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Old 01-06-2015, 05:47 PM   #1
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Below is a PM thread I had with a provider. I've reordered it so the oldest message is at the top and replaced any escort identification with Xs. Is she crazy or did I do something wrong?




Her reply @ 1:13PM on Tuesday:






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Her reply @ 2:39PM:



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Old 01-06-2015, 05:50 PM   #2
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Change hobbies.
You're too sensitive for this one.
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Old 01-06-2015, 06:00 PM   #3
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I think posting private messages is wrong.

Just move on too many other fish to catch.
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Old 01-06-2015, 06:19 PM   #4
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Don't attempt to book same day appointments (or appointments in general, but certainly not short notice) via PM

Is she an idiot? Probably

But where you went wrong is you failed to idiot proof your communication...
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Old 01-06-2015, 06:46 PM   #5
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Golf rocks... Ijs
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Old 01-06-2015, 06:53 PM   #6
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There are all range of beliefs about how long it is reasonable to wait for a reply before moving to plan B. Your timeline falls in the gray area for most ladies I deal with. When you send it at 11:00 PM she may well be asleep, or working. She may well not have even seen it until morning some time, and then how qui key can she be expected to check your reference?

You can reduce the odds of this by some combination of the following:
--give more than a few hours lead time
--let her know when you expect to hear back by, or you will look elsewhere
--don't wait until 11PM to write unless you know she is a night owl
--do the leg work to let your reference know the request for a reference may be coming with a short turn time
--get a P411 and/or D-C account to potentially reduce screeni g time

I generally try to arrange a date a week or more ahead because coordination and reference checks, especially via e-mail or PMs, can take a while.
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Old 01-06-2015, 09:31 PM   #7
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Send her another PM.
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Old 01-07-2015, 02:18 AM   #8
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As a woman and provider the only thing I would of wanted you to do differently is maybe text me if you had a phone number ans say I pmed you on eccie ..My notifications by email on this site stopped working may moons ago..one day I was getting emails letting me know I had a message then one day it stopped so I no longer get emails and on traveling days or busy days or days like today wheen the enternet at the damn hotel is down and I have to use my hot spot I am un able to be on all day and waking hrs...
So a friendly reminder that you have sent a message is nice.
Her response well is her respose would not of been my response but I am not her.
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Old 01-07-2015, 03:06 AM   #9
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What others have said. Things always go much smoother if you have a deadline listed in your request.

Also it helps to give your hobby number. Your references might have forgotten your handle but their records should still have your hobby number. I don't now how many times I've checked references only to have a delay caused by the girl needing the hobby number to connect the fact that "Matt" she's seen for the past year is indeed "Hobbyist123".
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Old 01-07-2015, 03:41 AM   #10
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Quote:
Originally Posted by DanTheCanCanMan View Post
Below is a PM thread I had with a provider. I've reordered it so the oldest message is at the top and replaced any escort identification with Xs. Is she crazy or did I do something wrong?




Her reply @ 1:13PM on Tuesday:






My reply @ 1:42PM:



Her reply @ 2:39PM:



My reply @ 3:00PM:

Edit by EA #9 - No form of private communications between members are to be posted in our forums. This includes the contents of emails, PMs, IMs, private chat logs, privately shared images, etc. This is an invasion of another's privacy and will not be allowed.





Depending on her information & requirements that are clearly missing because we are not looking at her showcase or site, you obviously didn't read something. I find it weak minded on your part to lead us to believe you are innocent without the other person present & able to defend themselves. Stroking your ego is not our position.
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Old 01-07-2015, 05:56 AM   #11
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YES!! First, you tried to book somebody you don't know on short notice - Then you booked somebody else on even shorter notice - Then you engaged in a "debate" with a hooker who answered you in plenty of time for your first request trying to explain yourself. Then you responded to her when she clearly states "no need to respond".... Then you posted a PM in the Main Forum looking for support (which has to be against some kind of rule)

No shortage of wrong here! Move along....
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