Clean up

[rrabbit6926]

One thing I've noticed from my experience in the hobby is that most mature provider are the ones that provide clean up. I have only been with just a small hand full of young provider that did clean up. It has mostly been self serve on that. Question to the providers: Is this something that you learned over the years or were taught from another more experience provider? Question to the hobbyist: Does clean up service help make the experience more enjoyable to you? For me I like to be pampered and cleanup service is always a nice touch.

Rrabbit6926

[samara]

I like to laze around with my guy of the hour, after we are done playing.

I love the intimacy, so cleaning him and my self up makes all the difference to me. Than we can chat and not havre to worry about it after

[gimme_that]

I noticed more of the more mature providers do this. The younger ladies don't really get down like this dependably. They may go to the bathroom and retrieve a towel for themselves......and then throw one at me when they comeback. Either way is fine for me. Besides swallowing and CIMNQBS is less cleanup and allows me to go green and conserve towels.......lol


I think most times though......I'm fiercely independent after I cum. Id rather just clean myself. I want to make sure the condom is intact if we just had sex.....so I pitch that.......then if she does msog and I want more sex or head.....I just have extra warm towels by the nightstand. It kinda weirds me out to have someone cleaning me or wiping me off after sex. I consider it more intimate of an act than most would.

I will admit though when it happens its a nice touch. I think if COB and CIM aren't on her menu....the last thing she wants to do is touch or wipe your cummy penis......so I take initiative and just do it on my own.

[joesmo888]

I haven't noticed it based on age... its more of an attitude thing.. I've had them throw a towel on the bed and say here clean up, which I found funny. and I've had them go to the bathroom and bring a towel and clean me up

[DallasRain]

a true lady===especially a southern lady===knows how to take care of her man! lol

{with age comes wisdom!}

[Guest022718]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

a true lady===especially a southern lady===knows how to take care of her man! lol

{with age comes wisdom!}

^^^^THIS^^^^

Dallas, and other delightful "women of age" I've spent time with, seem to excel at making the session "all about you."

I'm one of those type A "I've got to perform at my best" guys, and I have one gal in particular who is working real hard to get me to just let go and enjoy myself.

The act of clean up, in addition to just feeling nice, is a gentle reminder that the lady is providing you with service......and that once in a while you deserve to be treated like a king.

[Nicolet]

I have always let my gent relax in the afterglow while I get a warm, wet washcloth and a towel. I place the warm cloth on him, and every time, I hear "mmmm, that feels nice!". I gently clean him up, give his squeaky clean joy stick a little appreciative kiss, and drape him with a towel to keep that warmth.

[Eva Damita]

Ummmm I thought cleaning your man up was part of sex, and even at 19 I cleaned my partner up.

Maybe I'm old fashioned with an older soul.

[cabletex7]

This is not your mommy.
Cleanup yourself.





My apologies if I made a bad assumption that it wasn't your mommy.
In which case, of course, she cleans up.

[rubytuesday]

I do keep a clean towel handy for a quick clean up after the condom comes off, and do some cuddling afterwords. Then, when they are close to leaving, offer them a warm wash cloth or a quick shower.

I don't think I offered this when I first started in the business, but I came into it like a new born baby....not knowing anything. By reading in reviews and ads, I learned quite a bit. One of them being the warm cloth/shower option.

[alaine]

For me the clean up part is mandatory! I use a hospital grade antibacterial/warm water on EVERY client, as soon as the fun is done. Sometimes, a partial "nurse bed-bath" is in order. THEN, I cover them with a warm blanket and let them relax in the afterglow.

[SA Angel]

I was "taught" about clean up in my personal life during my first relationship.

[Cpalmson]

I think there are a lot of variables in this equation, but I do believe maturity of the provider is one of the key factors. I think the more mature providers have an SO of their own and out of habit of cleaning up at home, they clean up the client. Just speculation on my part as a lot of the young ones haven't been married or had/have a live in BF.

Here are other variables I've noticed. Location-- If it is her place, she will always clean me up. Never once have I gone to a lady's residence and she didn't clean me up or at least bring me a warm wash cloth. If it is my place, 9 times out of 10, it is self service b/c I know where the linens are. Hotel-- 50/50 on if she cleans me up or I clean myself.

Activities is another variable. If it is a slow, GFE type session, she is more likely to clean up. If it is a high energy/PSE environment, there is no clean up or at least any that I can remember other than me ripping off the cover in order to go again. Then there are times when we just lay there for 20 minutes talking and stuff, and then I finally realize the cover is still on. When this happens, I just usually clean up myself but on occasions, the lady has jumped up and done it for me.

Personally, I don't care. Sure, it is a nice touch but not really required. The best sessions are those when you really don't need a clean up as her mouth takes care of that problem. Nothing like a girl who swallows.

[politebluefish]

I much prefer having the lady bring me a warm, damp washcloth for cleanup. It's just a really nice part of the experience. I've had some do that, some throw a towel toward me (not exactly the best personal service), and others do absolutely nothing. The more mature providers tend to do slightly better at this than the younger ones, but it's all over the board, really.

[DallasRain]

quote---Personally, I don't care. Sure, it is a nice touch but not really required. The best sessions are those when you really don't need a clean up as her mouth takes care of that problem. Nothing like a girl who swallows.

hell ya...lick that plate clean!!!!