Why say.....I LOVE YOU???

[Roman Polanski]

I just stopped seeing a provider that I had visited several times for lying to me. Ladies why say these words. "I LOVE YOU" If you love a client, shouldn't the session be discounted or free? People please chime in.

[Tony Patella]

Client and free are two words that almost never go together, in any profession...

[cheatercheater]

Lovers don't have "sessions".

[Jasser]

There are different types of love. I'm assuming she meant she loves things about you, what you do for her, and how you make her feel. As far as free or discounted sessions, she probably don't love you like that.

[Guest082216-1]

The Greeks have many different types of love. Love does not always mean "I want to live my life with you". I "Love" many people, even one of the providers I see alot.

The english language lacks in words to properly describe the many different levels and type of postive feelings we can have towards another. Oddly enough, there are plenty of words for how we might dislike someone. Makes you think a bit, eh?



Here are 4 of them

• Agápe (ἀγάπη agápē[1]) means "love" (brotherly love) in modern day Greek, such as in the term s'agapo (Σ'αγαπώ), which means "I love you". In Ancient Greek, it often refers to a general affection or deeper sense of "true love" rather than the attraction suggested by "eros". Agape is used in the biblical passage known as the "love chapter", 1 Corinthians 13, and is described there and throughout the New Testament as sacrificial love. Agape is also used in ancient texts to denote feelings for a good meal, one's children, and the feelings for a spouse. It can be described as the feeling of being content or holding one in high regard.

• Éros (ἔρως érōs[2]) is passionate love, with sensual desire and longing. The Modern Greek word "erotas" means "intimate love;" however, eros does not have to be sexual in nature. Eros can be interpreted as a love for someone whom you love more than the philia, love of friendship. It can also apply to dating relationships as well as marriage. Plato refined his own definition: Although eros is initially felt for a person, with contemplation it becomes an appreciation of the beauty within that person, or even becomes appreciation of beauty itself. Plato does not talk of physical attraction as a necessary part of love, hence the use of the word platonic to mean, "without physical attraction." Plato also said eros helps the soul recall knowledge of beauty, and contributes to an understanding of spiritual truth. Lovers and philosophers are all inspired to seek truth by eros. The most famous ancient work on the subject of eros is Plato's Symposium, which is a discussion among the students of Socrates on the nature of eros.

• Philia (φιλία philía[3]) means friendship in modern Greek. It is a dispassionate virtuous love, a concept developed by Aristotle. It includes loyalty to friends, family, and community, and requires virtue, equality and familiarity. In ancient texts, philos denoted a general type of love, used for love between family, between friends, a desire or enjoyment of an activity, as well as between lovers.

• Storge (στοργή storgē[4]) means "affection" in ancient and modern Greek. It is natural affection, like that felt by parents for offspring. Rarely used in ancient works, and then almost exclusively as a descriptor of relationships within the family. It is also known to express mere acceptance or putting up with situations, as in "loving" the tyrant.

http://www.greeceindex.com/various/g...ove_words.html

I can tell you I have Eros type of love for a lot of women on here :-)

[TheBizzer]

I've had 2 providers tell me that on a first session. Creeped me out so bad in one case I didn't even finish. Makes me feel like they either think I'm a complete fool or are bat shit crazy. It also defeats the whole purpose of the hobby, at least my purpose, which is NSA sex.

[Guest030617]

Originally Posted by Jasser

There are different types of love. I'm assuming she meant she loves things about you, what you do for her, and how you make her feel. As far as free or discounted sessions, she probably don't love you like that.

+1

[lisa.lisa0302]

I thought men pay us to not say I love you.

[TinMan]

Unless those three words are followed by, "...and you no longer have to pay to see me", I try not to read more into it than a complimentary expression of fondness.

But maybe I'm just dense.

[crashkopf]

Hey - it's part of GFE isn't it ?

I like those encouraging words - helps with the fantasy. I for one want to be loved, to be made to feel as if I am a fucking machine, a stud, with a great cock, and how much she loves to fuck me, and that she loves me !

" You're the King " might break the fantasy. " I love you " helps fill that empty hole in my heart and helps my ego.

$.02 worth.

[TinMan]

"I love to fuck you" and "I love you" are worlds apart. The latter can be very dangerous if the person on the receiving end interprets it differently from the way it was intended.

[spaceneedle]

Your SO or wife will f*** u for free, but you will have to pay for their vacation, spa service, car, house, vacation, etc. When it comes down to the bottom line, it's NEVER FREE. (Oh, and you have to listen to their issues, and be sensitive to them as well, esp. during certain time of the month)

[onyx7100]

Originally Posted by babydollsnow

+1

Yes, your consort can be very fond of you...just like I have preferred clients in my business. I "love" [doing business with] them. Translation, they are of good humor, easy to deal with, know what they want, a repeat client that I go above and beyond for them, do they get some perks and priority handling of course, and most of all they understanding that my services have a value and are not free.

There are 3 rules that my parents used with me once I became a high school senior that have served me well when I don’t ignore them.

1. Don’t be stupid
2. If it’s to good to be true, it is to good to be true
3. When in doubt go back to rule #1

[Guest071613-2]

Originally Posted by TinMan

Unless those three words are followed by, "...and you no longer have to pay to see me", I try not to read more into it than a complimentary expression of fondness.

So, according to what the replies here have been....

When a civilian girlfriend says "I love you", it should be followed by, "...and you don't have to make my car payments anymore!" or "tonight's dinner at this very expensive restaurant is on me and you no longer need to pay my way! From now on, we go Dutch!" or, "Please don't take me shopping anymore!"

So love is only possible when the sex is free? Interesting since it is never free, really.
(By the way, I am a provider and I do freebies all the time..like, once or twice a week, for my SD...and I am not in love. Just sayin')

I also think there is a huge difference between "being in love" with someone and loving someone. I love some of my hobbyist friends and have no problems saying it to 'em. We've known each other for years and are close friends. I love my friends. Nothing wrong with that, and nothing wrong with saying it. It's very liberating, try it sometime

[Guest050613-02]

Originally Posted by Bubba3452

The Greeks have many different types of love. Love does not always mean "I want to live my life with you". I "Love" many people, even one of the providers I see alot.

The english language lacks in words to properly describe the many different levels and type of postive feelings we can have towards another. Oddly enough, there are plenty of words for how we might dislike someone. Makes you think a bit, eh?



Here are 4 of them

• Agápe (ἀγάπη agápē[1]) means "love" (brotherly love) in modern day Greek, such as in the term s'agapo (Σ'αγαπώ), which means "I love you". In Ancient Greek, it often refers to a general affection or deeper sense of "true love" rather than the attraction suggested by "eros". Agape is used in the biblical passage known as the "love chapter", 1 Corinthians 13, and is described there and throughout the New Testament as sacrificial love. Agape is also used in ancient texts to denote feelings for a good meal, one's children, and the feelings for a spouse. It can be described as the feeling of being content or holding one in high regard.

• Éros (ἔρως érōs[2]) is passionate love, with sensual desire and longing. The Modern Greek word "erotas" means "intimate love;" however, eros does not have to be sexual in nature. Eros can be interpreted as a love for someone whom you love more than the philia, love of friendship. It can also apply to dating relationships as well as marriage. Plato refined his own definition: Although eros is initially felt for a person, with contemplation it becomes an appreciation of the beauty within that person, or even becomes appreciation of beauty itself. Plato does not talk of physical attraction as a necessary part of love, hence the use of the word platonic to mean, "without physical attraction." Plato also said eros helps the soul recall knowledge of beauty, and contributes to an understanding of spiritual truth. Lovers and philosophers are all inspired to seek truth by eros. The most famous ancient work on the subject of eros is Plato's Symposium, which is a discussion among the students of Socrates on the nature of eros.

• Philia (φιλία philía[3]) means friendship in modern Greek. It is a dispassionate virtuous love, a concept developed by Aristotle. It includes loyalty to friends, family, and community, and requires virtue, equality and familiarity. In ancient texts, philos denoted a general type of love, used for love between family, between friends, a desire or enjoyment of an activity, as well as between lovers.

• Storge (στοργή storgē[4]) means "affection" in ancient and modern Greek. It is natural affection, like that felt by parents for offspring. Rarely used in ancient works, and then almost exclusively as a descriptor of relationships within the family. It is also known to express mere acceptance or putting up with situations, as in "loving" the tyrant.

http://www.greeceindex.com/various/g...ove_words.html

I can tell you I have Eros type of love for a lot of women on here :-)

+1

In Italian there are several words for love. Ti volio bene is familial or friendly loves and literally translates, "I want good for you." Ti amo, on the other heand, is romantic matrimonial love reserved only for your spose. Though teen boys have been known to miss use it in an effort to get past third base.

Me thinks the OP is confusing the former for the latter.