Not professional !

[Kcguyks]

So...
Not going to name anyone, but I think it’s important that I bring this up!
On 28th I setup an appointment with someone for 1st at 11 AM.
Texted at at 10 am on 1st to confirm if we were still on! She replied back saying can’t do it now and will be available later in the evening.
I understand urgent thing do come up. She said she will be available after 3 PM.
I texted her again at 3 to confirm if we were still on! Got a message back that she can’t do it incalls and can only do out and said she can’t do it now, however will be available later in the evening.
I expressed I wanted to see her for a couple of hours in the evening and finalized on the deal.

Texted her at 7 then at 9 again and never heard back from her.
Not sure if I am being to pushy. Was honest and told here that I really wanted to see her as according to me she has the best reviews (no offense to other ladies ) here.

Not a good experience and was hoping to atleast hear something back

I am new here and may be it’s common to treat newbies like this here on this portal,but I feel being an adult it’s important to atleast keep it clear and updated!
Just don’t leave people hanging, lol not a good feeling

[Guest030219]

If she is a member on this board, why not put her handle out there. I think ncns should be the new norm here in kc. Ask Savannah Moon and other providers willing to throw my handle into the chum. Sir if you ncns. You're on a DNS list. Don't let providers have a different standard when just tonight, in another coed thread about myself, They wanted my handle posted.

[yourdesire]

NCNS is rude regardless IMO

[bilbobaggin]

Originally Posted by Kcguyks

I am new here and may be it’s common to treat newbies like this here on this portal,but I feel being an adult it’s important to atleast keep it clear and updated!
Just don’t leave people hanging, lol not a good feeling

It's got nothing to do with newbie status, it's par for the course in this hobby, unfortunately. Certain people have a long track history of this, and most of the time you need a backup plan for any date, because of the extremely high occurrence of this. Just part of the hobby. I would say post the name in coed to try and try to discourage future behavior, but it's probably won't.

[woody4eroticfun]

Business must be really good at the moment, sometimes you just cant give money away...

Its not just with newbies, unfortunately it happens to me too. Some ladies just lack good business sense. Just move on, there are plenty of other options.

[SweetSuzanna]

Sorry that happened to you babe. I hope the next lady will treat you with more respect.

[KatiforYou]

Technically it’s not a ncns if you get cancelled on an hour before. Most providers have real life stuff.

Also it’s not finalizing the deal if it’s text me when you’re free. It’s finalizing the deal if you set an appointment with an actual time and address for outcall

[Audrey Astor]

That is no bueno. It’s bad our end too with lots of convo etc, then nothing. I don’t make back up plans. I guess I can get a pretty good feel for flakiness or non-flakiness. Why not talk to the other guys, and see if there are reliable ladies that interest you? Things do come up, but not as OFTEN as excuses are made. We get the, “ oh my boss just called me into a meeting, sorry I can’t make it.” Lol. Really? Sorry, and hope things get better for you.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Common courtesy goes a long way in this world and in the real world.

As for last minute stuff, Audrey is quite correct.

Originally Posted by Audrey Astor

....Things do come up, but not as OFTEN as excuses are made....

[KatiforYou]

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[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Kcguyks

So...
....
On 28th I setup an appointment with someone for 1st at 11 AM.
Texted at at 10 am on 1st to confirm if we were still on! She replied back saying can’t do it now and will be available later in the evening.

She said she will be available after 3 PM.
I texted her again at 3 to confirm if we were still on! Got a message back that she can’t do it incalls and can only do out and said she can’t do it now, however will be available later in the evening.

Texted her at 7 then at 9 again and never heard back from her.

Just don’t leave people hanging, lol not a good feeling

It sounds like she had something happening that prevented an incall, and it may not have had anything to do with the hobby.

Maybe just maybe, you pushed her at a point of time that was not right for her. She could have sent a test back after 7, but remember these people are females with their own emotions. this can be a very rough business for women, sometimes ladies just reach a point of "not today".

I you were looking forward to seeing her, give her some space and text back at a later date with some understanding.
You might be surprised.

[CaptainKaos]

Originally Posted by KatiforYou

Technically it’s not a ncns if you get cancelled on an hour before. Most providers have real life stuff.

Also it’s not finalizing the deal if it’s text me when you’re free. It’s finalizing the deal if you set an appointment with an actual time and address for outcall

What she said.

A long while ago, it used to be that hobbying in this town meant, knowing someone who knew someone, trusting ads in the back of the KC Pitch or driving around aimlessly fishing for whatever you could catch and praying you don't get rolled.

Getting cancelled on can be a pain, but it happens in every profession. If you're of the mind that canceling / rescheduling pains you a lot, odds are you wouldn't have had much fun with the person who cancelled on you anyway.

[Guest041919]

It does suck when you are just looking to make that connection and the whole thing flies southward but the gist of your post didn't sound as if anything malicious was at hand. If it left a bad taste in your mouth I would just chalk it up to misunderstanding. You might try again with a new provider and find it makes you forget all about this glitch and that it was just that, a glitch.