The Courtesan Experience

[FitzChivalry]

This is a post of gratitude to the fine ladies that provide a true Courtesan Experience. By far my favorite encounters in the hobby have all had this flavor. I don't know that I can precisely define it, and unquestionably, I know when I have experienced it. It is an immersive experience that engages the mind as much as the body and ultimately stimulates all 5 senses to the highest level of pleasure and passion.

Generally I find that there are several characteristics that are always present, and in my experience, they are more frequently found with mature ladies. They are the special touches and considerations learned over years of mastering a craft.

It begins with a smooth ability to schedule an appointment, and what feels like a genuine expression of excitement and intrigue. A flirtatious exchange in the midst of an otherwise mundane process, setting the stage for the encounter to come. They create a heightened level of anticipation and a feeling of eagerness for connection.

Then they actually prepare for the encounter. I have no idea how long this takes or how much effort is truly involved, yet I know for certain when it has occurred. Conversation seeded with insight gained from reading my profile, a room obviously staged to support the occasion, music that sets the mood (even when the playlist doubles as a timer - beats the hell out of an alarm), and her choice of attire. It doesn't have to be elaborate. I have been greeted by a lady in just a white towel and it was obvious that she had planned that presentation.

The actual greeting has ranged from a flirtatious hug to a passionate kiss. And as things build there may be a teasing dance, or she may begin removing my clothes, or her clothes, and using that to build energy in the session. Much preferred to the "why don't you get comfortable" line.
The BCD activities may be GFE or PSE, but either way they are done with passion, energy, and interest. She makes me feel like the only other person in the world (unless there are 3 of us). It creates a sensation that neither of us wants this to end. Maybe an illusion, maybe not, her enjoyment adds to my pleasure.

And the true Courtesan has an elegant conclusion to our time together. She is masterful at making this feel unrushed, and leaves me eager to return as the door closes behind me.

This feels like a disappearing art. So to the ladies who strive to provide this intense level of connection, thank you. You are appreciated.

[Morrison99]

A big part of this is, silence your damn phone! No other buzz kill like when they are checking random calls during a session.

[bobbyb1234]

OP, thanks for this post! It's reassuring to know that there are ladies that are true to their word, and actually care about being a provider.

I have a limited amount of time to hobby, so I enjoy the constant filtrations between sessions, even tiny check-ins like "miss you" or "thinking of you when I drove past XYZ" Those little things go a long way with me when I'm deciding who I'd want to spend a few hours with.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Originally Posted by FitzChivalry

This is a post of gratitude to the fine ladies that provide a true Courtesan Experience. By far my favorite encounters in the hobby have all had this flavor. I don't know that I can precisely define it, and unquestionably, I know when I have experienced it. It is an immersive experience that engages the mind as much as the body and ultimately stimulates all 5 senses to the highest level of pleasure and passion.

Generally I find that there are several characteristics that are always present, and in my experience, they are more frequently found with mature ladies. They are the special touches and considerations learned over years of mastering a craft.

It begins with a smooth ability to schedule an appointment, and what feels like a genuine expression of excitement and intrigue. A flirtatious exchange in the midst of an otherwise mundane process, setting the stage for the encounter to come. They create a heightened level of anticipation and a feeling of eagerness for connection.

Then they actually prepare for the encounter. I have no idea how long this takes or how much effort is truly involved, yet I know for certain when it has occurred. Conversation seeded with insight gained from reading my profile, a room obviously staged to support the occasion, music that sets the mood (even when the playlist doubles as a timer - beats the hell out of an alarm), and her choice of attire. It doesn't have to be elaborate. I have been greeted by a lady in just a white towel and it was obvious that she had planned that presentation.

The actual greeting has ranged from a flirtatious hug to a passionate kiss. And as things build there may be a teasing dance, or she may begin removing my clothes, or her clothes, and using that to build energy in the session. Much preferred to the "why don't you get comfortable" line.
The BCD activities may be GFE or PSE, but either way they are done with passion, energy, and interest. She makes me feel like the only other person in the world (unless there are 3 of us). It creates a sensation that neither of us wants this to end. Maybe an illusion, maybe not, her enjoyment adds to my pleasure.

And the true Courtesan has an elegant conclusion to our time together. She is masterful at making this feel unrushed, and leaves me eager to return as the door closes behind me.

This feels like a disappearing art. So to the ladies who strive to provide this intense level of connection, thank you. You are appreciated.

I THANK YOU ....
The Courtesan Experience !

[mtabsw]

My favorite "courtesan" was Shea Veille - we parted ways long ago for unrelated reasons - but she defined the word.

She is still on EROS, and I have no doubt she's continuing her Courtesan ways.

[GL page]

Ashtyn Belle was another one

[GayleMeyers]

Originally Posted by FitzChivalry

This is a post of gratitude to the fine ladies that provide a true Courtesan Experience. By far my favorite encounters in the hobby have all had this flavor. I don't know that I can precisely define it, and unquestionably, I know when I have experienced it. It is an immersive experience that engages the mind as much as the body and ultimately stimulates all 5 senses to the highest level of pleasure and passion.

Generally I find that there are several characteristics that are always present, and in my experience, they are more frequently found with mature ladies. They are the special touches and considerations learned over years of mastering a craft.

It begins with a smooth ability to schedule an appointment, and what feels like a genuine expression of excitement and intrigue. A flirtatious exchange in the midst of an otherwise mundane process, setting the stage for the encounter to come. They create a heightened level of anticipation and a feeling of eagerness for connection.

Then they actually prepare for the encounter. I have no idea how long this takes or how much effort is truly involved, yet I know for certain when it has occurred. Conversation seeded with insight gained from reading my profile, a room obviously staged to support the occasion, music that sets the mood (even when the playlist doubles as a timer - beats the hell out of an alarm), and her choice of attire. It doesn't have to be elaborate. I have been greeted by a lady in just a white towel and it was obvious that she had planned that presentation.

The actual greeting has ranged from a flirtatious hug to a passionate kiss. And as things build there may be a teasing dance, or she may begin removing my clothes, or her clothes, and using that to build energy in the session. Much preferred to the "why don't you get comfortable" line.
The BCD activities may be GFE or PSE, but either way they are done with passion, energy, and interest. She makes me feel like the only other person in the world (unless there are 3 of us). It creates a sensation that neither of us wants this to end. Maybe an illusion, maybe not, her enjoyment adds to my pleasure.

And the true Courtesan has an elegant conclusion to our time together. She is masterful at making this feel unrushed, and leaves me eager to return as the door closes behind me.

This feels like a disappearing art. So to the ladies who strive to provide this intense level of connection, thank you. You are appreciated.

Wow! And thanks for being a gentleman who gets it! A real courtesan understands that you are there for mental and emotional release, along with the physical. And you are spending a lot of coin for the experience, so making you feel at ease and respecting you are essential to any great encounter.
Quality does trump quantity for some hobbyists ... nice to hear your thoughts!

[shooter6.5]

Bliss of DFW

VERY good and has a very nice incall. She is on 411.

[TinMan]

I used to be really good at finding and appreciating the Courtesan Experience. “Unrushed” is the key, and that doesn’t necessarily mean spending hours together. Just not feeling rushed, as the OP mentioned.

Nowadays I just don’t find the time to have that kind of experience. Too many real world demands. I really need to take a half-day off work, not tell anyone, and schedule a multi-hour session with someone like….Bliss of DFW, whom I have never met but always meant to since everything I’ve heard about her convinces me that she’s one of those ladies.

[FitzChivalry]

Originally Posted by mtabsw

My favorite "courtesan" was Shea Veille

So right you are! I think about her every time I hear the Queen song Killer Queen.

[berkleigh]

Originally Posted by shooter6.5

Bliss of DFW

VERY good and has a very nice incall. She is on 411.

BLISS is great!

[SASpurfan]

Second what mtabsw stated!

[BLM69]

Not many "courtesan" these days, only a bunch of wannabes, this is why you guys talking about the ones that are gone. The good old days before Twitter

[pmdelites]

fitz, that's a great summary of a Courtesan Experience aka CE.
when a provider's Illusion of Passion focuses more on the Passion and less on the Illusion, she is a great example of knowing how these experiences work best. and someone who knows that her clients will remember that and keep cumming back for more CE.

i have experienced a CE encounter many times in my client career, tho only a few are still escorting.


btw, the "why don't you get comfortable" line is a less than enticing/stimulating approach. "Just do it" as Nike might say.

Originally Posted by FitzChivalry

This is a post of gratitude to the fine ladies that provide a true Courtesan Experience. By far my favorite encounters in the hobby have all had this flavor. I don't know that I can precisely define it, and unquestionably, I know when I have experienced it. It is an immersive experience that engages the mind as much as the body and ultimately stimulates all 5 senses to the highest level of pleasure and passion.

Generally I find that there are several characteristics that are always present, and in my experience, they are more frequently found with mature ladies. They are the special touches and considerations learned over years of mastering a craft.

It begins with a smooth ability to schedule an appointment, and what feels like a genuine expression of excitement and intrigue. A flirtatious exchange in the midst of an otherwise mundane process, setting the stage for the encounter to come. They create a heightened level of anticipation and a feeling of eagerness for connection.

Then they actually prepare for the encounter. I have no idea how long this takes or how much effort is truly involved, yet I know for certain when it has occurred. Conversation seeded with insight gained from reading my profile, a room obviously staged to support the occasion, music that sets the mood (even when the playlist doubles as a timer - beats the hell out of an alarm), and her choice of attire. It doesn't have to be elaborate. I have been greeted by a lady in just a white towel and it was obvious that she had planned that presentation.

The actual greeting has ranged from a flirtatious hug to a passionate kiss. And as things build there may be a teasing dance, or she may begin removing my clothes, or her clothes, and using that to build energy in the session. Much preferred to the "why don't you get comfortable" line.
The BCD activities may be GFE or PSE, but either way they are done with passion, energy, and interest. She makes me feel like the only other person in the world (unless there are 3 of us). It creates a sensation that neither of us wants this to end. Maybe an illusion, maybe not, her enjoyment adds to my pleasure.

And the true Courtesan has an elegant conclusion to our time together. She is masterful at making this feel unrushed, and leaves me eager to return as the door closes behind me.

This feels like a disappearing art. So to the ladies who strive to provide this intense level of connection, thank you. You are appreciated.

[DallasBella]

I agree . (also, years ago I believe Bliss Had an incall in my very same apartment building lol!)