When Clients Change

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by discreetgent

I don't think it should give a wider berth to bad behavior..

That is an interesting discussin starter for a new thread. It all depends on what is considered "bad" behaviour. I think since we are escorts we can expect a wider berth to bad behaviour because we don`t have real relationships with the clients and only serve to certain aspects of a relationships. Sometimes (and most often) it involves cheating. So if that is considered bad behaviour then i agree , we get paid for considering that. If a married man approached me in private i would probably point my finger on the tip of my head and that was it :-). Never would i be anyone`s mistress secretely without taking at least SOME money for secrecy :-).

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Leah Ireland

ACP - You know you may be right. When I was with him the time before it slipped out that he said he loved me. I didn't go further with it, I thought it was a just in the moment kind of thing. And he'd been saying that after some things I've been doing I look as good as when he met me a few years ago - OK yes, I guess stress got to me - and he seemed very happy to be back with me.

Maybe he felt obligated to blow it.

then you have your answer, he is being passive-aggressive and dislikes the fact that he loves you. and by behaving badly he wants to chase you away as you intimidate him.
He just doesn`t want to do the dirty work of "quitting" it, he wants you to throw the towel to make it easier for him and to have you blame.

[Leah Ireland]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

then you have your answer, he is being passive-aggressive and dislikes the fact that he loves you. and by behaving badly he wants to chase you away as you intimidate him.
He just doesn`t want to do the dirty work of "quitting" it, he wants you to throw the towel to make it easier for him and to have you blame.

You may be right. I guess I'll never go there and it's better not to know.

[Leah Ireland]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

That is an interesting discussin starter for a new thread. It all depends on what is considered "bad" behaviour. I think since we are escorts we can expect a wider berth to bad behaviour because we don`t have real relationships with the clients and only serve to certain aspects of a relationships. Sometimes (and most often) it involves cheating. So if that is considered bad behaviour then i agree , we get paid for considering that. If a married man approached me in private i would probably point my finger on the tip of my head and that was it :-). Never would i be anyone`s mistress secretely without taking at least SOME money for secrecy :-).

Yes, there really has to be compensation.

[Leah Ireland]

Originally Posted by Randy4Candy

Well, we've pretty much decided that people are human and don't behave perfectly at all times. Once or twice I have taken ladies to very nice and moderately expensive restaurants and have been disappointed at their behavior. In each case they over ordered and ate very little. I got the impression that they were conducting a "taste test" of the menu (as well as the wine list)...LOL! I suppose that off center senses of entitlement are common traits to men and women. As in other areas of today's world, respect and consideration of the other has slipped - good manners ain't what they used to be.

I think how one eats is an extremely telling thing. I just went out with an extremely wealthy man in ambivalent circumstances and felt that I shouldn't eat like a horse as I usually would... But never would I descend to dessert either!

There are a lot of manners to observe where food is concerned...

[Guest083011]

“Life is uncertain. Eat dessert first.”
Ernestine Ulmer

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by SR Only

“Life is uncertain. Eat dessert first.”
Ernestine Ulmer

it isn`t . people are predictable and sociological studies show pattern in behaviour. I have seen repetitive behaviour way too often to believe in uncertainty anymore :-)

[Guest083011]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

it isn`t . people are predictable and sociological studies show pattern in behaviour. I have seen repetitive behaviour way too often to believe in uncertainty anymore :-)

The unpredictability comes from natural causes, such as earhtquakes and the resulting disasters, or flooding, or otherwise. How human kind responds to these dilemmas is probably predictable.

I wanna eat my dessert before the earthquake hits.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by SR Only

The unpredictability comes from natural causes, such as earhtquakes and the resulting disasters, or flooding, or otherwise. How human kind responds to these dilemmas is probably predictable.

I agree......

[WTF]

Originally Posted by SR Only

The unpredictability comes from natural causes, such as earhtquakes and the resulting disasters, or flooding, or otherwise. How human kind responds to these dilemmas is probably predictable.

I wanna eat my dessert before the earthquake hits.

It does not have to be a natural cause

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_swan_theory

Identifying a black swan event
Based on the author's criteria:

1. The event is a surprise (to the observer).
2. The event has a major impact.
3. After its first recording, the event is rationalized by hindsight, as if it could have been expected (e.g., the relevant data were available but not accounted for).

[Valerie]

Originally Posted by SR Only

I wanna eat my dessert before the earthquake hits.

Cheers to that!