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outoftp · 05-29-2014, 08:56 PM

So first off, I want to apologize to a specific provider. I fucked up. I should've just waited til I was actually there. I won't make that mistake again.
The RoS:
So tonight I was going to go see a provider in Houston. I was super excited. I had finally graduated from newbie status. I picked a provider and set a time. As the time to leave (I planned a solid 2 hours travel time although gmaps told me 1 1/2.) approached, I got prepped and headed to my car.
Only to notice that 2 of my tires had bursted. I was pretty angry. I let the provider know that I could not make it on time. But I got lucky(not really), a friend of mine had spare tires. I quickly replaced it and let her know that I would be omw but late if that was okay with her. She said sure, and so I head out. During this time, I was so excited. But then what happens? Literally, about 4 or 5 cars down, a massive car crash. I shit you not, a pickup just straight up tboned this accord (or some other small car). So here I am stuck in traffic, trying to explain to the provider how I'm now stuck in traffic, trying my best not to sound like a complete clown, all the while police and EMS are surrounding the area. Nope, shes pissed. For good reason. I wasted her time.
Hell, I wasted my time. And my gas. And my tires.
So yeah. Fuck.

SpanishMami · 05-30-2014, 05:48 AM

Whammy! I've had stuff like that happen to me. Sorry. I look at it this way, those unfortunate events happened for a reason. Perhaps someone was looking out for you

if you're interested in making it to me or need an outcall give me a shout!

TemptationTammie · 05-30-2014, 11:05 AM

Here in TX, accidents are normal. It sounds far-fetched, but things do happen at times that can't be helped

outoftp · 05-30-2014, 11:18 AM

Yeah, I'll take it as a sign and thank god it wasn't me a few cars up.
I actually took pictures when I was still towards the back of the giant line of cars waiting to get by. I felt it was disrespectful to take pictures and videos while people were being carted off and what not. I'd rather just take being called a time waster than being that asshole that was taking pictures of peoples misfortune, just so I can have "proof."
What would y'all want someone in my position to do? As known providers (I'm assuming y'all get a lot of people wanting to see you), what would be the best way to handle something like this?

SpanishMami · 05-30-2014, 11:38 AM

I just say shit happens, & honestly, on a time gap like that, I'd be efficient with that time & squeeze in a massage, bng, or quick visit so my nights not a total loss. "getting on my grind" so to speak

outoftp · 05-30-2014, 11:41 AM

Lol. A true professional right there.
Thanks

TemptationTammie · 05-30-2014, 12:04 PM

I"m sure the provider thought it was BS, but maybe see if another provider was available with short notice since she was pissed.
Honestly, I would have thought you were just playing games, but I'm sure the accident should have been on the radio so that could lend some credibility to your story. Maybe she will give you a second chance. If she won't, then just move on to the next lady.

SpanishMami · 05-30-2014, 02:20 PM

youd be surprised by how many people don't pay attention to the media...

secpro · 05-30-2014, 04:35 PM

> I should've just waited til I was actually there. I won't make that mistake again.
I've waited until I was in Houston twice. I won't do that again. In Houston, unlike College Station, waiting until the last minute seems to guarantee that nobody you want to see will be available.

Worldtravler · 05-30-2014, 05:06 PM

I haven't ever heard of such a thing or seen such a thing. Car tires just don't blow up sitting still flat maybe. And you stated you were 4-5 cars down from crash so how was traffic such a issue you should have been one of the first toget around the accident unless it was a eighteen wheeler layed acrossed the HWY. So if I was the provider I would be pissed cause the story just sounds like BS. Hope she doesn't put your number and handle in the national black list form.

Your Dezire · 05-30-2014, 07:02 PM

I agree with the Ladies it happened for reason

I have had so many crazy things like that happen to me. When I first joined every M&G I attempted to go to CRAZY things like that happen to me. The last one I was actually in a car wreck ughh lol I just gave up. I can see her getting mad. However things really do happen, and as A provider Im not going to assume someone is just pulling crap. I guess I am more patient. Yes I know its because im old lol. "Your Calling" is what people do who are for real usually. NO CALL NO SHOW that's different, Or if you had done this type of thing to her before. Then it would be to the DNA list. Brush it off Sweetheart it will work itself out.

SpanishMami · 05-31-2014, 06:23 AM

dezire is right, but hey, if you're passing thru my neck of the woods give me a shout. And as far as the DNA/ncns list, i only have my no-no list based on personal experience & safety threatening alerts. I don't base mine on every individual providers experience. (excuses are like assholes, everybodys got one... But, is your excuse the unique winner for me to give a 2nd chance

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hairytxn · 05-31-2014, 07:31 AM

One time I was in ATX and a girl I'd wanted to see for years was in town. Easy schedule for several hours later. That weekend my bank reset ATM codes without warning. On the bright side the girl was caught in traffic coming back from SA so it was a mutual cancel.

Worldtravler · 05-31-2014, 07:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Your Dezire

Yes I know its because im old lol.)

Your not old

your in your prime

Anyways that hardly works trying to set up appointment with a lady at the last minute unless you seen her before or your browsing BP and that's not always a giving.

SpanishMami · 05-31-2014, 09:02 AM

i don't do last minute anything just because if my gent doesn't wanna feel rushed, I don't wanna be rushed either. I gladly let BP gents know my right to refuse service for any reason applies to providing just like any other business. so I may seem like a bitch, but I give zero damns because I firmly believe all money isn't good money & dicks are a dime a dozen, theres another one waiting. just like theres another provider whos more into "right nows"....