Anyone use Seeking before?

[easierrider]

Just wondering putting it out there has anyone used the site www.seeking.com before and any luck is it worth it?

[Tomb8871]

Used it when I was in another state. Looks far less active here. It is a lot of work, as most girls just dipping toe in water n not serious, or real difficult to meet or single moms.
Real hot ones n some not so hot ask ridiculous $ also, altho most are a little more than typical escort. Just a lot of work, I only found a few amateurs same level of looks but without the crazy habits or baggage of the pros, also less skilled n less uninhibited.

[DDarkness]

Others have reported a great deal of success but all comment on the amount of work that is potentially involved! Also the site is very specific on their expectations about language and members have been banned and lost their reg fees for making inappropriate comments or used provocative language. IF you do join take the conversations OFF of the site and use email/phone or speak directly to the ladies when/if you meet!

DD

[wanttohavefun]

I tried it for a month in 2017 and ended up seeing four women from it.

First suggestion: Get one of those apps that lets you add another number on your existing phone, I used textfree. Most ladies will want to stop email via the site pretty quickly to start exchanging texts and it was nice to be able to get ride of the number easily.

Second suggestion: See one of the ladies from Eccie before starting on the site. You don't want to go to these first meetings with the wrong brain in charge.


I had some success on seeking but everyone I saw had something that they held back until after they thought they had me on the hook.

A couple had pictures posted that were significantly out of date.

One was deep in the process of recovery and had chaotic availability as a result.

Another had very limited availability and things developed ridiculously slowly.

Often the first date is pretty much just a first date to talk things over and ease into the situation.

I don't regret trying it but it will most likely take several first (and possibly second) dates to get a feel for what she is looking for.

[deffekt]

Pretty successful on there. Went through about 12 girls. Turned Down quite a few because old pics no chemistry in person. Lost the first one before I got my pitch down. Anyone that has any success on seeking will tell you it's all in your sales pitch. Seeking just gives you the leads. It's up to you to close. A bit of advice. Don't treat them like escorts unless they act like one. Most of these girls are dipping their toes in.

[Tomb8871]

Originally Posted by deffekt

Pretty successful on there. Went through about 12 girls. Turned Down quite a few because old pics no chemistry in person. Lost the first one before I got my pitch down. Anyone that has any success on seeking will tell you it's all in your sales pitch. Seeking just gives you the leads. It's up to you to close. A bit of advice. Don't treat them like escorts unless they act like one. Most of these girls are dipping their toes in.

Agree. A lot of the single moms with small kid or kids, as well as college girls, are only dipping toenail of big toe in.

[bustybabygirl]

Not sure if everyone is talking about the same sites?

SeekingArrangment is very established and the top site for SD/sb

Seeking is lesser established
https://www.seeking.com

[deffekt]

What in the world are you talking about? It's the same site they rebrand to avoid fosta interference.

[bustybabygirl]

Oh. Whoops, my bad.

Let’s skip the attitude though. I live 2.5 hours away, visit 1-2x a month - and still do more “information sharing” than most of the members here.

[passionseeker38]

No worries BBG u are appreciated!🌝