Would you see a provider that offers BBFS?

[Guest091710]

Originally Posted by ANONONE

Yeah, but Enderwiggin, you brag about being a risk addict.



Look folks, I am not just being a safety nut here. There are some very selfish reasons for insisting gents wear their raincoats when they hobby.

I love DATY, and I take some false mental security that when my rather gifted tongue goes to work, it is not going to disturb things so that i am covered in an avalanche of snowballs, if you catch my drift. I take great comfort that the last client's MSOG all landed with a swish in some latex.

Do I know that providers have had BB sex with their SO? Yes, but I am hoping they have had a shower or two since that time of intimacy, and perhaps even a gentle flush (is it even kosher to say douche in the correct context anymore?)

Look, I told you all I have been doing this for a pretty long time. I have seen and experienced some weird and horrible things. Take for instance the time after a session when i was looking for my shoe, and with a bare foot off the bed, just under the bedspread on the floor, lands in an old used condom and believe me it was used, and it wasn't mine.

That was pretty gross.

Every time I think about that, i throw up just a little bit in my mouth.

Do you now feel that little bit of bile in the back of your throat? Well, that is how I feel whenever I hear about some provider freely offering BBFS to clients or some jackass, pimp-wannabe going around and pressuring every vulnerable provider he can into having unprotected sex.

We might not be able to stop BBFS, but we can strive to minimize it.

Wow, You want to puke bc You stepped on a used condom? Do You enjoy CIM?

[Guest091710]

oh and wooo hoo i just realized i made 500 post

[ANONONE]

Originally Posted by subcilla

Wow, You want to puke bc You stepped on a used condom? Do You enjoy CIM?

Yeah, it was pretty gross. My toe went inside it. The idea of getting some other guys spunk on me did make me a little bit sick and that was just on my toe, so by extension the idea of doing DATY on some gal that had been performing BBFS with multiple partners earlier that day is not real appealing.

Congrats on the 500.

[Guest091710]

Originally Posted by ANONONE

Yeah, it was pretty gross. My toe went inside it. The idea of getting some other guys spunk on me did make me a little bit sick and that was just on my toe, so by extension the idea of doing DATY on some gal that had been performing BBFS with multiple partners earlier that day is not real appealing.

Congrats on the 500.

Thanks, but You didnt in all fairness answer my question. Do You enjoy CIM when w a provider? The condom thing is pretty gross though. i try to pick them up even in notels so the house keeper doesn't stumble across them unexpectedly.

[ANONONE]

Originally Posted by subcilla

Thanks, but You didnt in all fairness answer my question. Do You enjoy CIM when w a provider? The condom thing is pretty gross though. i try to pick them up even in notels so the house keeper doesn't stumble across them unexpectedly.

Yes, I do enjoy CIM, but not many ladies have been able to make me pop that way, so it is a pretty rare thing for me. In fact, I can't remember the last time I was able to get off that way, so more times than not we move on to other COVERED activities long before that ever happens.

[Guest091710]

hmm You don't want to step on a used condom ? but enjoy cuming in someones mouth? Seems unfair a little, but i know we are getting paid, lol. Do You kiss a provider who offers cim? Not trying to pick a fight or side, im honestly just curious.

[ANONONE]

Originally Posted by subcilla

hmm You don't want to step on a used condom ? but enjoy cuming in someones mouth? Seems unfair a little, but i know we are getting paid, lol. Do You kiss a provider who offers cim? Not trying to pick a fight or side, im honestly just curious.

Like I said, it happens very rarely. Over the years, after hundreds of providers, I can count on one hand how many can make me cum through fellatio, so it is a bit of a moot point.

I think you may have misunderstood the point I was making, with the gross wet toe. The same aversion I felt when my toe slid in that goo, is about how I feel when i learn that some provider is advertising BBFS or some jackass is out there pressuring girls into trying it with them.

Like I said, it is both safety and the selfish motive of not wanting to perform DATY on agal that has just done BBFS with other clients.

Subcilla, go in the powder room and ask some of the ladies about how I perform DATY--I do a few unique things that will help you understand why this is a HUGE concern for me.

Your point is well taken on the CIM. . .like I said, go ask the ladies about those techniques. . .I am known for getting ladies to squirt and yes I do swallow. . .so yes, I see where you are headed with that.

[Guest091710]

Originally Posted by ANONONE

Like I said, it happens very rarely. Over the years, after hundreds of providers, I can count on one hand how many can make me cum through fellatio, so it is a bit of a moot point.

I think you may have misunderstood the point I was making, with the gross wet toe. The same aversion I felt when my toe slid in that goo, is about how I feel when i learn that some provider is advertising BBFS or some jackass is out there pressuring girls into trying it with them.

Like I said, it is both safety and the selfish motive of not wanting to perform DATY on agal that has just done BBFS with other clients.

Subcilla, go in the powder room and ask some of the ladies about how I perform DATY--I do a few unique things that will help you understand why this is a HUGE concern for me.

Your point is well taken on the CIM. . .like I said, go ask the ladies about those techniques. . .so yes, I see where you are headed with that.

im glad we Finally exchanged views in a civil manner. i was just curious.

[ANONONE]

Originally Posted by subcilla

im glad we Finally exchanged views in a civil manner. i was just curious.

The pleasure was mine. So out of curiosity, what do you think about this BBFS fiasco that seems to becoming more widespread, or at least more public these days?

You are one of the better providers around here. Is this something that is the result of an influx of new folks to the hobby? Are there really more ladies, even well-respected ones, out there doing this than perhaps we would be comfortable knowing about? What do gents do that convince women to go through with it? What is the provider viewpoint on this?

[Guest091710]

i do not think its wise, but to each their own. i also think that even if a provider did offer it, she wouldn't openly admit to it or openly advertise it,(unless shes a dumb blond) bc like You don't want to taste another man, or risk the disease, etc etc. You cant save the world.

[absolut]

Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

Exactly!

I always put it in my frame of mind that every provider was barebacking somebody, so my safety is up to me, not her.

By the way, don't just pick on backpage providers, how about also picking on porn stars who visit Houston with many videos and pictures of them doing bareback. Porn stars deserve alerts just as much as backpage girls do.

You guys/gals may want to check this out.
http://www.chron.com/disp/story.mpl/...l/7115214.html

Does that gel come in flavors? (Just kidding)

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[CivilBarrister]

Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

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[Sweet Heather]

Originally Posted by ANONONE

BBBFS within the hobby is not good.



Some activities do justify zero tolerance.

But the question remains...why? I mean, so what if a provider does BBFS with other gents. As long as YOU are using a condom with her YOU'RE protected, right? So what's the problem?

Are you insinuating that she is nasty? Trashy? A risk taker? More likely to be diseased??

What's next? Will you say that providers offering CIM are nasty-trashy-a risk taker-more likely to be diseased? Outrageous!

[CivilBarrister]

Anonone doth protest too much, me thinks.

Hamlet Act 3, scene 2, 222–230