hell valarie is just a troll.. someone trying to stir up a group of people and hopefully create havoc lol..
fact is.. many many normal people play in the hobby.. so i find it funny she doesn't want judgement cast on her but feels "she" is in a position to cast on everyone here
#1. married men who play here are the ones that are married..whether he pays for it here, fucks a civilian or whatever..his marriage and commitment and loyalty to that is his problem and his alone..we owe no married woman nothing sense we do not know any of them.. my marriage is my problem..ya'lls marriage is your problem.. bottom line..
girls here can only be employed and do this if there is guys to do it.. why judge the girls? i mean.. whether paid or not..girls are gonna be fucking strangers.. hell THE OP was obviously fucking a stranger since she obviously didn't know her husband very well
#2. many ladies know very well what its like to be married.. (16yrs successfully here).. sex does not equal love and love does obviously not equal sex.. you proved the last part.. but once ladies and some guys get thru their thick heads that you can fuck and not have to have feelings..perhaps people would enjoy life a little more
#3. despite societies view points.. many many people both guys and girls are upstanding professional, educated people.. its a J.O.B that some girls have chosen..at the end of the day we go home to our normal lives at our normal homes with kids, dogs, bills..we all are not on drugs, we aren't caught up in a perceived lifestyle of partying and liquor etc.. some are..many are not.. you pointed the finger at a group of people that probably contains people you sit in a pew with at church..people you hold hands with and pray.. people that you break bread with on sunday and talk about your preachers message..ya..those same people..those god fearing, loveable respected by you people.. probably called someone like me saturday and spent an hour with me on my knees blowing their fucking cock..licking their balls and letting them ram their cock deep into my ass.. pulling my hair and slapping my big ass..pounding harder and harder they emptied their load onto my eager face and lips.. they dressed, rushed home and woke up and spent the sunday with you..
what a wonderful world we live in