Wrong for denying client?

[NikkiWhite]

So im trying to set an appointment earlier and dude seems nice enough but hits me with my.pet.peeve! He doesnt know how long he wants to stay and will decide when he gets here
Anywhere from 45min to two hours. Which to me is is usually a sign he's going to go.for the ahorter session and wants priority because he "might" stay longer lol. Then i check out stats hes only been a member for a month and has given one review which was a bad one. I tell him i cant schedule with him and he kinda freaks lol. Am i wrong for denying a client with one review when I'm constantly catching flak for only having one myself?

[Jessika Sweetz]

Nope you did the smart thing, if it doesn't seem right or not comfortable with him then by all means ignore! Plenty of fish in the sea!! A good client will tell you how long because he knows your time is precious! Good luck and have a great holiday!!!

[Princessbananahammock]

We can refuse to see anyone. This is all your business and you can refuse to see anyone for whatever reason you want.

I finally told a guy to stop contacting me bc ab 7 times he pms and ask if I can see him that day, I respond in plenty of time to set something up, then he says "it's almost lunch now and I won't have time"??? Or some lame excuse so I told him he wastes my time. I also made a man leave my room once the moment he walked in bc he was creepy, shaking, couldn't speak well, so I just told him I wasn't going to be able to see him and asked him to leave.

You can see as many people as u want and refuse to see as many people as you want.

[NikkiWhite]

Thanks for making me feel better girls. He is now threatening a bad review because i wasted his time lol ewview away dear sir.

[jbravo_123]

Especially when it's not like you waited until he got to the door to send him away (which is still acceptable for any number of reasons), you're never under any obligation to do business with someone unless you took their money and didn't give it back.

[LNK]

From a client's point of view, I have no problem being told, "No".

I might not like it much, and I might ask a few questions to try to determine why I'm being turned down, but I'm not going to beg, argue or threaten even a bad review, much less any other kind of threat.

I had one meeting, started to get comfy, then all of a sudden, something I did or said made the lady nervous, and she jumped up and asked me to leave. I complied, bewildered, but while getting un-comfy, I asked her what it was I had done, and we discussed it while I stood ready to walk out the door. We eventually came to the point that I was able to allay her concerns, and we had a great time then and several times since.

[RochBob]

As the only guy responding to this post I'm sure that I am going to get Lamb Basted for this. But when I contact a Verified Provider for an appointment. I usually do it a couple of days in advance, have one or more specific dates in mind, a time frame I know I can meet the Provider in and exactly how long I plan to stay (usually an hour). I then try to accomodate the Provider's schedule (I am well aware that I am not their only client). I understand that real life happens and that the Provider or myself may have to alter our plans on short notice. If I have to cancel on a Provider I try to give as much notice to her as possible so that she can try to fill my open spot. I don't like it when a Provider pulls a NCNS on me and I'm sure that they don't like it when a client does the same to them. Anyway, the guy sounds immature and very unsure of himself. And threatening a Provider with posting a Bad Review just because she declined to see him based on his actions is just bad form.

Ignore the first part of this post. I see a couple of guys responded while I was writing it. Like your Avatar LNK. I think quite a few more members of the American Population should be in the photo to make it currently accurate though.

[gimme_that]

I have booked a 30 minute sessions, an hour, and a 2 hour session with the possibility of an overnight before....but I always did that during late evening bookings. If I have any doubt about their services I do that all the time. Ill book the shorter session and if their services or less than stellar I decline more time.

I haven't done this often, because the responses are usually disappointing for those ladies or they get pissed, but if she gets upset because she said shelied and said she would do something she all of a sudden can't or won't do, I havve no issue doing it or asking in advance so she knows I'm serious.

1. I had an issue where a lady claimed she swallowed and right when it was time for the first big pasty thick load she dodged it and would not swallow.....was only a thirty minute session and she got her little 100 bucks. I left and kept the other money of 800 more she would have made should she have been honest. Its principalities in dis......

2. I had another lady I saw who was a BBW who claimed she could do Asian Cowgirl position......I had my doubts as a lot of ladies hate doing it....but its my favorite position at times.........she gave me all the assurance she could. So I booked an hour session withthe possibility of an overnight. She couldn't do it so I saved money there too.

I see nothing wrong with doing this so long as she knows my intention.


More times often than not this has worked in my favor recently when I have done this. Its like she's sorta auditioning for American Idol lol. Step up to the mic and perform I guess, make me hold a high note. Mostly do this with BP chicks.....reputable ladies are usually somewhat honest about what they can do.......but if they aren't I'll still touch upon it in my review or a report Ill give to a gent who inquiries. So I may continue.....but hate the fallout and distrust when I discover they were bragging on skills they truthfully didn't have.

[joesmo888]

he sounds like an idiot to me and should go find a provider who is newbie friendly, not sure why its complicated. some/most of us hobbyists pay and take time to make reviews and pay for p411/datecheck so we can build up references too. if he is a rookie then let him stick to newbie friendly providers until he builds up his reputation.

and what kind of idiot threatens to put out a bad review cause they got turned down by a chick they never saw before? this isn't match.com dating here where you go out with a girl and she doesn't call you back and you throw a hissy fit. sounds like he has no self esteem and would hope he is just a young kid, otherwise he probably has the brain of a 10 year old

and as far as the booking, this sounds stupid too but i wouldn't go as far as saying its bad etiquette but its pretty close. why not book 1 hour the first time.. if you like the girl then offer her for more time after the hour is up or see her again another time for 2 hours. if she says no then you move on to the next provider. again this isn't rocket science

[joesmo888]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

I have booked a 30 minute sessions, an hour, and a 2 hour session with the possibility of an overnight before....but I always did that during late evening bookings. If I have any doubt about their services I do that all the time. Ill book the shorter session and if their services or less than stellar I decline more time.

I haven't done this often, because the responses are usually disappointing for those ladies or they get pissed, but if she gets upset because she said shelied and said she would do something she all of a sudden can't or won't do, I havve no issue doing it or asking in advance so she knows I'm serious.

1. I had an issue where a lady claimed she swallowed and right when it was time for the first big pasty thick load she dodged it and would not swallow.....was only a thirty minute session and she got her little 100 bucks. I left and kept the other money of 800 more she would have made should she have been honest. Its principalities in dis......

2. I had another lady I saw who was a BBW who claimed she could do Asian Cowgirl position......I had my doubts as a lot of ladies hate doing it....but its my favorite position at times.........she gave me all the assurance she could. So I booked an hour session withthe possibility of an overnight. She couldn't do it so I saved money there too.

I see nothing wrong with doing this so long as she knows my intention.


More times often than not this has worked in my favor recently when I have done this. Its like she's sorta auditioning for American Idol lol. Step up to the mic and perform I guess, make me hold a high note. Mostly do this with BP chicks.....reputable ladies are usually somewhat honest about what they can do.......but if they aren't I'll still touch upon it in my review or a report Ill give to a gent who inquiries. So I may continue.....but hate the fallout and distrust when I discover they were bragging on skills they truthfully didn't have.

your opinion is duly noted however that is why we have reviews on eccie to sift through. I will read EVERY review before i go out with a provider to make sure she is consistent or if she is YMMV. if the bbw provider claims to be able to do a position and none of her reviews show that position being done then its wishful thinking for you to expect that service to be done on you.. am i right or wrong? no different than a tenant who has a 500 credit score and is late on every payment, do you expect to let them move in and magically have them pay you on time?

[Emary Preston]

I would advice to never entertain that type of garbage. Creeps like that get off on your attention, weather it's good or bad.....It's attention and they'll take it. If he doesn't know how the hobby rules are played then doesn't need to be playing.

joesmo888 - awesome input.

[pyramider]

When the fucktards do not get the hint that an appointment taint going to happen ... just instruct them to continue to download porn.

[Pink Floyd]

He obviously doesn't understand how the game is played.

[Fast Gunn]

No, you did exactly the right thing in declining such a dubious offer and asking for advice shows your heart is in the right place.

Any guy who is seeing a girl especially for the first time should be respectful of her time, but this guy is presumptuous enough to think that he can blithely claim a large portion of her time at the outset, but then say he may only stay a short time.

. . . The first date always sets the tone for what is to follow and it still takes two to tango!

[RedLeg505]

Nikki, re:"Am i wrong for denying a client with one review"

My dear, a provider has the right to deny a client for ANY reason, at ANY time. Period, end of story. Just like a client has the right to cancel or chose not to book with that provider ever again for any reason or no reason at all. The only obligation out of pure courtesy by both parties is, to inform the other with as much advance notice as possible so they aren't left hanging at the last minute.