MFM enjoyment. To what extent do you allow yourself to be UNINHIBITED?

[AidanRedd]

I do MFM threesomes all the time, both with clients, and back in the day off of CL casual encounters.

There is almost NOTHING I won't do. Especially if the the women thinks it's hot.

Any guy that denies a women her fantasy in any way, just really needs to get over himself.

Just because a guy sucks a cock, or takes a cock in his ass, or fucks a guy, or even kisses a guy doesn't make him gay at all and doesn't even make him Bisexual.

Heteroflexible or curious, maybe.

[Mature Companion]

I had this discussion the other morning with someone.

What I try to wrap my mind around. Is that some men have indicated in this thread & others like it, the NO's of what they will NOT allow to take place during a MFM date. Yet privately those men have indicated quite the opposite of what they truly do allow & enjoy. To a great extent.
So my question to those who are indeed BI and truly do enjoy other men in some fashion. WHY publicly demoralize/demonize Male to Male contact/sexual interaction in a MFM? Yet privately you delve into how much you actually enjoy pleasing or receiving pleasure from another man?
Are some men, afraid that others will judge them if they express publicly what they enjoy? Isn't that why we use handles on hobby boards. To allow us to speak freely behind said persona?

I'd rather a man be upfront about what he enjoys, in threads such as these. Than to publicly demoralize/demonize said pleasures/interactions.

[Solemate62]

Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

I had this discussion the other morning with someone.


........Are some men, afraid that others will judge them if they express publicly what they enjoy? Isn't that why we use handles on hobby boards. To allow us to speak freely behind said persona?

I'd rather a man be upfront about what he enjoys, in threads such as these. Than to publicly demoralize/demonize said pleasures/interactions.

That said: I crossed over a few years back and had a wonderful session with TS Olivia. I sucked her cock, had her cum in my mouth and I loved it. I would welcome a MFM encounter but only if I could engage both the M and the F! Oh! Olivia also had sexy feet and I indulged my fetish interest as well!

[LuckJack]

Wicked, I think you are correct about perception, however I find it more so on the providers part. I was a silent partner in a conversation with a group of providers at a social. The primary subject was clients who had seen a TS, in mass they all said they would not see a client that they knew saw a TS or was bisexual. I think the STD and HIV fear was the thing. I offer no condemnation or criticism just an observation, as one who has not made the leap (yet) it gave me pause.

[Mature Companion]

I can see how some ladies may not want that out there in the public. For fear of potential or repeat clients judging them and thus refusal to see them. As those ladies may solely depend on the hobby to make ends meet.

But my original point made yesterday. Was about the hypocritical men who publicly demonized MFM yet privately stated quite the opposite. Of how they're more Bi than straight. They're a bottom etc.
They remind me a lot of those politicians who publicly condemn gay & lesbians yet they themselves are in bed with the same sex.


If you enjoy pleasure with someone of the same sex. Own it. You don't have to shout it to the world. You can share it privately if you like. But in turn don't publicly demonize it when it's in fact something you partake of to a good extent.

Originally Posted by LuckJack

Wicked, I think you are correct about perception, however I find it more so on the providers part. I was a silent partner in a conversation with a group of providers at a social. The primary subject was clients who had seen a TS, in mass they all said they would not see a client that they knew saw a TS or was bisexual. I think the STD and HIV fear was the thing. I offer no condemnation or criticism just an observation, as one who has not made the leap (yet) it gave me pause.

[TheHorseTrainer]

Originally Posted by Solemate62

That said: I crossed over a few years back and had a wonderful session with TS Olivia. I sucked her cock, had her cum in my mouth and I loved it. I would welcome a MFM encounter but only if I could engage both the M and the F! Oh! Olivia also had sexy feet and I indulged my fetish interest as well!

Can we make that A MFMF ? that sounds truly hot!

I know I'd like for someone to lead me to other realms, I'm fairly shy most of the time but VERY open minded I think.

Some of the TS's ... are SMOKIN HOT!

[TheHorseTrainer]

Originally Posted by LuckJack

Perverted? Nah just LOL funny.

I think, especially after reading Wicked's review her OP was to put it simply "if you were in a hot MFM, would you cross the line and have some type of sex with the other M"? The tread drifted away with a discussion of Heterosexual MFM and Bisexual MFM, I have already coped to dreaming about this and with me I know that is my subconscious preparing me. So if I ever do this, be the man in the middle, am I bisexual? Or am I uninhibited? Or do I really care? In any event this is getting real close to the bucket list.

I will volunteer to go with you!!!

The venture we take as we induldge in so many fantasy's can take us to new heights with out meaning we are bi or anything. I know I'm not bi but under the right setting I can fully enjoy a woman if she can return it. Things just don't "scare" me like they used to!

Play with the mind .... the body follows. This is true as we read stories on boards, porn etc ... it get's us thinking!!!

[Solemate62]

Originally Posted by TheHorseTrainer

Can we make that A MFMF ? that sounds truly hot!

I know I'd like for someone to lead me to other realms, I'm fairly shy most of the time but VERY open minded I think.

Some of the TS's ... are SMOKIN HOT!

THT did you maybe mean MFTSF? Yeah, some TS girls are really hot but the trick is to find one who is Fully Functional and that means not only being hard but also capable of serving up the whipped cream as well!

[pathfinder940]

I think we are coming to a point where our sexuality does not define who we date/love. Sexuality can define your romantic interests, but your romantic interest may not define your sexuality. If that makes sense.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by pathfinder940

I think we are coming to a point where our sexuality does not define who we date/love. Sexuality can define your romantic interests, but your romantic interest may not define your sexuality. If that makes sense.

Makes sense to me

[Mature Companion]

Absolutely!
Embracing ones sexuality is a beautiful thing and can heighten the romantic experience.

Originally Posted by pathfinder940

I think we are coming to a point where our sexuality does not define who we date/love. Sexuality can define your romantic interests, but your romantic interest may not define your sexuality. If that makes sense.

[Shackle]

I personally think this topic is about exploring ones limits and sexuality. To do that you really do need the right participants who also wish to explore and enjoy.

[Mature Companion]

Absolutely!

Originally Posted by Shackle

I personally think this topic is about exploring ones limits and sexuality. To do that you really do need the right participants who also wish to explore and enjoy.

[guest031913-2]

I always do....... I live each day as the last. There are a few clients that are the same way.......... I am never inhibited nor shy in the sexual arena..... I did that all the way thru school and all it got me was no orgasms

[houston_switch]

Wicked
What a story... beautiful....