Golden Pussy Syndrome

[Mr MojoRisin]

Originally Posted by papadee

If you're in complete agreement with me, why would you write: the average woman is not making Oprah money,believe me. That was not a general example. We are talking about women who are still in the middle class tax bracket.

Since we were discussing women needing men for money, I inferred from that and your other postings, that unless a woman is independent and/or wealthy, she's with a man for his money. Escorts/GF/Wives are all one in the same. And no, we're not in complete agreement on that.

More of your quotes, so maybe you'll understand where I'm coming from:
Bottom line there is some sexual activity being done for something. That can be sustainability, money, etc,
Married with a Pre-nup. She sucks a dick on holidays and owns, or at least has unlimited access to his assets.
Women are props
Marriage is a form of providing. Just less BJ and wayyyy more of a financial burden.

I am only commenting on your last few sentences. Marriage isn't or shouldn't be regarded as a form of providing. Marriage is a connection, where the couple cares enough about one another to watch each others back. They share the things they have and contribute to each others lives. Sex is part of it. although it should be fantastic ,it shouldn't define the relationship. Love, companionship and respect are defining factors and should always be checked. These things are important to some people and you'll never find them with a casual encounter with an escort.

Jim

[SA Angel]

Originally Posted by Mr MojoRisin

Marriage is a connection, where the couple cares enough about one another to watch each others back. They share the things they have and contribute to each others lives. Sex is part of it. although it should be fantastic ,it shouldn't define the relationship.

Agree. Every successful marriage/partnership I have witnessed where you can SEE the envy on other couples faces is like this.

Love, companionship and respect are defining factors and should always be checked. These things are important to some people and you'll never find them with a casual encounter with an escort.

Jim

Disagree. Companionship and respect...especially respect, should be something that always informs the interactions between a provider and her clients. As for love....it happens. The successful stories don't get shared for good reason. Please note, I'm not saying it's the norm by any means.

Edit: I realized that if your emphasis is on "casual" then I can see and agree with your viewpoint.

[Gotyour6]

I can charge whatever I want for my service.

So can a hooker.

Call yourself a whore, hooker, provider, escort and charge what you want.

I can find pussy for 50 bucks and 5000 bucks.

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

"GPS" is one of the most ignorant "hobby" related terms I wish I'd never heard. During my travels, I've been blessed to share space with companions who charge 200 per hour as well as those whose rates are around 1k for the same time period. While I cannot deny that there are some upper-class people who deride those with a lower class positioning and are incapable of thinking of them as anything but underlings, I do agree that kindness doesn't always correlate with social class.

Literally all of this!
It's a term too frivolously thrown at a girl when a guy sees a provider charging a rate he doesn't like (or can't afford) ... fuck if he knows her or not.
Lol first time I heard it lol was back in my newbie-ish days from a long ago fired client who wasn't happy that I went up from 200hr to a whole 240hr (probably really beside himself now that I charge 400).

[Vivienne Rey]

Interesting viewpoints all the way around. I abhor that term, really. A lot.

My rate isn't all that high considering how much time I actually spend with my clients in any given visit. But my approach, along with my starting rate, serves to keep me low volume and weed out certain types of men. I run specials, and I'm presently testing out my lowest rate. It makes a difference in the type of clients I get. Not massive change, but not one I'd want to contend with regularly. So, I'd say there is a correlation between what we charge and what *we* get, at least in my experience.

[casey_carlin]

I agree it's attitude and not price.

I have known many providers in and out of the hobby. The ladies I knew that had GPS were usually in the range of $200. Their rationale was they were so busy and obviously they were better than everyone else. I tried to explain that maybe rate brought them in, but as a friend if they don't get it you just nod and keeping going.

Casey

[Unique_Carpenter]

I'm surprised that there's not been a single mention of civie gals with gps. It's that specific situation that brings almost all the guys into this hobby thing.

[casey_carlin]

Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

I'm surprised that there's not been a single mention of civie gals with gps. It's that specific situation that brings almost all the guys into this hobby thing.

Is it GPS or lack of desire? I would think most hold out or obstain because they might not have the same drive or enjoy the activities. Some gentlemen aren't very giving in the bedroom and can be kind selfish. If you find a partner that is just as interested in their partners wants and needs as their own, it may be less of an issue.

Casey

[cowboy8055]

Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

Literally all of this!
It's a term too frivolously thrown at a girl when a guy sees a provider charging a rate he doesn't like (or can't afford) ... fuck if he knows her or not.
Lol first time I heard it lol was back in my newbie-ish days from a long ago fired client who wasn't happy that I went up from 200hr to a whole 240hr (probably really beside himself now that I charge 400).

I agree. For the most part when I've seen the gps label thrown at gals it's usually when they raise their rates.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by casey_carlin

Is it GPS or lack of desire?
Casey

Excellent point Casey.
Where I'm coming from is the civie dating angle for the over 30 folks. But yes the lack of desire thing would be applicable to married folks.

[Randall Creed]

Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

I'm surprised that there's not been a single mention of civie gals with gps. It's that specific situation that brings almost all the guys into this hobby thing.

Well, if a civvie woman ever refer(s) to you (or other guys) as "thirsty", they probably have the equivalent of GPS.

Yeah, guys finding you (talking to them) attractive is something that's new to them.

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

Literally all of this!
It's a term too frivolously thrown at a girl when a guy sees a provider charging a rate he doesn't like (or can't afford) ... fuck if he knows her or not.
Lol first time I heard it lol was back in my newbie-ish days from a long ago fired client who wasn't happy that I went up from 200hr to a whole 240hr (probably really beside himself now that I charge 400).

I'll be honest, I've NEVER heard or received backlash from gents regarding my rates. It's been WOMEN who were on a smear campaign solely based off my rates. Saying I think I'm "extraordinary" when I'm just "basic".

It's seeped over into women going against others who fled/working to flee from The Plantation.

They don't want to see another woman leave the field or the big house. Evolving is no option. Doing so in their eyes is equivalent to " thinking you're better " than everyone.

[Trey]

Hey, it happens live your life and move on.

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by casey_carlin

I agree it's attitude and not price.

I have known many providers in and out of the hobby. The ladies I knew that had GPS were usually in the range of $200. Their rationale was they were so busy and obviously they were better than everyone else. I tried to explain that maybe rate brought them in, but as a friend if they don't get it you just nod and keeping going.

Casey

All paid professionals going to be on best behavior and classy and good attitudes in paid sessions. Clients show up with empty pockets see how things change paid professionals.Professionals charge variety rates for services and plus business expenses.Famous words from professionals I can charge whatever I want for my services.Welcome to adult business

[casey_carlin]

Not sure thinking your better than others or Gps has anything to do with setting your rate or being professional. 20 years in the adult industry has shown me the best and the worst of people. I like to run my business with a good heart and I help others anytime I can.

I was just saying GPS wasn't based on someone's rates it can be at all tiers. It's more of a way of thinking than price.

Casey

Originally Posted by Fancylady

All paid professionals going to be on best behavior and classy and good attitudes in paid sessions. Clients show up with empty pockets see how things change paid professionals.Professionals charge variety rates for services and plus business expenses.Famous words from professionals I can charge whatever I want for my services.Welcome to adult business