ReservationMinded,
Welcome to ECCIE.
I have to tell you that I always get intrigued by new members. New folks bring new approaches to the hobby and well, I guess the rest of us learn to have new perspectives about this playing field.
The thing that immediately grabs my attention is the fact that a lady that openly posts she will no longer see black guys is the very first one you are inclined to see. Since you claim you are a black gentleman, you must admit, the path you are taking is one that very few consider, let alone travel down that way.
My first reaction to your inquiry was, "now here is a dude who loves a challenge. Here is a go-getter."
I was getting myself ready to give you some links but then realized that sweet Dannie had already facilitated one to you. At least the one to the infamous thread where she stated her new decision.
Then the interesting part is that you were already aware of that thread, since you posted a reply to that thread here:
http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=430633&postcount=40
Then I see that you found her reviews. By the way she did get high marks on those, with only a few guys objecting to her CBJ. Other than that, she got good recommendations from all the other guys.
There is something you should know; the forum rules don't prevent you from posting REVIEWS from ladies who are banned.In fact, I would encourage you to post an accurate account on how the date goes. You will be able to dispel any rumors on whether she has an effective NBA rule or not. Since she can no longer advertise here, her new reviews will be her ads.
It is a shame you were not able to communicate thru the board PM system with her.
She got banned on the date you registered here. Talk about bad timing. She would have been able to provide more accurate answers to you I think.
Good luck with your date and please post a review. With as much information as you have linked here about her, I am certain your review will be very thorough and worth getting a glass of wine before reading it. You are definitely different on your approach to the hobby and I look forward to your report. Enjoy your stay here.