ATF's and older men

[ziggy48]

I am an older gentleman 60+, few pounds overweight and can't do the things I could when I was 30
I have never used a provider until now.
I was looking for an affair with out all the strings and drama. However I wanted a bit more of a connection than just that. I wanted to connect with someone that would connect with me. I guess be an ATF.
I now believe this is unreasonable thinking on my part.. The favorites of a provider I believe would be much younger, fit and of course great "ability" (goes along with fit). I have none of that . After all why wouldn't a provider want someone like themselves. Why settle for less? So I now believe the best I can expect is to meet some wonderful women and have fun but expect no more.
My questions are:
Do the older gentlemen find it the same way?
Do the providers find their ATF's are not the older men but mostly the younger fit ones?

[bbkid]

ziggy, I thinck I get what you are asking. However, for you to find an ATF, sir, you need to see a few different ladies. How else will you know if she is your favorite?

Sounds like you are looking for a real gf and this is NOT the place for that. Best of luck to you.

I will ad, though, there are plenty of our outstanding ladies here that would welcome your age and size. So, don't let that deter you.

[Don T. Lukbak]

Believe it or not, your marital status will be the most significant determinant of the nature of your connection with a Sister of Mercy.

A strong personal connection seems to develop almost inevitably between two unmarried people who share intimacy over a long time span. Unless, that is, you begin and engage in the relationship with that as a goal. If you don't have any kind of goal other than living in the moment and doing the right thing for her, the closeness will follow. If you're a man on a mission you will run her off.

If, however, either of you is married, all I can envision out of that would be a best case of serial physically satisfying commercial transactions; worst case, family destruction.

Now that I've outlived all my friends except my dick, the only friends I have are hookers, and a couple of them are as good a friend as any I ever had.

[ziggy48]

Sorry, I ment to post this in co-ed group. Please respond to it in there.
Thank you (senior moment)