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Old 05-27-2015, 09:04 PM   #1
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Default Propositing an average female you barely know?

I have always had the desire to proposition a female that i barely know. Anyway, heres the deal.......
There is this female that i have the hots for. She is 28-29 and has a 3-4yo child. She used to work at some company that anyone could walk right into but trained the front end staff so she was hard to get a chat with. She made maybe 12-14hr but had to quit due to a health problem.She quit maybe 8 months ago She later got a job at the college that she attends for "a guess" 10-12hr. She just got back from a 6-8 week semister overseas in a student exchange program.

- I don't think the father is in the picture
-Average looking girl that most guys would not give a 2nd look at ..slightly fluffy with an odd hair style.
-Its clear that she has less money with the job change and 6-8 weeks off work and travel cost with being overseas for that 6-8 weeks.

So......how do i proposition a female that its clear needs the money?? My only way of contacting her is through her youtube account.
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Old 05-27-2015, 09:13 PM   #2
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Didn't you ask this question a week or so ago using one of your other handles?
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1369660
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Old 05-27-2015, 09:21 PM   #3
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Nope, that was not me. Does that person sound/type style/phrase like me? Thanks for the link though.
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Old 05-28-2015, 07:08 AM   #4
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That is a sugar baby

If you want.

Don't treat her like a hooker
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Old 05-28-2015, 07:21 AM   #5
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Nope, that was not me. Does that person sound/type style/phrase like me? Thanks for the link though.
You're welcome for the link.
Sorry, I should have added a smiley to my post, but the stories sounded very similar.
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Old 05-28-2015, 07:48 AM   #6
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Sounds like Sugar Baby scenario to me.

Why do you think she would be willing to consider going BCD with you (or anyone) for money?
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Old 05-29-2015, 04:29 PM   #7
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Whoa there, stud.

Why the fuck is your default turn her into a hooker? What's wrong with just asking her out on a date?

If she is out of your league, approach her like she is a sugar baby prospect. There are clear guides and walk throughs on the sugar baby forums for this (must be a premium member to view), but note that whenever approaching a potential SB, its a numbers game. Only 1-20% will be interested (depending on you and your game), so trying to cherrypick one person to convert to a sugar baby is generally not going to happen.
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Old 05-30-2015, 03:15 AM   #8
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I have always had the desire to proposition a female that i barely know.
Sounds like you know a hell of a lot about her. Way too much for someone you barely know and have hardly talked with. Stalkerish even.

Just ask her out on a dinner date like the normal real world does. Shockingly enough a lot of women would be extremely offended if you hinted around about whorin.
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Old 05-30-2015, 03:47 AM   #9
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Sounds like you know a hell of a lot about her. Way too much for someone you barely know and have hardly talked with. Stalkerish even.

Just ask her out on a dinner date like the normal real world does. Shockingly enough a lot of women would be extremely offended if you hinted around about whorin.


At least directly.. Lol lol
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Old 05-30-2015, 05:22 AM   #10
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Sounds like you know a hell of a lot about her. Way too much for someone you barely know and have hardly talked with. Stalkerish even.

Just ask her out on a dinner date like the normal real world does. Shockingly enough a lot of women would be extremely offended if you hinted around about whorin.
If i just wanted sex, i could do alot better then this. I'm wanting a relationship with her and am trying to proposition her to get into the relationship. I'd tell her how much i cared about her and offer to help her with bills one time and she would feel compelled to date me a few times.
As the saying goes.... an escort, you pay to leave. A girlfriend, you pay to stay
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Old 05-30-2015, 06:24 AM   #11
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With that attitude I can see how you're aware that she would need to be attracted to your money and not your stellar personality.

Stop being a freak and either ask her out like a normal person, or just pretend she already got a restraining order against you and leave her alone. There are plenty of women who already offer their time and bodies for money. If she hasn't put it out there that she'd be interested in such a deal, then quit being an asshole. She's in her late twenties, which means she's old enough to know her own mind. She's probably not like a 19 year old, impressionable and impulsive. If you want to manipulate someone into doing what you want for what piddling amount you're probably willing to part with, find someone younger and dumber.

Seriously, the way you expressed this was creepy as hell.
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Old 05-31-2015, 12:28 AM   #12
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If i just wanted sex, i could do alot better then this. I'm wanting a relationship with her and am trying to proposition her to get into the relationship. I'd tell her how much i cared about her and offer to help her with bills one time and she would feel compelled to date me a few times.
As the saying goes.... an escort, you pay to leave. A girlfriend, you pay to stay
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Old 05-31-2015, 08:35 AM   #13
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OP...dude...hobbying has desensitized your personality when it comes to interacting with women.

Personal relationships are not about the money and that seems what you are using as your ace card. That is why some have suggested or assumed you are seeking a SD/SB relationship. But later you state you are not...so then act like a man and approach this the right way. Its about finding a way to tell her that from a distance she caught your eye for some unknown reason and that your would like to take her to lunch some time....or dinner...or whatever. And don't pressure her. Tell her its completely up to her if she wants to or not...and expect that it will NOT happen because those are the real world odds for all guys, not just creepers.

Assuming you are not married, seek out a gal that you know and that could help you with fine-tuning that or some other approach. Maybe your sister, maybe a neighbor, maybe an ex-wife, ex-girlfriend, co-worker...someone you know is a friend and that will advise you with thoughtfulness and wants you to succeed. Oh, and don't ask for the help of someone that is your subordinate at work in case that crosses your mind...even if she seems to be a friend outside of work. Bad idea.

Caroline Davenport comments above...+1.

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PS. Stop stalking her facebook page.
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Old 05-31-2015, 08:35 AM   #14
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If i just wanted sex, i could do alot better then this. I'm wanting a relationship with her and am trying to proposition her to get into the relationship. I'd tell her how much i cared about her and offer to help her with bills one time and she would feel compelled to date me a few times.
As the saying goes.... an escort, you pay to leave. A girlfriend, you pay to stay
Why would you want to pay to hang around an ugly girl with problems? They will give it up for free!!!
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