Don't Use Code Words With Me

[Danielle Reid]

If you want to know if I offer something, ask. Don't be explicit with it but ask like an adult. Don't use code words or phrases because there's a chance I have no idea what you mean.

I spent 4 hours chatting with a guy. He asked me twice if I was a goddess and I had no idea what he meant so I said "maybe". We were 20 minutes from our date when he FINALLY asked me if I offer something...but he phrased it like he was ordering a meal at a restaurant. I figured out what he meant and told him "no". So the date was canceled because I didn't offer what he wanted.

Do. Not. Use. Code. With. Me.

Thanks!

[JdeHog]

Out of curiosity, what do you consider to be 'code'? There are plenty of terms and acronyms that get thrown around, most of which are pretty straightforward or easy to understand. I've come across a couple threads offering definitions for most of them. Are you referring to the everyday terms, or some of the more obscure euphemisms associated with the seedier side of the hobby, or something in between?

[BradPitt]

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[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by BradPitt

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I thought something was wrong with my browser at first lol

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by JdeHog

Out of curiosity, what do you consider to be 'code'? There are plenty of terms and acronyms that get thrown around, most of which are pretty straightforward or easy to understand. I've come across a couple threads offering definitions for most of them. Are you referring to the everyday terms, or some of the more obscure euphemisms associated with the seedier side of the hobby, or something in between?

I know what Greek means.
I know what Greek Goddess means.
I do NOT know what "are you a goddess?" means.

Code words bug me and I'd rather someone just use simple English instead of trying to used code. It won't keep anyone out of jail. Cops know all the lingo.

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

Code words bug me and I'd rather someone just use simple English instead of trying to used code. It won't keep anyone out of jail. Cops know all the lingo.

If I had a nickel for every police report I've read, or every time a cop has testified in a trial referencing actual code words (usually in a streetwalker situation) and then explaining them ("She asked me if I was interested in a 'date', which I understood to mean that she wanted to know if I wanted to pay her money to have sexual intercourse with her"), I could see a high dollar hottie for a minimum of a 5 hour session every day for the rest of my life with plenty of money left over to fund a very comfortable retirement.

(Slight digression: saying your review is a "dream", or "just a work of fiction for entertainment only" wouldn't keep you out of jail either; it's highly unlikely that a review would ever be used as evidence against you, but if it ever was a judge and/or jury would see right through that shit.)

Cheers,

bcg

[BobSmoot]

So what is a goddess?

[Issabella Monroe]

bobsmoot I am with you

[Panthercat]

No idea what that is either.... lol

[cboat]

Communication can be a make or break part of anything. That's the big reason I hate texting and e-mail communications. Too much left open to interpretation and what you see one way if you're in a pissy mood might be seen totally different on a good day.

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by BobSmoot

So what is a goddess?

I found it means Greek Goddess. I thought he was asking if I'm a goddess like if I look good or if I'm a queen or something silly like that. That's why I just said, "Maybe I am". Had he added the word "greek" in there, all of this could've been avoided and I could've saved 4 hours of my life.

I also found out I forgot to remove "Greek Goddess" from my P411 (which I never check because I get maybe 1 date every 4 months from that site). My bad there. But still, don't leave off important words when trying to use code.

And don't use code for sex like you're ordering a meal. "I would like an order of lamb with greek sauce."

Whisky
Tango
Foxtrot

[NWAUser]

In the context, Greek Sauce is hilarious.

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by NWAUser

In the context, Greek Sauce is hilarious.

You mean it's not tzatziki?



Cheers,

bcg

[Rockydoc]

I would have assumed Goddess was Tantric.

[MrGiz]

Not sure if it's code, but do you take it up the ass? 😮🤔