why no AA providers? what is wrong with us?

[bored@home]

Originally Posted by Black Navy

The greatness thing about being AA is we can choose a full menu of flavors, just don’t be cheap with the ladies

^^^^^
That plus you guys can pull any color suits and not look ridicules.
[not racist; i am truly jealous being limited to black, blue, and some grays or tan]

[Black Navy]

Touch'e!!! expensive suits however reminiscent are to be invidious. You should travel to Italy, there suits are paramout .

[lisa.lisa0302]

Sooooo ummm yeah

The question you should be asking yourself verses the masses, is what are the cities where AA providers are welcomed and your company is appreciated.

Its plenty of cities with a lack of quality AA providers. Find them and this won't even be a question for you.

Also fear of unknown, and there is nothing you can do about that, that is their problem, not yours.

Originally Posted by innocentz

Not angry just curious

[papaoscar]

Manslut is right, a lot of it comes down to attitude and communication. I recently saw Carmen, petite AA girl, absolutely breathtaking, and her communication and punctuality were spot on.

Open menu and punctual chats/texts/calls are crucial. Sounding educated, fun, and letting business take care of itself go a long way.

[Bob the Nailer]

FYI, I have seen ladies of all races, but I for one would like to point out, that (certain) black folk don't know what it's like to be white. We are always the racist, always the one holding the black man/woman down (not in a good sex way either!) we are always the one responsible for all the black persons woes or troubles. We are always the excuse black folk use when a certain amount of hard work from anyone of any race would prove we can become more colorblind as we move forward. Geez, can't we all get along???


I do know what it's like to be profiled by people and the PoPo. Be white, have long hair, tattoos and you'll find the PoPo all over you. Worse is if you drive an American made 4X4 truck with lots of bumper stickers. Still, I've got to be me and if I have to endure profiling to live my life the way I want, then so be it.

[Black Navy]

I have received bad service from providers of all races and have learned to choose my providers intelligently, and not stereotype a specific race. However AA women to me are like Goddesses

[craig151]

I love all women, especially professional ebony providers - buttery pecan brown skin that I could lick all day. Not to mention the round asses !

[!!Sexy Erotic Morgan]

Bottom line, there is nothing wrong with us AA providers. If you find your business is a little slow, it is not simply because you are black. There is something you need to work on.

There are a lot of guys on this site that will not see black providers and it is their lose. Beautiful women come in all colors. Some of these guys need to do their homework before they start listing off reasons not to see black providers because none of them apply to me.

[Rocketman3406]

I prefer AA women all together but I have not ran across many in Ft Worth that I could connect with

[Eva Damita]

^^^^hmmmm

[Guest091914]

This is a matter of personal choice.

[Lust4xxxLife]

Wow, what an interesting thread. Full of ignorance, bigotry, useful information and enlightenment. It's all here.

Without commenting specifically on the AA question, because it isn't ever a factor for me, I'll just list my selection criteria. Please don't think of it as anything more than one man's opinion that you can include with your other data points. I'm not suggesting that others should use the same criteria. WALDT.

Start: Everybody is equally appealing and I am very fortunate to have so many amazing women who might be willing to spend some fun time with me.

Con: If you use screwed up font formatting, we will never connect because I will never read your ad.

Con: If you don't have a showcase, you're like betting on a good glory hole. Not going to place those bets.

Con: If you are priced above or below the market rates, you are not for me.

Con: If you are overweight, you are not for me. It's a hygiene thing more than an appeal factor.

Con: If you post with poor english in your native language (Redneck or Ebonics), you are not for me. Intelligence is too important to me.

Con: If you post a selfie picture with a nasty looking room in the background, you are not for me (I've made that mistake in the past... I've found that nasty rooms are highly correlated with nasty hygiene).

Con: If your location is in a sketchy area, you are not for me. Anywhere along 635? No way. Up 75? Maybe. Up the tollway? Absolutely. Arlington? Never. Irving? Never.

Con: Piercings. If you have piercings, you are not for me. I don't want to taste steel.

Con: Lots of tats. Not a showstopper, but I will always choose someone without lots of tats before someone with lots of tats. It's not because tats affect my time, it's because tats represent personal decisions that I disagree with. I don't want to be in a session with someone thinking "why the fuck did you do that to such a beautiful body?"

Ok, if I make it through the cons, here are the pros I look for:

Pro: Great reviews. That is more important than anything else.

Pro: Great photos. Nice to know what to expect.

Pro: BBBJ. CBJ is a showstopper.

Pro: Natural small boobs. Personal preference.

Pro: Positive vibe or no vibe on Eccie.

That's it. No racial factors at all. I thought it worth posting as a data point.

Cheers,

L4L

[1Jannessa]

Originally Posted by dongeykong

An AA provider wanting to make it will have to go above and beyond to be successful. They would have to make each hobbyist feel like they are the only one in the world. This is the truth anywhere, being AA myself in the corporate world, I had to work twice as hard to get half as much. But it definitely is possible. !

No Truer words have ever been spoken. IMHO. As provider that goes above and beyond to make sure that any gentleman and/or couple that I see feels that their satisfaction with the time that we spend together is of the utmost importance to me, I do have to also agree that its not always about how highly others speak of you in reviews as an AA provider there are just some preconceived stereotypes that you are going to have to overcome in order to be chosen and Stay chosen.

[PureGentleman]

I don't hobby much, but I do prefer providers of color and there's not many to go around. That's very disappointing.

Jannessa,
You and EBG are the baddest of them all. A Doubles with you 2 are at the top of my bucket list.

[Karrine_Kream]

I can honestly say I have felt the same way-AA providers are not as desired -although lots of guys love AA women I just feel other races of providers are more desired.

Ex. MOST sugar daddy/ISO/Personal exhaust their desire for a Caucasian 1st Hispanic 2nd and Asian 3rd

Some even so much as say No AA girls-I understand preference but besides that?

MOST think we are FAT(as I am a heavier chick-huge boobs-matching a** and i am fairly tall for a woman) although the guys that see me LOVE me I seek to be desired by more.

Although I may be -I am not sure what to do to improve my business.

I do better traveling-but would love to enjoy my home in Houston.

I speak properly- have always been joked that I am a white-black girl.

Guys even often hang up on me because they think i am not the girl in the pic when I answer my phone-they think I am Caucasian

I have one tattoo-that I do not make visible in any of my pics-I am professional-keep nice clean MOSTLY UPSCALE incalls-I offer some things MOST AA providers DO NOT-I travel-Keep an open mind-stay prompt-courteous and communicate well.

In certain places you'll see a trend of no AA desired and other's love us.

I have definitely seen the negatives listed and do not hold those qualities.

I feel as though other AA providers DO contribute to our potential. WE set our standards and A lot of AA have IMHO F*cked up or contributed to bad stereo-types.

BUT how do the successful AA providers manage and excel?

I did see that it has been expressed that it is deeper than this thread-I totally agree-BUT are any of the successful AA providers offering the things they feel can grow our race's bond? Are they open to helping each other or just themselves?

I don't know. But I know I try to help everyone I can. I change rates to see if there are anyone interested that may not be able to afford or wish to spend as much because of different reasons and HONESTLY I haven't had much success even with changes I make. I reach out to other providers and help them in any way that I can. NOTHING returned

I started out limited strict "menu"-and i am open-minded now-I see what is desired but sometimes I DO feel there are more strikes against AA providers-especially myself.

I am not down about it or weak minded-I just have a sense of reality and live as a realist.

Most AA rate are significantly lower than other races and if they aren't they get haggled-why? I never feel the need to compete with any individual but it does affect business sometimes.

I get everyone wants a deal-which I definitely have to understand BUT I possess quality and don't wish to be in connection with high-traffic "I'd rather NOT be a freeway" LOL

I try to base my rates on what I would be comfortable with and staying within my markets range. As my service is great-I provide an experience-I continue to feel the need to raise my rates to receive (closer to) the value of my time.

Like it was stated-make your date feel like they are the only man in your life. (how-ever it was worded) I possess that-I feel our time is OUR alone time BUT I miss out on other's because I spend too much time with one. My dates always go over and the one that didn't go over much made me feel bad because he didn't want to leave-yet offered no additional compensation.

I really haven't got much from this thread-maybe my post will give me a response that will enlighten me and NOT criticize or put me down.

We will see