Sarah, that is a visual of rrabbit I do NOT want seared into my brain. LOL We actually hang out together at the local strip club scouting out possible conquests and sharing war stories
Down here, things are a bit different. A lot of guys see BP girls who don't know what screening is, so they are just accustomed to calling a girl and expecting to set up a date. A lot of our recent local providers have come from the BP world, so lack of screening is more the norm here. I've actually mentored a lot of the new girls and have told them they need to learn how to screen.
Another factor is that most of the business down here is repeat. I can text or call a girl I've seen several times and the thought of screening just isn't there. Also a lot of us play no Seeking Arrangement where it is more like dating than hobbying, so screening is no common there.
It is different here, but don't feel pressured into accepting our norms. Screen away and if a douche bag cusses you out, you are better off for not seeing him.