Provider Screening, and other questions

[FÜN]

I'm a newbie here, and have a few questions I could not find answers to using the search function. If they have been covered, I would appreciate a link, and will read through any previous thread.

I have set an appointment with an ECCIE verified provider who has a few reviews. She did not do any kind of screening. Should I be concerned?

This will be an outcall. What should I look for to make sure LE is not an issue?

Any other suggestions or tips for the new guy would be appreciated.

Thanks in advance.

[MelindaMadison]

well..if it was too easy for you to get in the door ...

1. it will be easy for LE to get in the door.
2. you inadvertently gave her enough info for her to determine who you were- and she screened invisibly and was Ok with it (that often happens)
3. she has "security" on site (BF ..or worst) so caring about her own safety is not a concern.
4. LE took over her acct (if she got in trouble by not screening in the past and let them in the door also)

Take Your Choice.... it can be any...but you have to ask yourself..why anyone would just let anyone in?

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

Not the be all and end all by any means but how many reviews does she have and what did they say about any concerns? Also, are you checking alerts and any general drama on your local board? And how do you define "no screening"?

[Raw dog]

What I do and you can take for what is worth is

1. Never give your really name! Her name isn't Cinnamon.
2. Never use you really phone get a throw away with a fake name. Cost 20.00
3. Never tell her where you work. Don't want anyone showing up for a tip
4. Never tell her the make and model car you drive.
5. Never bring ID or wallet or more than you wanted to spend.
6. Check your surroundings check Bathroom under the bed, closet everywhere
7. Lock the door with the privacy lock.
8. Set your self a timer. You paid for an hour set it for 50 mins and tell her
9. Ask that she turn off her phone or silence it.
10. Always tell them when you give them the donation that this is for the modeling
11. Count toothbrushes and look for men's shoes.
12. Get to the site early but tell her your still on your way.


I live by these rules if any are broken Are not done your in for a bad time.

Oh and keep a good buddy number with you in case LE does bust your ass. You don't want to have to call your SO to bail you out.

[FÜN]

Thanks for the responses.

I have given her no personal info, number is a burner, etc. so, I don't think she screened me invisibly. Would "security" come up to the room to say hi with her, or hang in the car and play angry birds?

Three reviews, most recent one was in August (5 months ago). Not sure if she took a vacation or what.

Raw, how'd you know her name's Cinnamon? (or was that Sinamon?)

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

Three reviews with most recent one August does not give you much to go on. Your gut is asking questions. Listen to it and find another provider. Even if all is well, going in in your current mental state about her is not conducive to you enjoying yourself - especially if it's your first time. And if that's an issue, what's the point in the first place?

[MelindaMadison]

OMG. what kind of providers are you trolling for? that's advice if someone is doing the "streets gone internet" crowd.. you won't find those measures necessary if you choose a proven , reviewed companion with some solid history out there. Namely: be smart. choose well. The advice below is only necessary if you are slumming it. wow. smh.

Originally Posted by Raw dog

What I do and you can take for what is worth is

1. Never give your really name! Her name isn't Cinnamon.
2. Never use you really phone get a throw away with a fake name. Cost 20.00
3. Never tell her where you work. Don't want anyone showing up for a tip
4. Never tell her the make and model car you drive.
5. Never bring ID or wallet or more than you wanted to spend.
6. Check your surroundings check Bathroom under the bed, closet everywhere
7. Lock the door with the privacy lock.
8. Set your self a timer. You paid for an hour set it for 50 mins and tell her
9. Ask that she turn off her phone or silence it.
10. Always tell them when you give them the donation that this is for the modeling
11. Count toothbrushes and look for men's shoes.
12. Get to the site early but tell her your still on your way.


I live by these rules if any are broken Are not done your in for a bad time.

Oh and keep a good buddy number with you in case LE does bust your ass. You don't want to have to call your SO to bail you out.

[joesmo888]

first time can be scary but do your homework and if you have a bad feeling at any point in the process then don't go through with it.

[Guest123018]

Originally Posted by MelindaMadison

OMG. what kind of providers are you trolling for? that's advice if someone is doing the "streets gone internet" crowd.. you won't find those measures necessary if you choose a proven , reviewed companion with some solid history out there. Namely: be smart. choose well. The advice below is only necessary if you are slumming it. wow. smh.

Pay Raw dog no attention

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

Pay Raw dog no attention, but be sure to post taint photos.

Just helping ...

[SA Angel]

Generally, LE prefers not to do outcalls because it places their people at greater risk. However, if the lady did NO screening whatsoever I would be wary. Are those reviews very recent? Are there mentions of bad habits that might motivate her to act....unladylike? Are you really a newbie? Maybe an old lady friend of your spilled the beans and your potential date is familiar with your reputation.

If I was you I would pass but I'm pretty risk-adverse.

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by Raw dog

What I do and you can take for what is worth is

1. Never give your really name! Her name isn't Cinnamon.
2. Never use you really phone get a throw away with a fake name. Cost 20.00
3. Never tell her where you work. Don't want anyone showing up for a tip
4. Never tell her the make and model car you drive.
5. Never bring ID or wallet or more than you wanted to spend.
6. Check your surroundings check Bathroom under the bed, closet everywhere
7. Lock the door with the privacy lock.
8. Set your self a timer. You paid for an hour set it for 50 mins and tell her
9. Ask that she turn off her phone or silence it.
10. Always tell them when you give them the donation that this is for the modeling
11. Count toothbrushes and look for men's shoes.
12. Get to the site early but tell her your still on your way.


I live by these rules if any are broken Are not done your in for a bad time.

Oh and keep a good buddy number with you in case LE does bust your ass. You don't want to have to call your SO to bail you out.

If you have to do all this shit every time you want to see someone, choose a higher class of woman and do your homework BEFORE the date......geeeez!!

[atlcomedy]

Originally Posted by SAangel27

Generally, LE prefers not to do outcalls because it places their people at greater risk. However, if the lady did NO screening whatsoever I would be wary. Are those reviews very recent? Are there mentions of bad habits that might motivate her to act....unladylike? Are you really a newbie? Maybe an old lady friend of your spilled the beans and your potential date is familiar with your reputation.

If I was you I would pass but I'm pretty risk-adverse.

I agree with this but for a different reason. It is less about risk. It is much, much more resource intensive to pull off an outcall sting b/c they have less control over the set up.

However, with an outcall (that isn't your hotel room) you should really think long and hard about who you invite over. (whole different topic/don't want to hijack your thread into incall vs. outcall.

Just curious, how far out did you book this appointment? Maybe she hasn't screened you yet?