References/Referrals

[Tragicromeo]

I am fairly new to the hobby. One of the biggest obstacles I've faced has been the need for references. Most of the better providers require references, but they only accept references from other providers who also require references. My question is this: how did others get over this hurdle?

[er48665]

Newbie friendly providers or P411.

[jbravo_123]

Get a P411 Account.
See some newbie friendly providers.
Get some OKs.
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Profit.

[StillKicking]

Just about the most difficult decision I've had to make in my life was to reveal my real name and location to ANYONE who would know that I was seeing service providers. But it became obvious to me that it was the only way I would be able to visit with anyone other than massage parlors and hope for FS or the asian apartment incalls. Now, I have had mostly good experiences with those and still partake occassionally, but more and more I enjoy the increased variety of ladies, and also, find a much more accurate in-person appearance vs. the photos.

So, once I made this decision, the rest was relatively easy -- pay the money to the verification services like P411 and RS2K, give them the info, and within a few days I had a much larger "pool" of providers willing to meet with me. Also, with P411, and probably some others, once you have visited with ladies who use that particular service, it is easy to request that they give you an OK that will be visible to others who verify you out via that verification service.

One more MAJOR benefit of all this is that if you try to only meet with providers who advertise with those services, there is a MUCH less chance of things turning out different from what was advertised. A lot less frustration and many more enjoyable experiences; better value for the time AND money.

Might be time to "defecate or get off the commode".

[kusmaldo]

write some reviews on some ladies here on ECCIE that will okay you.

[Halsey Knox]

Thank you for posting this! I'm having the same problem! I came here because I want to meet beautiful, sexy verified providers because there's no way in hell I'm walking up to a girl (cop) on a street corner. But now that I'm here, I find out I basically have to do that and collect references along the way. I understand the girls have the same fear about us but this is getting ridiculous. Hardly anyone will respond to me without ref's and if they do and I say the slightest thing wrong I never hear from them again because they are so paranoid. Any advice would be appreciated....

[abear06]

Talk to some of the local providers in your area they can most likely direct you to a newbie friendly provider, thats what I did.

[Indefinable Ms. M]

Originally Posted by kusmaldo

write some reviews on some ladies here on ECCIE that will okay you.

Writing a review DOES NOT always guarantee that a provider will see you.
Look for newbie friendly providers that will give you a reference after you have seen them. Look in the signature line or in the showcases of providers in your area, some do have it in that area indicating that they are newbie friendly.
If you know another hobbyist, ask him to refer you to a provider that his has seen. Have him contact the provider to vouch for you.

Good Luck and Happy Hobbying

[BBW Katrina]

A lot of new guys think Eccie is a one way street and just a catalog to browse for pussy (which it is) to a point, but it serves other purposes as well. It is for our safety as providers too, making it a two way street. If newbies would do their research and quit jumping the gun into the realm of pussy adventures it will all work out. I was unverified for 6mths trying to get a review, nothing I could do about until it happened. Double end sword at times yes, but nothing to whine and cry about. It's not all about you and your immediate, urgent needs. Saftey, comfort and cooperation are key.

[pyramider]

Download porn ... continue to download porn.

All of you have been around long enough to research your topic. There are countless threads to read ON THIS VERY SUBJECT. Do your homework, until then download porn.