IMO,
If she is an active provider and he is an active hobbyist, acquaintance friends? yes, real true friends, no.
I do not pay to have sex with my friends and my friends do not require a donation for her time she spends with me.
Meeting through the hobby for the first time will tend to skew things a bit, not to mention, you never want someone you met through the hobby to be introduced to your RW life, nothing like holding something over your head not if, but when there is a falling out. While it may even work in the short term, and you can say you are friends with benefits, but the benefits are the provider will eventually be wanting money, something paid for or bought for her and the guy will be wanting sex from her.
Guys, if you think a provider is your friend and if you want to get hung up on or get no response from your email/text you send, contact that provider and tell her you would like to hang out with her one day, all day, cook out, watch a movie on TV, ect. and maybe go out to a club. Oh, by the way, you will not be giving her any money or gifts for coming over or her time spent with you, when you watch the movie on TV, no holding hands or kissing, she is just your friend, and she will have to pay her own way and buy her own drinks when you go out. If you are paying 100% for the meals, drinks, tickets ect., all the time, you may think you are her friend because she is letting you be seen with her out in public, but she is not your friend!
Business relationships are just that, business, you do for me, because I do for you or vice versa, if there is no reciprocation, the business relationship stales and becomes no more. Mutual real friendships are ones that you do for me or vice versa and not expecting and many times, maybe due to circumstances, not receiving anything in return other than the friendship.
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