There are several lists out there. Some of the acronyms are debatable, in terms of getting agreement on acronym and/or definition.
Keep in mind that in "specialty" circles (BDSM, fetish play) that these groups have a very specialized sub-set of sex acronyms that may or may not translate into the hobby. (as an example, "soft swap" has a very specific meaning in the swinging lifestyle circle, but does not translate into the hobby circle).
We also have differences in hobby terms/acronyms in different parts of the county. In Texas, we talk about mulit-pop or multiple shots on goal (MSOG). In New England, the talk about "cups". In some parts they talk about "bells".
We have an abbreviated hobby acronym list as a sticky in CoEd, here.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=815391 It covers about 98% of what you will see in Texas in terms of hobby terms and acronyms.
In the military, SOF means "Special Operations Forces", such as the green berets, Navy seals, etc., for mercenaries, it means "Soldier of Fortune", to the coprophiliacs, it means "shit on face", to the lesbians, it means "sit on face", to those sexually obsessed with anime, it means "semen on figurines", basically videos of men ejaculating on an anime figurine. Here is a link to one site:
http://reddpics.com/r/cummingonfigurines/
Respectfully,
OldSarge