGrayupstate]

Man if you end up murdering some of these girls our lack of surprise will be felt around the world.

[Zay Siding]

Originally Posted by EGrayupstate

Man if you end up murdering some of these girls our lack of surprise will be felt around the world.

Hey that comment was a little uncalled for. I would never physically harm any of these providers who robbed me or screwed me over. All I am trying to do to any bad providers is ruin their reputation with bad reviews and get them to retire early or quit escorting. Thats all I want when it comes to any bad reviews I make obsessively. Even last week when that new girl Savannah "robbed me," the reason I yelled outside was in hopes of exposing her and ruining her as a provider.

So I would really appreciate it if you would not say stuff like that as I am not a violent person. I am in reality just a big baby who throws temper tantrums and wants everything "my way" and holds onto grudges, but in reality couldn't hurt a fly.

[Zay Siding]

To add for those who read my entire first post, you can finally understand how this whole Jada ordeal. You can see how I saw her like any of you as a regular client and it initially went well for me and she was a sweetheart to me. Yes I developed feelings for her, but I kept those feelings to myself. All of my emotional outbursts over thinking she blew me off where I called crisis workers, that was all in my personal life in which Jada had no idea any of that had occurred.

You can see how the 5th time I was set to see her, she suddenly was a no call/no show, which began me writing the bad reviews. It was at that point, my crush on Jada was over consuming my life and I needed to let it out, tell her how I felt, just to stop obsessing, even if that meant her rejecting me, which she did. Also you can see how I handled her rejecting me well and I agreed to only see her as a client. But then she asked me for money and ripped me off, all old news which you know about.

So maybe now, since I explained the entire story from beginning with her, you can all see what really happened and why I am so bothered by her.

The reason I continue to post bad reviews on Jada is to remind everyone of how she did rip me off and threatened me. I feel like I am the only one who had this bad ordeal and don't want to be overlooked or ignored, so I respond to any good reviews on her with this to just remind everyone of what I ordealed cuz of her. And contrary to what all of you say on the other site, no I am not obsessed over Jada for breaking my heart. I obsess over this cuz of how she ripped me off all that money and those threatening phone calls, that is the issue.

[swifty2]

Originally Posted by Zay Siding

Hey that comment was a little uncalled for. I would never physically harm any of these providers who robbed me or screwed me over. All I am trying to do to any bad providers is ruin their reputation with bad reviews and get them to retire early or quit escorting. Thats all I want when it comes to any bad reviews I make obsessively. Even last week when that new girl Savannah "robbed me," the reason I yelled outside was in hopes of exposing her and ruining her as a provider.

So I would really appreciate it if you would not say stuff like that as I am not a violent person. I am in reality just a big baby who throws temper tantrums and wants everything "my way" and holds onto grudges, but in reality couldn't hurt a fly.

sure, whatever you say Mr. Bundy

[Mr.Random]

Crazy that ppl still feed this delusional clown with responses. And if anyone is starting to feel guilty that he may actually act out.. then 1 or more of us (including myself) should print out these forum topics that he's involved and give to certain establishments.. he even gives a timeline to match on certain days with ellis hospital and such.. i'm sure they would know exactly who he is.. this one needs therapy and probly separated from society for the time being.. just too many warning signs

[Warrenajeffers]

Zay, can you post a YouTube clip of that balloon movie you referenced earlier that took place in the 1800’s? I wanna see the part where you delusioningly imagined the 2 principal characters riding in the balloon were you and jada.

[Zay Siding]

Originally Posted by Warrenajeffers

Zay, can you post a YouTube clip of that balloon movie you referenced earlier that took place in the 1800’s? I wanna see the part where you delusioningly imagined the 2 principal characters riding in the balloon were you and jada.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M2bVmaV59Cg

[Toyo1998]

Any chance you could develop a romantic relationship with mike? Perhaps start by holding hands on the way into the movie, show him off a bit, start slow. Maybe you would be happier with a man.

[vito9262]

Originally Posted by Toyo1998

Any chance you could develop a romantic relationship with mike? Perhaps start by holding hands on the way into the movie, show him off a bit, start slow. Maybe you would be happier with a man.

LMFAO