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Originally Posted by grean
As long as your not surprised when they ask for the cash for the second hour! Lollollol
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grean - seriously, I know I get kidded a lot (that's absolutely ok everybody), but I spend a lot of OTC time with providers... their choice. Mind you, not "free", but not "P4P" either. I'm always taking people out, drinks, nice dinners, movies, nails, shopping, travel, etc... sometimes it's MORE then expensive than session time, sometimes less... But I've never had anyone feel I "wasted" their time... and it's only if they have nothing planned.
In a way, that gets back to this thread - later (in text), she was heatedly telling me how I would have gotten "way more time" as she is not a "clock watcher"...
That's wonderful. Neither am I. And I'm always honest saying, "Look - I'm going to go out to a really nice dinner at 3Forks (or some place) before or after our meeting - and you're free to join me... the meal is on me, but the time is yours"... And, I'm in no way upset with a "no thanks".
But you'd be surprised how many say "Sure! what the hell..." and we have a fantastic time. It's because I treat providers like people, not just business - that's why it happens; and also that I'm kinda that Travolta with Ellen guy... non threatening and funny. And also because, (you guys should tell from my lengthy posts) - I am verbose and a good conversationalist.
Plus - the girls who do this with me - are usually lower volume, so again - that's the level I tend to meet, attract, or hang with anyways.
From a Providers point of view - I can't blame them if a guy on a 1hr appointment spends 59 minutes banging away (their prerogative), and then the girl might be skeptical of spending an extra hour with them OTC, because instead of good meal & conversation - the guys trying to get her to give him a HJ under the table at Denny's.
Everybody here has their own style. Scribe is BFE "Boyfriend Experience"... Have done some amazingly kinky stuff; but its always with someone I know and feel comfortable with... not just a random person. That's why my second, third, +++ encounters with a provider are WAY better than my first. (For me - everybody is different, and there's no right or wrong here).
But that's also why - in this particular case; I get being misunderstood - this thread would have never started with any provider who's seen me once... they would know me to be too genuine.
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