Need some advice please?

[knucklez1977]

Totally new to the hobby...completely green.

I was on Ashley Madison where I met this lady who turned out to be an escort. No biggie. We passed a few emails and she directed me to this site for reviews of her and to learn more about her availability. She certainly has my keen interest and is quite beautiful. I'm recently separated from a 20 yr marriage and just want to have some companionship without stringent attachment. She has 17 positive reviews for her profile on this site and also those reviews have positive comments back, so a total of 21 or so good feedbacks. Being so green, I am obviously very concerned about stings/entrapment. My main question is if she is on this site and has that many positive reviews should I be concerned or just go for it? I sincerely appreciate the feedback!

[Aggie1987]

Reviews are legit key the thing research research research is the main idea and as always my #1 rule dnt get caught lmfao

[Road Lizard]

First, welcome!

Now you're beginning to see the hobby world and it can be a bit different that what you are used to. I don't which lady you are talking about but if she has reviews, then she is a provider(escort) and she is legit in the services she offers.

She won't get attached to you so that's no worry, you only have to worry about yourself getting attached to her...don't do it. It is her BUSINESS to make you feel great and relieved and she will give you attention while you are with her. Once the session is over, you leave her and she has to move on to take care of someone else. Enjoy the experience but don't become emotionally attached.

You've got a lot to learn about and you are in a good place to do that. Read the reviews, read the boards, and & all conversations, ask your questions and DO NOT get in a rush! There will always be good looking women around for us so don't get locked in on one particular one. One of the main reasons for being here should be for the variety.

There's so much more to tell you but honestly, reading is your best friend right now. You'll learn answers to questions you don't even realize you have right now.

And you can always send me a PM if you need help, it's what I do here.

RL

[knucklez1977]

Thanks so very much! Again, my marriage ended and I just don't want to date, etc. it's just too much drama. There's no way I will ever get 20 yrs of my married life back so I just have to hit reset and maybe do it different this time around. Been married since I was 20.

The ladie's contact on this site is Loveashley. She seems to be what I need, at least for right now. I'm not sure if that will help you help me, but maybe you take a look for me and let me know what you think sir?

[Road Lizard]

Loveashley is a legit provider and high on my list of ladies I want to meet.

I'm going to send you a PM, look for it.

[Moonchild]

Go for it, she's fun!!!

[Bigal103]

Do not get attached, I repeat, do not get attached. I am speaking from experience,
It takes a long time to mend.

Big AL

[knucklez1977]

I want to thank everyone who commented here to try and help me out. I sincerely appreciate it.

[Road Lizard]

You are welcome and ask anything you want.

[aNameinGulfport]

been there, done that

(Loveashley that is)

you are worried about strings & stings and entrapment.


She knows that I won big at a video poker machine while I was passing the time waiting to meet with her.

What did she do, repeatedly call me to arrange another date? Nope. Not once

Or maybe she wanted more $ than previously discussed? Nope.

That is the kind of stuff you are worried about (and worse) and she just wasn't way. Of course things change, YMMV and all that. And you don't know me from any other pixel on the interweb.


What I have found, speaking in general terms, is that ladies with an informative profile on eccie tend to be just like us. Decent enough people who are apprehensive about all the things we are worried about.