I have a question for the men

[Nicolet]

What draws you to a provider in her ad? So often I see some providers who make their eccie ads look like BP ads. What sort of ad does a man respond to? The ad with abbreviations and slang, or something that has a little extra in it?

[sketchball82]

This is almost certainly gentleman specific, but for me I look for a few things. Before I get to how I consider providers, let me remind you guys are like 90% visual. Your photos are everything. The other 10% is personality, but if that gets involved your showcase is normally moot unless you're just the antithesis of what the hobbyist finds unattractive. Moving on, to get more specific about how your photos are considered:

(i) Most important. Obviously I check for basic attraction features. Things like body type and shape, race, hair length, style, etc. There are some things that are flat out deal breakers. There are others that aren't my fav... enough not my favs add to up be a deal breaker. At the end of the that, I'm either thinking (a) definitely because I'm that attracted to her (10% of the time), (b) nope (30% of the time), or (c) maybe (60% of the time). If I'm thinking (c) maybe, that's when I start delving more into the add.

(ii) I start looking for personality that I mesh with. Generally speaking for me, photos that are quotes or anecdotes, or pictures of food or something that is not a picture of a provider looking hot is a turn off for me. Normally these pictures will result in a nope, sorry. I like pictures of providers. We're paying for fantasy, and I want the fantasy to start as soon as I look you up. Frankly, girls that are willing to show more skin (showing the angles I'd get to see in a booking) are more likely to get my attention. Boob shots are nice, but I think most providers use them as the default. Let me show you my boobs in the same post from 714 different angles to see if you like them... not me. Yes, I want to see your boobs, but I want to see them from many angles... not only where the camera is moving, but where the girl is moving. I like side poses where the boobs hang and I can see how they fall (very hot). I like frontal and side pictures. I like a picture or two with the provider groping them or putting ice or a strawberry sensually on the nipples, or something like that. Also I very much like providers that show kitty shots. If you don't have a kitty shot and you weren't an (a) automatic yes above, then far more often than not, you don't make the cut. And I'm not looking for one glancing kitty shot that shows where the labia meet with your hand discreetly covering the actual vagina, I'm looking for several angles that show the full monty. I like the doggie kitty shot, full frontal so I can see the maintenance, and I like a (forgive me) legs spread (missionary style) kitty shot. If these three are in and the kitty is pretty, even if you aren't 100% drop dead gorgeous in my opinion (i.e., I didn't put you in category (a) above), I'll pay pretty much whatever you want to tap that pretty kitty. If only one or two of these shots are there and I'm not sure if I wanna kiss the kitty, then I move on to (iii). Also, I understand sites like eccie and others can be unruly with what you are and are not allowed to show on your showcases... however, you can show whatever you want on your website. Believe me, I scour providers sites for kitty shots if I'm thinking of booking... so I will find those pics if they exist. Oh, and I don't want to have to sign up for a newsletter or something to see those shots of a girl. In my opinion, you're only shooting yourself in the foot (losing potential clients) by trying to make hobbyists sign up for a newsletter or pay for VIP access to see your advertisement.

(iii) I personally only start to look at services and price if you weren't an automatic (a) yes or (b) no AND you showed enough skin in your showcases/pictures to turn me on without having a stellar nekkid form. I compare services based upon price. I'll pay a little more for BBBJ, photo, GFE, etc.

Sorry if I was graphic, but I'm trying to honestly answer the OP. Good luck, hon.

[Still Looking]

Obvious photo shopped pictures, dirty feet, messy in call, bath room pictures, pimp in the pictures are all turn offs! IJS!

[pyramider]

Holy Tebow ... There is an ads section?

[Gucci]

First things first, PLEASE HAVE RECENT PICTURES ! Ok now that I've vented let me say that personally I like pictures that show a little but still leave enough for me to imagine what everything else is like. Topless, semi nude and implied nude pictures are great. Once again RECENT pictures are a must, be honest about who you are you shouldn't have the pictures of when you were a size 4 up and three years and two kids later you're a 14 and you still have the same pictures up and the client doesn't realize that until he hits the door. Recent pictures ladies !

[JDNorthface]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Holy Tebow ... There is an ads section?

I thought the whole place was an ads section!

I'm sorry I can't help Nic. I never look at ads.

[Old-T]

All I can comment upon is my personal "likes" and "turn offs". In general, let me know about you--and by implication what kind of client you are looking for.

Major attraction: insights to what's inside a lady's head. Will she be humorous, interesting, creative? Will I likely be spending time with her at dinner--whill she be someone who will be an enjoyable dinner companion.

Photos: Positives: Face--eyes and smiles--though I understand why ladies are cautious about them. A real smile goes a long way. Negatives: as SL said. Yes, current photos are good, but it's hard to tell looking at the web site if they are current.

Informative and easy to navigate: A little about your personality. Availability (day, night, in, out, etc.). Rates--and not just 30 min / 60 min. Rates for 2, 3, 4 hrs are nice--or say you don't do that if you don't.

Turn off: Language. Don't make it sound like a BP ad. Don't make it sound like a SW. Nothing inherently wrong about that if that is the audience you want, but it doesn't attract me.

[pickupkid]

well I 'm a leg man

[TheAntichrist666]

I read their reviews and I look for recent updated pictures.

[Pink Floyd]

I won't lie I am attracted to young spinners. Guys are all different and some go for big breasts and butts, but that has never been my thing.

[Nicolet]

Old-T, I agree with you that HOW an ad is written is important. I try to be creative and write my ads intelligently and often with humor.
Thank you gentlemen for your insight.

[Cpalmson]

I'm first attracted to the pics. Granted, I have no way of knowing how recent they are, but obviously recent photos are appreciated. One tactic I use is to see if there is a time stamp on the photos. Sometimes those will be there. It is funny to see gals posting pics with a time stamp of 2010 or earlier. That makes me wonder. I suppose us guys have to take a bit of a step of faith that the pics are recent. While speaking of pics, they need to be all encompassing without being slutty. I don't care if you blur/crop your face, but please let me get a good idea of what your overall body looks like. I don't like pics where the girl hides behind props or strategically place props over her body. It gets me asking, what is she hiding. To be honest, the best pics are the ones taken with a phone camera in the mirror. I find these pics to be much more of a true representation of how a lady looks, so I would include a couple of those in an ad (about the best thing we can say for BP--LOL).

If I'm attracted to the lady, I will then look for her services offered. Please don't tell me you are GFE and leave it at that. It is meaningless. Open minded, 5 star service and other non-descript metaphors are also meaningless. Don't try to play word games either. Be straight forward. I want to know that an hour means I can get off as much as I want. Being straight forward is the best. Also, please don't say in your ad not to discuss price or services when contacting. That is like asking me to buy a car no questions asked.

Finally after looking at services, I will check out the rates and determine if the cost is reasonable for the services offered.

[gimme_that]

I like pictures and easy access to her other sites via direct links. makes it easier to book via cell phone

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by Cpalmson

If I'm attracted to the lady, I will then look for her services offered. Please don't tell me you are GFE and leave it at that. It is meaningless. Open minded, 5 star service and other non-descript metaphors are also meaningless. Don't try to play word games either. Be straight forward. I want to know that an hour means I can get off as much as I want. Being straight forward is the best. Also, please don't say in your ad not to discuss price or services when contacting. That is like asking me to buy a car no questions asked.

Finally after looking at services, I will check out the rates and determine if the cost is reasonable for the services offered.

They cant put this stuff in their ads here. But if they have a thorough website and fully filled out P411 all those questions could be avoided. butt yeah I hate the disclaaimer about not asking,, especially when there is nothing to find.

[ICU 812]

Any Ad MUST be readable. I am not from the generation who grew up abbreviating every word to its critical consonants. I have to be able to read it, so don't mix in capital letters and stars . Black and white is fine. Colors and dancing bits of fluf only confuse and annoy me.
I like a provider who is comfortable enough with being a provider that she will show her face in photos. No cell phone shots! They don't have to be "Glamour Shots", but no iPhone shots in a bathroom mirror.
Gotta know the rate . . .and how to contact you.
There it is: Readable, good-enough photos, rate and contact information. That does it for me—now I can decide.