I will see a CBJ only girl but she must be really hot, her other services need to be top notch, and she has to be at least $50 less than what I would get with a BBBJ provider. I will caveat that with the some ladies will CBJ on first dates but will BBBJ any subsequent date. I've met 2 providers who "loosen" up on the 2nd date. If I know that ahead of time, I will be more than willing to do the CBJ date knowing more is there down the road.
This debate seems to be even more divided than it was before. I really think that some of the ladies who are militantly CBJ need to loosen up a bit. Don't be offended if a guy wants BBBJ and ASKS for it. To be honest, BBBJ is now probably the norm in the hobby. Certain providers need to realize this. It is one thing to turn down the request for a BBBJ; it is something entirely different to get bent all out of shape and feel the need to rant about being disrespected.
Finally, I'm guilty on equating BBBJ with CIM. To me it just seems the most natural way of ending. Although, I always warn the lady before I cum and let her decide where I make the deposit (preferably, down her throat
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