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I have seen this in a lot of women post and always wonder why. I know everyone has their own preference and I respect that. Just hope its not some black dudes out there messing it up for us all
Well here is the scoop on that. It is a combo of many things.Some ladies have had bad things happen to them by a black guy but the thing on that excuse is there are white guys that do the same damn thing to a lady. I have seen the same thing posted by ladies and i would have a gentleman call me and we would talk learn what i could over the phone or by e-mails and get there references to verify them. Well holy shit got a lady that says she doesn't see black guy's and find out she has given him a ok on p411 or there is a review posted by the gentleman. The thing is you guys don't really know most of the guys personally on here so they don't really know your race so everything is fine. But down here in the south not all but alot of the white gentlemen will not see a lady if she see's black guys. I have two ATF's that pay very well but if they ever thought or found out that i saw a black guy they would not ever see me again. So there is some of the reason's you see that posted on there ads. Sorry but that is some of the reason's and hopefully it help's you understand.
If I were AA I would want to believe this clip from "Full Metal Jacket" explained it. Truth is there are many reasons ranging from good old fashion racism to having been beaten raped and robbed by a wannabe thug gangsta. I have a feeling that if your a well known AA who is well spoken/behaved and you agreed to keep your visit a secret then a lot of no AA girls will see you.
I think in a lot of cases it is a matter of personal preference,as I see the same thing on a lot of the black providers ads on Backpage, so it could have something to do with the younger guys and the gangsta personas they like to portray.
There are some girls out there that just don't prefer AA men. some put it on their ad because this is Mississippi but if you check their ads in other places they don't post NO AA. Some put it but if you call they don't ask, others will just hang up. Sometimes you just have to take a chance on getting your little feelings hurt.
I can understand their position, I don't see AA ladies, never have and never will. If I am going to pay for it, it is going to be exactly what I like. My "jones" are the tiny Asian ladies and the thin Latinas, no blondes, no blue eyes, no redheads.... Only what I like. If I were selling it ;-).... I would be selective also and exclude the AA ladies, their body types, skin tones, facial features and voice tones don't do much to get me sexually wanting......but I do like the dark olive skinned Latinas and the petite Lilly white little Asians.
Being in the "south" is probably the most common reason, but I've heard a few others over the years:
- One told me that when she used to see "black" guys, that about half of them were pimps who tried to pressure her into working for them, so she decided it wasn't worth the hastle.
- A few have told me they didn't see black guys, because they didn't want their stuff "all stretched out", lol. Stereotypical of course and maybe related to the "south" thing since I'm sure there are some white guys with a big salami and some black guys with an average dick. I guess they feel they are just trying to keep it semi-normal so us poor little white guys can tell it's inside, lol.
Years ago I worked in the pot rooms at kaiser in chalmette, when the 3 o'clock horn blew we all ( hundreds and hundreds of us) made our way to the community showers. 30/40 guys would crowd into the shower rooms and all shower at the same time. Believe me, the size thing is a myth, the guy with the biggest dock there was white!!!! And that damn thing was BIG!!!
Some white guys had big ones, some black guys had big ones, everybody else....... All various sizes with neither group being bigger than the other.
the whole every black man has a big dick myth is hysterical. Im AA and very average. Maybe not even that which sucks. But at the end of the day I respect everyone preference and glad some ppl responded. I was just wondering if it was a prejudice type thing. Even if we are in the south I believe we are getting away from racism. My best friend is a white guy....never seen his penis tho lol
My best friend is a white guy....never seen his penis tho lol
Terrance, this topic was, for the most part, serious, but your last post just broke me up. Thanks for having a great sense of humor and for making me laugh...
You remember her ads too! Truth be told, I actually did post a review of her on ASPD. She was under a different name then and it was my 2nd hobby experience - a wild PSE ride that took several years to top. She was pretty tight too, so I guess that her "no black or big guys" policy worked, lol.
I have seen this in a lot of women post and always wonder why. I know everyone has their own preference and I respect that. Just hope its not some black dudes out there messing it up for us all
This isn't Match.com or Okcupid there are plenty of escorts who will see you and take your $$$ as long as you are clean and respectful with verifiable references. Being in the south has very little if anything to do with a no AA policy imo. This is commonplace in provider ads all over the US and even overseas.
This blog entry may give you some insight from one provider:
No Black Men???
My Bio Page - Mississippi
