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Originally Posted by slickrick281
I made a mistake its Latent bisexual..not much of a big difference, same concept psychologically if you kept on reading. The OP basically ask is it gay to like or be curious of a woman fucking you in the ass with a strap on? Answer is yes because of the hidden inclination or potential for*interest of smashed by a dude too. which is either suppressed or not recognized, and which has not yet been explored(like his case). So even if you make the argument that "well it's still with a woman I'm doing it with" your still borderline from being like Eddie Murphy, LL Cool J, Rapper Chingy ect. who were caught seeing trannys.
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A) I would not say seeing a tranny and a woman with a strapon is the same thing
B) According to the frued quotes in the link, there is no way to dispute if its gay or not, because even if the guy has ZERO desire for it to be a man, it could all just be repressed, so you can never actually know.
Its proving a negative, which you cant do. Proving you ARENT gay is like proving you didnt commit a murder, you cant prove a negative, you can only prove that you ARE gay or DID commit the murder....all other variations are open for argument and interpretation, my the individual and everyone else.
I still maintain, if you are in some way attracted to a MAN, manliness, etc, that makes you bi/gay. If you are attracted to a woman, and she puts something in your ass, you arent gay unless you do it because you wish it was a man. Im not sure how getting a BJ with a finger in the ass is less gay than a strapon from a woman, but some argue it is - I argue, if its the WOMAN doing it that turns you on, then you arent gay. The act itself cant make you gay, its the background desire, and / or who is doing it. A blowjob doesnt make you gay. A BJ from a man does. A BJ from a woman, while wishing it was a man, does. IMO Same thing with a strapon.
You can argue the tranny side both ways, and many do, and there are plenty of threads about it. On that one, I go back to the attraction piece, and the fact that porn owners dont even try to market TS porn to gay men, because the fact that a TS appears as a woman, regardless of equip, is a turn off to them, they want straight up men. Theres far more grey area IMO on the TS debate making you gay or bi, but the fact that the attraction is to someone that appears as a woman says a lot, imo - if you were straight up gay, youd be attracted to dick no matter what its attached to.
No one is ever going to agree on it, and thats fine, and frankly it doesnt matter enough to me what someone else thinks about MY sexuality. I know what my identity is, and I am fine with it, without labels, and with whatever labels you want to put on it.
