Nervous about calling an escort? You might find this helpful

[eccieuser13]

If you've followed me for any amount of time, then you know I am a big believer in having phone calls
before a first-time meeting with an escort. We learn so much about our prospective date by doing so,
and it lays the foundation for an awesome encounter and one that is more personal and much less
transactional.

It doesn't really take much effort, 5 or 10 minutes, but it can make a big difference in the quality of
the encounter. I would also bet you'll feel less nervous when you actually meet her.

But what if you really don't know what to say and are nervous about calling an escort for the first time?


Here are 5 Tips for a Great First Call to an Escort:

1. Ask "How are you doing today?"


Asking someone this common phrase or the many variations of it is a great way to start off any conversation,
but particularly an escort. You will instantly set yourself apart from those who don't know how to talk to
an escort like a gentleman.

Asking an escort, "How are you doing today?" not only breaks the ice on a first call but shows you care and
are hopefully pleasant to be around.

Never, ever begin the phone call with a question regarding rates. I also would not recommend immediately asking
about availability. Do ask those things, but not straight away.


2. Introduce yourself.


A simple "Hi, I'm..." is a friendly, straightforward way to make an introduction like a gentleman.

Worried about giving out your name right away? Your first name is enough to introduce yourself politely,
and it will not reveal your identity; therefore, there's really no reason not to give your first name to properly introduce yourself.
Letting the person you're talking to know who they're talking to is the polite thing to do.

Yes, some escorts will want to know your first and last name at some point in their screening process.
However, it is not part of mine.



3. Use the phrase "I love."

Everyone loves a compliment, and it's not a bad thing to include in your first phone call with an escort.
If you love her photos, you might say, "I love your photos." If you enjoy reading her blog, say "I love your blog."



The rest of the tips are on my blog/website which you can find the link to in my Twitter bio

[WMJ4657]

A guy would be a fool not to "love" everything about you sweetheart!!!

[infamousrock]

Good tips. I almost always start off asking about availability and now I realize that can come off pretty transactional and too straightforward.
I will change my approach because of that and hopefully have a higher success rate.
Thanks for the tips!

[tuckahoe]

I suppose I will always be a little nervous about calling an escort.
Thank you for the well written, practical advice.
I really like a lady who can write intelligently.
That is as much a turn on as your lovely looks! And you look really fine in that red dress!
You seem like such a down to earth woman; a guy could learn to relax with you and almost forget you are an escort.
Really, you seem more like just a good lady, and your character is better than some who would look down on you.
I would be very proud to meet you.

[Baconman]

I used to be anti phone calls because it was rare for providers wanting it. But I like the idea because texting gives you the generic response. Talking to someone over the phone you can assess the vibe better and you can determine if you want to see someone or not for both parties.

[eccieuser13]

Originally Posted by Baconman

I used to be anti phone calls because it was rare for providers wanting it. But I like the idea because texting gives you the generic response. Talking to someone over the phone you can assess the vibe better and you can determine if you want to see someone or not for both parties.

Yes, discernment is so important. If you want a great experience,
you have to be willing to do some investigative work and build
rapport, and a short 3-5 minute phone call can do just that.

From my perspective, I want to know more than just the handle
that's PMing me on ECCIE or P411. I want to know more than just
the phone number of who's texting me.

Anyone, anywhere can get behind a computer and send a message or
text. I want to hear the real human who is contacting me for a
very personal interaction, and I genuinely want to get to know you.


When I talk to you and can tell you have manners and you take the
time to get acquainted, it's such a turn-on! It makes me excited
to meet you.