black culture - baby daddy baby momma

[Damionix]

Originally Posted by VitaMan

I don't know, you seem defensive with your comments. I have lived all over the world. The idea for this thread came out a conversation I had with my current girlfriend, who is black. She grew up without a father around, raised by her mother, and those conditions led to a poverty upbringing.

It only seems to be in the black culture or community that a man is casually thought of or tossed aside as a baby daddy, and that is all he is. Or that the "baby momma baby daddy" is even a category.

The black athlete is a different story. Almost everyone that has a background story written about them has a child in their teen years. Others like Evander Holyfield, Calvin Murphy, the Jets Cromarti and dozens of others reproduce like mad.

This statement is a blanket statement and puts all blacks under the same microscope. As an African (Yes,from Africa), I can confirm that we do not have this issue at the scale it is here in America. We do have a few dead beats, but society shuns them and shames them to the point that they have to step up, as even his own peers do not want to hang around him for fear of being guilty by association. When I came to the United states, I was stunned to see this happen in such great numbers, and I still don't actually think it is a black thing but more of environmental and socioeconomic standing. Society can change it if they take to shaming these people instead of making them popular. I personally find the term baby-mama or baby-daddy quite offensive because of all the negativity that goes with it.

TLDR; It is not a black thing, it affects all cultures. But it is pronounced more in Black-American culture because less people speak up about it. A kid raised with no father grows up most times not knowing how to be one properly, hence a vicious cycle.

[Randall Creed]

Let's see. Numbers proven to be bullshit. Tries to flip the script.

Typical.

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by Damionix

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As an African (Yes,from Africa), I can confirm that we do not have this issue at the scale it is here in America......

I've been there a few times and agree.

The bitterness is predominantly here.

Edit: over there.....they also wear their pants up around their waist where they belong.

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Let's see. Numbers proven to be bullshit. Tries to flip the script.

Typical.

Prove how the numbers are bs.

Park your bitterness and post some facts uitb.

You're losing and becoming emotional.

[Sistine Chapel]

Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

That Dr. Dyson sure did use the word "percentage" a lot.

Nice to see you falling in love with the negro. Just remember it's Dr. Dyson and just a little background info for ya to show the complexities of black life. As accomplished as Dr. Dyson is his brother is serving life in prison on a murder 2 charge stemming from their time growing up. So he's well qualified to speak on it. ;-)

[Sistine Chapel]

Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

Prove how the numbers are bs.

Park your bitterness and post some facts uitb.

You're losing and becoming emotional.

I think I'm gonna let this conversation continue before I get tired and eviscerate you. I may or may not but carry on though I like to see the back and forth. _2

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by Sistine Chapel

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So he's well qualified to speak on it. ;-)

Well he should learn to speak more slowly.

I suspect most of the Negros in that caucus couldn't understand so many words per minute.

[Sistine Chapel]

Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

Well he should learn to speak more slowly.

I suspect most of the Negros in that caucus couldn't understand so many words per minute.

^ Self reflect much?

[GlobeSpotter]

I knew you'd bite.

That's why I typed slowly for you.

[VitaMan]

Have to agree with the pants thing. Is that a black style, or all cultures ?

It looks completely ridiculous. Must not be very comfortable either.

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by VitaMan

Have to agree with the pants thing. Is that a black style, or all cultures ?

It started black and spread to a sprinkling of idiots within other races/cultures.

Geographically, i believe it is USA only.

Originally Posted by VitaMan

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It looks completely ridiculous. Must not be very comfortable either.

and dangerous

I saw a dumb ass in fast food kitchen the other day. The skinny mofo had his pants about halfway between his hips and knees. He had to waddle like a penguin.

I'm surprised companies, workers comp insurers, and OSHA let that shit get by.

[GlobeSpotter]

....sorry 'bout that

[VitaMan]

What's the percentage on the pants thing ?

[maineblame]

Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

It started black and spread to a sprinkling of idiots within other races/cultures.

Geographically, i believe it is USA only.


and dangerous

I saw a dumb ass in fast food kitchen the other day. The skinny mofo had his pants about halfway between his hips and knees. He had to waddle like a penguin.

I'm surprised companies, workers comp insurers, and OSHA let that shit get by.

So this is better?


Why cause it's what ur used to?



Dead beat dads are in every walk of life.....I love how ur statistics try and paint the AA community as a cancer to "American Family" structure. You watched Leave it to beaver too much lol

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by VitaMan

What's the percentage on the pants thing ?

100% loser