#1. if it is possible to experience second hand embarrassment I am doing so for you in that your very reply pretty much solidifies my entire thought on the enviroment
#2. my second hand embarrassment extends even further for you when you know not of what you speak in regards to me, my status, my history, my clients or anything about me..for you see the very thing you are telling me I shouldn't do which is take how people post on this board as being how they are.. or this board just being the "cover of the book" ya...that...your attacks on me or who I am..are all based solely on "my post" i have made and led you to believe who I am..because you have nothing else to base that on..nor do I of any of you.. you take it at face value and casted a judgement about me..my experience level as a provider etc.. so didn't u just commit the same error you are saying I shouldn't commit? you talk to me as such an experienced provider...your a "legend" ..i am in the presence of a legend..and I should work on my creditials and my "presence" before I speak..because based on my name, my post..and what I have led you to believe to be truth about me..im simply a nobody in this world.. ha ha. you should be careful before you cast such a judgement..u might just embarrass yourself
#3. isn't the main idea behind the ops purpose in posting and subsequent responses based on letting her run her business the way she wants and everyone should mind their business and shut up?.... so whats good for the goose isn't good for the..hummm? ya we know how that finishes.. because i choose to run my business a certain way..i.e not accepting references from those I deem to be less than professional..suddenly I am not allowed to do that? seems like some have a double standard.
#4 no where in my post do i call the clients ghetto...not once.. actually right the opposite..i say the guys aren't the blame here..except from the standpoint that if they would control this world more with their money it would eradicate the board of the poor attitudes gradually.. as one can't sustain business when no one spends money thus encouraging less than professional behavior..if i choose to exclude those guys that like to encourage the behavior by continuing to spend money on the ghetto behaving providers..thats MY way of doing business..and remember..we are all allowed to do business how we want to..
I have made it clear from the beginning..im only here at the recommendation of a few clients.. after lurking etc..i quickly determined i did not NEED to be a part of this world..but if i worked towards getting "status" then it could be one more part of my business. If i wanted provider status..all it would take is the proper email to the right mods in dallas, austin, san antonio, arkansas, houston, etc and I would have it tomorrow. however.. I choose not to go that route as you can learn so much more about a group of people when you see who they are but they can only speculate and base their thoughts off of the current posts being made. its much easier to remain unknown and have the air of mystery about yourself then worry about being an attention hound on a silly board. I could direct the powers that be to my site..to my past work etc etc..but now that takes the fun out of it don't it.. once again..before one cast judgement about someone like your offended by you would think would do their research and make sure they know of what they speak..but hey..im just a nobody newbie who don't know shit and can't even get provider status
now..to further throw gas on a fire.. lets be clear..a legend you are not.. people like cashmyr, parker pearson, jordan, randi, pamela..those are legends.. bd, bb, b2, giz and others are legends.. they had success all over the country..reviews in some of the biggest markets and hardest markets to ever work. ..you see when you work a small market its easy.. guys have to tolerate what the market offers or simply go elsewhere (which many do) or wait till they travel to bigger markets to enjoy the hobby(which many do)..i don't personally know any guys any of you see..i do know of a few tho.. great guys.. wouldn't say anything different..but at the end of the day..they have to tolerate what the market is offering.. someone with 34 reviews, 10 that are duplicate client reviews.. and 4 of those are from the same guy and all but a few are all in arkansas is hardly the thing of legendary.. try branching out a little..make a name for yourself in houston, dallas, hell for that matter any bigger market... then maybe you begin to creep towards the "legend" moniker. no..touring isn't the end all say all.. im sure guys what you to come to their area.. fact is tho...dallas would eat most of ya'll up and spit you out.. houston would send you home crying..austin would make you wish u was in arkansas.. new orleans would have you praying for a drink on bourbon street.. once again..its no offense to the gentlemen in arkansas..great group of guys who work with what they are offered in the market.. some like the ghetto behavior and less than educated vulgar filled attacks..they need that in their life for entertainment and thats ok.. but at the end of the day.. arkansas is a small market.. and i venture to say those that have jobs that allow them to travel spend wayyyyyy more money hobbyiing outside of arkansas than they do in arkansas for a variety of reasons.
im sure each one of the ladies are great great providers and have found your niche in this little world. but you can't simply continue to talk out both sides of your mouth. It can't be leave this person alone and let her run her business a certain way then criticize someone else because they don't do it your way.. you can't "educate" someone 1 minute about not casting judgement on anyone based on the "book cover" that is this board and then the next sentence cast judgement yourself on someone else based on the persona they have created in just 13 post on this board.. because it will only lead you to look really foolish in the end.. trust me when i tell you this..you do not know of what or who you speak
ginger is good people.. consistent..been around awhile now.. seems to really try to help those that need it sometimes to a fault as she gets burned because she was so nice to the wrong people. but atleast she has been around awhile and the guys know whats going on..she is a pretty good option it seems to be a calm in what can be a storm in the hobbyland of arkansas
so with that..i say once again..bash away..attack away.. im sure what i say has offended many.. im sure what i point out will create a cuss filled ghetto response out of some. but i encourage you to think before you type.. because all you are basing your attack on is this "persona" i have created on this board.. this newbie, i hope to gain provider status, im learning the ropes, at the mercy of all the experts "persona".. as i have said..im not new to this world.. my time in pro/am porn and escorting is long and storied..but i do not care to live off the past to work into the future
we are all just "cock loving" money hungry girls in the end right.. some of us like a more professional approach..others like real life to get caught up in this world because they are still wet behind the ears ..but what do i know..im just a fat bbw provider no one is seeing or has seen or may never see
good day..and attack away.. it just proves my point