I want a fetish

[malonely]

OK I feel like I am missing out on something here. I see all these people with all these fetishes and I feel like I am missing out. I want a fetish, I just don't know what it would be.

I am looking for suggestions for a fetish that would turn my sex life into overdrive. I am not into pain so all the bdsm stuff doesn't really appear to me. Is the only really kinky fetish out there pain related? There must be something out there that isn't centered around pain.

[Tiger]

Why don't you become a furry?

[Gotyour6]

Abasiophilia

People with impaired mobility[3]


Acrotomophilia

People with amputations[4][5]


Agalmatophilia

Statues, mannequins and immobility[6]


Algolagnia

Pain, particularly involving an erogenous zone; differs from masochism as there is a biologically different interpretation of the sensation rather than a subjective interpretation[7]


Andromimetophilia

Trans men[3][8]


Anililagnia

Attraction by young men to older women[9]


Apotemnophilia

Having an amputation[4][10]


Asphyxiophilia

Asphyxiation or strangulation[4]


Attraction to disability

People with one or more physical disabilities.[11]


Autagonistophilia

Being on stage or on camera[12][13]


Autassassinophilia

Being in life-threatening situations[4]


Autoandrophilia

A cis-woman imagining herself as a male[14][15]


Autoerotic asphyxiation

Self-induced asphyxiation, sometimes to the point of near unconsciousness[13]


Autogynephilia

A cis-man imagining himself as a female[16]


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Autoplushophilia

The image of one's self in the form of a plush or anthropomorphized animal.[17]


Autovampirism

The image of one's self in the form of a vampire.[18]


Autozoophilia

The image of one's self in the form of a plush or anthropomorphized animal.[17]


Biastophilia

Rape of an unconsenting person; see also consensual rape fantasy[4]


Chremastistophilia

Being robbed or held up[12]


Chronophilia

Partners of a widely differing chronological age[12]


Coprophilia

Feces; also known as scat, scatophilia or fecophilia[1][19]


Dacryphilia

Tears or crying[20]


Diaper fetishism

Diapers; considerable overlap with paraphilic infantilism[21]


Dendrophilia

Trees[4]


Emetophilia

Vomit[3]


Erotic asphyxiation

Asphyxia of oneself or others[22]

Exhibitionism

Exposing one's genitals to unsuspecting and nonconsenting others[1]


Feederism

Erotic eating, feeding, and weight gain.[23]


Foot fetishism

Attraction to feet[24]


Formicophilia

Being crawled on by insects[12][25]


Forniphilia

Turning a human being into a piece of furniture[26]


Frotteurism

Rubbing against a non-consenting person[1]


Gerontophilia

Elderly people[27]


Gynandromorphophilia

Transsexual or transgender women [3][28]


Gynemimetophilia

Transsexual or transgender women [3][29]


Heterophilia

Attraction to, fetishization, or sexualized idealization of heterosexuality and/or people who are "straight-acting," especially by non-heterosexual people.[30][31][32]


Homeovestism

Wearing clothing emblematic of one's own sex[33][34]


Hybristophilia

Criminals, particularly for cruel or outrageous crimes[12][35]


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Kleptophilia

Stealing; also known as kleptolagnia[3]


Klismaphilia

Enemas, either giving or having[3]


Lactophilia

Breast milk[37]


Liquidophilia

Immersing genitals in liquids[37]


Macrophilia

Giants, primarily domination by giant women or men[37]


Masochism

Suffering; being beaten, bound or otherwise humiliated[1]


Mechanophilia

Cars or other machines; also "mechaphilia."[38][39][40]


Menophilia

Menstruation[37]


Morphophilia

Particular body shapes or sizes[13]


Mucophilia

Mucus[37]


Mysophilia

Dirtiness, soiled or decaying things[3]


Narratophilia

Obscene words[3]


Nasophilia

Noses[37]


Navel fetishism

Sexual attraction to navels - either their own or someone else's.[41]


Necrophilia

Corpses[1][3][42]


Objectophilia

pronounced emotional desire towards specific inanimate objects[1]


Olfactophilia

Smells[3][12]


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Partialism

Specific, non-genital body parts[1][3]

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Peodeiktophilia

Exposing one's penis[4]


Pedovestism

Dressing like a child[45]


Pictophilia

Pornography or erotic art, particularly pictures[3][12]


Piquerism

Sexual gratification through penetration of another person, most commonly by stabbing or cutting the body with sharp objects.[46]


Plushophilia

Sexual attraction to stuffed toy animals (Plushies).[47]


Pygophilia

Buttocks[48]


Pyrophilia

Fire[49]


Raptophilia

Committing rape, possibly consensual rape fantasy[12]


Sadism

Inflicting pain on others[1]


Salirophilia

Soiling or dirtying others[3]


Sexual fetishism

Nonliving objects[1]


Somnophilia

Sleeping or unconscious people[3][12]


Sthenolagnia

Muscles and displays of strength[37]


Stigmatophilia

Body piercings and tattoos[4][37]


Symphorophilia

Witnessing or staging disasters such as car accidents[4]


Telephone scatologia

Obscene phone calls, particularly to strangers; also known as telephonicophilia[1][12]


Teratophilia

Deformed or monstrous people[51]


Toucherism

Touching an unsuspecting, non-consenting person with the hand.[52]


Transvestic fetishism

Wearing clothes associated with the opposite sex; also known as transvestism[1]


Transvestophilia

A transvestite sexual partner[12]


Trichophilia

Hair[37]


Troilism

Cuckoldism, watching one's partner have sex with someone else, possibly without the third party's knowledge; also known as triolism[13][53]


Urolagnia

Urination, particularly in public, on others, and/or being urinated on. Also referred to as "water sports"[1][3][12][13]


Vampirism

Attraction to or involving blood[54][55]


Vorarephilia

The idea of eating or being eaten by others; sometimes swallowed whole, in one piece[56]


Voyeurism

Watching others while naked or having sex, generally without their knowledge; also known as scopophilia or scoptophilia.[1][13]


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[DallasRain]

wow==that is one helluva list! lol


how bout candle wax play???

[ElisabethWhispers]

I'd like to invite you to Another Realm to ask this very same question.

Sometimes, a person will feel something is "missing" and it might not involve fetish or alternative play. Perhaps it's a feeling that you're missing?

So often, as others will share, being "alternative" could be as simple as rubbing different types of materials (and fur!) over your body and your private areas.

Just a soft and sensual sensation play. Or you might like to be teased until your back arches and you cannot stand it.

There are simple ideas to try first (a teasing and elongated blowjob with some anal play?) that I don't consider a fetish at all but some might!

When you're laying in bed at night and your thoughts are slowing down and they turn to sensuality, what do you think about?

What I think about is pretty extreme and I wouldn't wish to actually do what I'm thinking of. However, sometimes I imagine a few prettier situations as well.

Find out what YOU might find intriguing and then contact someone who seems as if they could fulfill that desire.

And then come back and tell us EVERYTHING!

[ElisabethWhispers]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

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Forniphilia

Turning a human being into a piece of furniture[26]


Frotteurism

Rubbing against a non-consenting person[1]


Gerontophilia

Elderly people[27]


Gynandromorphophilia

Transsexual or transgender women [3][28]


Gynemimetophilia

Transsexual or transgender women [3][29]


Heterophilia

Attraction to, fetishization, or sexualized idealization of heterosexuality and/or people who are "straight-acting," especially by non-heterosexual people.[30][31][32]


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NOOOOOO PROHIBITED CONTENT
Kleptophilia

Stealing; also known as kleptolagnia[3]


Klismaphilia

Enemas, either giving or having[3]


Lactophilia

Breast milk[37]


Liquidophilia

Immersing genitals in liquids[37]


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I've reported this post to the mods in this area because so many of these activities are not allowed to be discussed (or even mentioned) or Eccie but also, this list in no way actually representative of the average (whatever that means) kinks of most.

Yes. I know that I'm over generalizing but most people in this lifestyle are very concerned about being safe, sane and consensual. Many of the acts above, including the mention of murder, isn't anything like that AND isn't representative of the lifestyle overall.

Also, the new term is RACK, instead of SSC. RACK means: Risk Aware Consensual Kink.

[Gotyour6]

You repost the ones that arent allowed lol
How fucking rich.

Its a list from Wiki

[Hardpiped03]

The Texans seem to be policing our board quite often for us here in Upstate NY. Whats the deal?

[Hardpiped03]

Forniphilia

Turning a human being into a piece of furniture[26]


LMAO.....my personal favorite.

[ElisabethWhispers]

Originally Posted by Hardpiped03

The Texans seem to be policing our board quite often for us here in Upstate NY. Whats the deal?

I'm not policing. This isn't my area but I'm always interested in the subject matter!!!

You're more than welcomed to visit the Dallas forums and spread some cheer there!

[ElisabethWhispers]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

You repost the ones that arent allowed lol
How fucking rich.

Its a list from Wiki

Glad I could make you smile.

(Oh, and I read your original response before you changed it. You're right. I'm just a "hooker" but I sure do enjoy dealing and responding to topics such as the original poster started! Imagine that!)

Always,
Elisabeth

[Gotyour6]

Yep, you are just a hooker.

Remember that and we will all be fine.

I edited it to be kind. Thanks for bringing it up though

Go back to Dallas forums where you fit right in.

[ElisabethWhispers]

"To be kind"? Really.

You might need to be reminded, my new unpleasant friend, that I don't have to do shit.

Put that with whatever filthy attitude that you possess and smoke it.

[Hardpiped03]

EW....you should visit Upstate NY sometime for real.....we don't have too many girls in this area that are 5'7" and only weigh 70lbs.

[ElisabethWhispers]

Oh, I'm a really big woman. I make no bones about it. Very few adults weigh 70 pounds. I thought that you would have been more clever.

SERIOUSLY, however, I didn't realize (until now) that your area has had an invasion of sorts from other posters from other areas.

I didn't mean to step on delicate toes. I sincerely WAS interested in promoting what ever type of fantasy/tease/kink that the OP was interested in.

I'll say goodbye to this topic (and this area). At least for now.

Best,
Elisabeth