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Go4it · 05-09-2009, 02:40 AM

I posted this in the "sister" site, but am posting it again here just in case there is a hobbyiest or a provider here who is not on the other site. (NOTE: Besides, I like this site A LOT and want to contribute to keep it going)
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Kudos to a Lady who screens!

I had a very unusual situation take place today and would like to salute the lady who caused it.

I have been in this hobby for just under 9 years. I don't even want to count the number of ladies I have seen. While not in the numbers of Wilt Chamberland, the number isn't small. And in all that time, I have NEVER been turned down by screening. NEVER!

But today, for whatever reason, a lady decided not to see me because I didn't pass her screening.

And my response to that is --- YOU GO GIRL! GOOD FOR YOU! If you aren't comfortable, for whatever reason, don't do it. Neither of us was hurt by your decision and I'm sure you feel a lot better.

I hope the rest of you are following those same guidelines.

steverino50 · 05-09-2009, 07:44 AM

Go4it...great post. I bet you get some disagreement here but NOT from me. I don't ever want the lady to be uncomfortable....with screening or anything else: Session length, activities, reviews, whatever. And I pretty much always manage a great time.

Rather than spend time with someone who is nervous, distracted, or disinterested, I would rather be with someone who is glad I am there and focused on me (at least for the hour

. A little courtesy (and dare I say...respect) goes a long way...at least for me.

guest123009 · 05-09-2009, 10:28 AM

What do you use for screening credentials?

fawn · 05-09-2009, 05:11 PM

i know it is a hassle guys, and it is weird that a lot of us ladies screen so differently, some will take jobs and licenses as references and some wont...like me you MUST have at least 2 provider references or p411....what is a guy to do....I am pretty strict on my screening...because i have a real job and a lot at stake....not that all the girls dont!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I just believe all money is not good money when it comes to taking any chances with my safety or my life... hope you guys understand......

steverino50 · 05-09-2009, 05:57 PM

P411 rocks. Repeat visits make life simple. I have an awesome rotation...at least for me.

guest123009 · 05-09-2009, 06:21 PM

Same here. I have never been screened out but I have only been at this for a few years and only seen maybe a couple of dozen different ladies. I have been refused service by one lady because of my weight though.

Go4it · 05-09-2009, 07:46 PM

I won't get into what I use for screening because this thread is not about how to screen or who to use, etc, etc, etc. It's not about me. It's about ladies doing the right thing when it just doesn't seem right to them for whatever reason.

guest123009 · 05-09-2009, 10:55 PM

I was just curious. I will start a new thread.