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Originally Posted by BabyDallass
I wasn't going to accuse him of stiffing me until he accused me of taking the donation and lying about it....I was going to leave it alone, and assume that because of his age and it was our first meeting & he did make it right then and there. So I left it alone, it wasn't until I get a text from him at midnight saying that he looked everywhere for it and it never turned up. That is not my problem, but I won't be accused of taking something I didn't.
I know a well known very trusted provider on here ( won't say any names ) but she was accused of doing something she didn't do...well months later the client who accused her found what he was looking for...he admitted this to another provider that I know, but never got off his high horse to admit it to the girl who he had accused! & I think that is very wrong of him! Sad thing is that once a guy thinks you did something and accuses you for it. Even if what he was looking for turns up, he still doesn't want to admit it because he will look bad...not all are that way, but most.
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i understand your point...However from your say he is an old men and you are a grown ass woman..Have you try to résolve it privately first?If yes and it didnt work out i think you do know what to do"sight" ..You mentionned that one of his references told you to take him if you really need to so technically she wasnt giving a good reference so i guess it was a learning experience
Understand personally i would have check the donation when he was in the bathroom as common courtesy to be discret like you and maybe would be accuse of the same thing..However i do understand when you are honest its extremely frustrating but you réputation speak louder than some allegations
Once a client have hard time getting references they may realise they have not conduct themself in proper manner
Think about if he is THAt old who would believe his allegations at the end?
No disrespect SIR if you mixed up enveloppe and then accuse her of stealing why would you bother to go on with the session?
I mean if someone i just said my greeting and they tell me i am wrong on the donation and i am 100% sure i place it right i would take it as a lost and says my good bye
Why apologizing and saying it could lead to not want a repeat if you 100% believe you didnt have wrong donation?
Like i said i believe like Ginger it was a misunderstanding on both part and end as accusations on both part