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ktvelvet · 02-01-2010, 02:22 PM

I would like to know the thinking behind not allowing ladies to see these secret sections about themselves.

Kaye

texasjohn1965 · 02-01-2010, 02:39 PM

Because hobbyists may be less likely to talk of problems they may have had if the lady will be reading it.

And it cuts down on the drama.

That is my theory, and is worth exactly what you paid for it.

Budman · 02-01-2010, 02:59 PM

Same reason hobbyist can't view the providers private section. I don't what it is called here but I think it was PIE on the old board. Information will be exchanged more freely without the worry some have about pissing off a provider. As you put it the "secret section" would not be secret if everybody could see it.

Dstorm · 02-01-2010, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by ktvelvet

I would like to know the thinking behind not allowing ladies to see these secret sections about themselves.

Kaye

If you are the provider in question, you would know what was in the review because you were there. If you ever see a review of yourself with a "no" reccomendation, you could nicely pm the guy and ask him what could be improved.
Unfortunately, I have never seen the happen, usually you get a pm cursing you out, or the girl starts posting on the thread bitching etc.
The reality is women just dont take critique very well, they cant remain analytical.
Often a girl already knows why she got a bad review, bad attitude, not GFE, NCNS, showed up late, upsell etc. Either fix it or accept it. Very few gyus just trash girls for no reason. Even if hobbyist does not click with a girl, they usually say why because thay nuamce may not matter to the next guy.

notanewbie · 02-01-2010, 05:05 PM

also not every member (male/female) has access to "BCD", it is an earned privilege by reviewing or payment. The men's private area is based on that criteria and I am sure you must have provider status for the gals area.

ANONONE · 02-01-2010, 05:14 PM

It is there for the protection of both the hobbyist and the provider. Keep in mind that ANYONE can visit this board and skim read threads, including the public portion of a review. Keeping BCD limited to Premium Access is one of the best things about this board among many things. It is very well thought out for privacy, and preventing drama over the review. Just looking through these reviews on this board, they are much more informative and useful.

Kudos to the visionary plan the owners and staff of ECCIE have put into place!

Guest030911 · 02-01-2010, 07:33 PM

KTvelvet, all you are missing is the part where we brag about what studs we are and how many times we made you cum....

Guest112113-3 · 02-01-2010, 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by cpi3000

KTvelvet, all you are missing is the part where we brag about what studs we are and how many times we made you cum....

Yep that's it!

ktvelvet · 02-02-2010, 12:34 AM

Thank you for so many responses!
But I'm not sure I like it. Seems like there is a lot of talking behind a girl's back. I'd rather see what has been said about me. I think I'll ask for copies of any reviews you guys write. Thank you just the same.
K

Guest112113-3 · 02-02-2010, 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by ktvelvet

Thank you for so many responses!
But I'm not sure I like it. Seems like there is a lot of talking behind a girl's back. I'd rather see what has been said about me. I think I'll ask for copies of any reviews you guys write. Thank you just the same.
K

I would really like to see the percentage number that you get in return on your question, speaking for myself, (if I were a reviewer on the boards) you would never see a copy of my review given directly to you from me personally, you might get a copy from a White Knight thou, but not directly from me.

It seems to me if one is worried about the "Rest of the Story, BCD" then one might be worried that she is not giving her all to the experience, if one gives 100% to the experience then one should have no doubts what is being said BCD, it would all be good right?

AvaAstor · 02-02-2010, 09:43 AM

I really wondered about what was being said BCD, at first. I finally decided that most hobbyists are gentlemen and if I simply don't have chemistry with someone then I don't see them again. I make the best of the situation and move on. If one chooses to post negative comments BCD then so be it. Worrying about it accomplishes nothing. I would hope that someone might let me know if there was anything significant that I needed to know...

pornodave69 · 02-02-2010, 05:38 PM

I'd have to say that after reading reviews for the past 2 1/2 years, most of them are just the details of how the session went. Some are fairly graphic in the "Letters to Penthouse" style (which I prefer), others are less eloquent and some are a simple one or two sentences stating nothing more than "This girl really enjoys her work and she knows how to do it. I had a great time."

There are a scarce few who may nitpick every little imperfection a lady may have while most are fairly complimentary about her looks. Some are just brutally honest and may mention that a woman has put on a few pounds or some other attribute that she may not find to be flattering in the least and would prefer it left unsaid. But that's what the reviews are for - so the guys know what we're walking into and there are no surprises, no disappointments, no walk outs and no drama.

I'd be willing to bet that the ladies private area is far more unflattering and deprecating than most reviews written here and elsewhere. We have a fairly good idea of what a woman looks like and how good her service is when we walk in the door, and based on that we've made a conscious decision to her. As a result, a good review will probably follow. On the other hand, on a first time meeting the ladies haven't seen the guy and may know very little about him unless a reference has provided some sort of insight. Otherwise, it's a big surprise who is on the other side of the door come appointment time. I know there are all kinds of guys who hobby just as there are all kinds of women who provide (many who would be "out of our league" in real life), but I'd have to think that many of us hobbyists are not great looking, physically fit guys who have women throwing themselves at our feet. So, I'm prone to think that many of the women's "reviews" or comments on the guys probably say "He's short, fat, ugly, balding and hairy. He's got a short dick and couldn't keep it up long enough to finish the first round. I'd never fuck him in real life, but he tipped well and was nice so I'll see him again if he wants to schedule again."

As long as you get a "Yes" recommendation, be happy and leave it at that. If you ever do see your reviews, while most may be positive, hopefully you're not too sensitive and you're a bit thick skinned to handle some of the criticism. You may not believe it, but it's probably true.