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DakineOne777 · 03-29-2016, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Old-T

I am not going to comment a lot on the management/owners here, largely because I do not know them--but the picture one gets from the visible pieces is the rules/policies are definitely slanted towards the guys in most cases. A number of the "old heads" will still occasionally bemoan that women should be seen, ogled at, and not post except for the ads.

Lol yeah to say that this site is stuck in a timewarp would be an understatement.

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Originally Posted by Old-T

But before the praise of TER gets too over-the-top, realize that site is there as a business first and foremost, and it is more antiseptic in many ways. The men and ladies probably are treated more similar--but that doesn't always mean better. And the original ownership there was completely corrupt in every way you can imagine. This is not the place to digress, but over a cup of coffee or a beer some day, some true stories to make your skin crawl.....

And yes, TER is far from perfect. But I don't mind a little antiseptic feel if everyone is treated equally. Perhaps it is the lesser of two evils. Just like the original ownership there was perhaps corrupt and vile, much of the same can be said for this site too. One large difference is that the successors at TER seem to have cleaned up any shoddy behavior and installed systems there that seem to foster better communication and much more equality amongst the rank & file posters there. This site has definitely NOT learned anything from past mistakes and has not evolved at all.

MaxiMilyen · 03-29-2016, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane805

Maximilyen - based on your writings here (and you pics), you are anything BUT a hayseed!

"if they actually listen and care about this site" - ah....there it is. But do they care? Or are they just arrogant bumpkins who refuse to budge on anything because of misplaced pride and sense of superiority? Having a woman suggest anything here would especially fall on deaf ears since their view of them here certainly leaves a lot to be desired, at least based on what I have read so far.

Change is hard and it can be scary. But it takes way bigger balls to change than to sit on your laurels, fat dumb and clueless.

I hope you are right about this site, but I have my doubts. The few encounters that I have had here with mod's were fairly unpleasant & unprofessional. Let's hope they get their collective shit together and turn things around for the betterment of everyone.

Thank you kindly, sir. I understand what it is you say. And yes, I understand about the mods, although, once upon a time I didn't really have a lot of issues with Mods. In their defense, I try to imagine what it must be like dealing with all the petty whining, and then the more serious issues they are dealing with. It's a thankless volunteer job, even if some appear to take advantage.

This was a great site and I loved the interaction in the forums, but then something happened and it just got extremely uncomfortable. If it was that way for me, I know it was/is for other ladies, and to be honest, what lady wishes to come on here and interact with a bunch of women haters who were not being moderated and allowed to literally run women into the ground.

I have to leave for weeks at a time and dread when I know I must come back. I actually have a good reputation, have never caused a client an issue, yet you would have thought I was outing gents, robbing them blind, and in general just some raunchy b*tch who had no legitimate thought whatsoever. Oh, and apparently, I'm some kind of man hater...LOL I have taken lots of hits helping others out, but got lotsa kicks for my efforts, even from the ladies. Not sure if it was because they needed the biz or what....craziness.

This time, the haters have backed off a bit, and I am grateful for that. Hopefully, they have backed off of other ladies as well. I always hope for the best and try to see things in a positive light, but good golly, it's been a rough go the past couple of years.

I love change, as most change is for the better and usually improves situations for all concerned. I kind of hope the PTB see it that way as well.

Hope....now that's something no one can ever take from me.

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Originally Posted by Old-T

I am not going to comment a lot on the management/owners here, largely because I do not know them--but the picture one gets from the visible pieces is the rules/policies are definitely slanted towards the guys in most cases. A number of the "old heads" will still occasionally bemoan that women should be seen, ogled at, and not post except for the ads.

But before the praise of TER gets too over-the-top, realize that site is there as a business first and foremost, and it is more antiseptic in many ways. The men and ladies probably are treated more similar--but that doesn't always mean better. And the original ownership there was completely corrupt in every way you can imagine. This is not the place to digress, but over a cup of coffee or a beer some day, some true stories to make your skin crawl.....

I can just imagine. It was a nightmare trying to deal with those yahoos. I'm eager to see the difference. Even antiseptic, is better than out right hate and total disrespect for one gender or the other.

kellie_love · 03-30-2016, 02:34 AM

Never had a solo lady in the hobby. I have in my personal life!

Gorgeous_Boriqua · 03-30-2016, 04:23 AM

Kinda off subject.. but has anyone seen that Gloria Steinem lately?
She is looking hot for an old broad, very together, classy, resilient, strong and speaks well.
Super hot, makes me wonder if I'd be attracted to more women her age.

Fancylady · 03-30-2016, 07:01 AM

Yes I have seen ladies and couples.I have paid for male escort.

DakineOne777 · 03-30-2016, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by kellie_love

Never had a solo lady in the hobby. I have in my personal life!

Do you see lady hobbyists? I have talked to a few providers that didn't see ladies "on the clock" because it was something that was too close to home for them, and they didn't want to cross that line from personal to business. All I know is that I love it when providers state on their sites that they are couples & lady friendly so that I don't always have to ask

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Originally Posted by Gorgeous_Boriqua

Kinda off subject.. but has anyone seen that Gloria Steinem lately?
She is looking hot for an old broad, very together, classy, resilient, strong and speaks well.
Super hot, makes me wonder if I'd be attracted to more women her age.

I notice many attractive older women that I would love to molest! It's typically men that try to instill that BS about "men age gracefully but women don't". I can't beleive that otherwise intelligent women would buy into that nonsense!

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Originally Posted by Fancylady

Yes I have seen ladies and couples.I have paid for male escort.

Hi Fancy! I recognize you from some other sites, especially TER

DakineOne777 · 03-30-2016, 07:51 PM

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Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

I can just imagine. It was a nightmare trying to deal with those yahoos. I'm eager to see the difference. Even antiseptic, is better than out right hate and total disrespect for one gender or the other.

Please do try TER again, MaxMilyen. I am very curious to see what you think. Hopefully your experience will be much better than before. It's GOTTA be a huge step up (in terms of equality) that this place!

MaxiMilyen · 03-30-2016, 11:02 PM

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Originally Posted by DakineOne777

Please do try TER again, MaxMilyen. I am very curious to see what you think. Hopefully your experience will be much better than before. It's GOTTA be a huge step up (in terms of equality) that this place!

Thanks, I may do that. Antiseptic has got to be better than these behind the screen beat downs, among some of the other shenanigans that go on. It is what it is, I guess....sigh

Hurricane805 · 03-31-2016, 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

Thanks, I may do that. Antiseptic has got to be better than these behind the screen beat downs, among some of the other shenanigans that go on. It is what it is, I guess....sigh

I'm also on TER - keep us posted

I haven't explored too much of this place because I know it will be a waste of my time (my area is painfully weak in everything, especially reviews). Since this site is Texas based, I guess it's best to leave it to the poor oppressed ladies and the backwards hillbilly "men"

Vyvian · 03-31-2016, 07:36 PM

I see ladies personally, but I've never had a solo lady client... I'd luv 2 tho!

MaxiMilyen · 03-31-2016, 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane805

I'm also on TER - keep us posted

I haven't explored too much of this place because I know it will be a waste of my time (my area is painfully weak in everything, especially reviews). Since this site is Texas based, I guess it's best to leave it to the poor oppressed ladies and the backwards hillbilly "men"

They have at least one lady who is not oppressed, and while I"m not overly popular with certain fellas, I do have my fans. It'd be nice if they quit jacking with my personal stuff, hint hint. Obviously, I can not name anyone specific, but it ain't rocket science. sigh Why anyone would feel I am such a threat is beyond me.

DakineOne777 · 03-31-2016, 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Vyvian

I see ladies personally, but I've never had a solo lady client... I'd luv 2 tho!

Have you ever had a lady hobbyist request one?

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Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

They have at least one lady who is not oppressed, and while I"m not overly popular with certain fellas, I do have my fans. It'd be nice if they quit jacking with my personal stuff, hint hint. Obviously, I can not name anyone specific, but it ain't rocket science. sigh Why anyone would feel I am such a threat is beyond me.

Any woman with a brain in her head who has the sheer gall to voice her opinion (especially on a sex board) is a HUGE threat to insecure men.

Vyvian · 04-01-2016, 02:11 AM

Just 1, but it fell thru for whatever reason...

burkalini · 04-01-2016, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

Thank you kindly, sir. I understand what it is you say. And yes, I understand about the mods, although, once upon a time I didn't really have a lot of issues with Mods. In their defense, I try to imagine what it must be like dealing with all the petty whining, and then the more serious issues they are dealing with. It's a thankless volunteer job, even if some appear to take advantage.

This was a great site and I loved the interaction in the forums, but then something happened and it just got extremely uncomfortable. If it was that way for me, I know it was/is for other ladies, and to be honest, what lady wishes to come on here and interact with a bunch of women haters who were not being moderated and allowed to literally run women into the ground.

I have to leave for weeks at a time and dread when I know I must come back. I actually have a good reputation, have never caused a client an issue, yet you would have thought I was outing gents, robbing them blind, and in general just some raunchy b*tch who had no legitimate thought whatsoever. Oh, and apparently, I'm some kind of man hater...LOL I have taken lots of hits helping others out, but got lotsa kicks for my efforts, even from the ladies. Not sure if it was because they needed the biz or what....craziness.

This time, the haters have backed off a bit, and I am grateful for that. Hopefully, they have backed off of other ladies as well. I always hope for the best and try to see things in a positive light, but good golly, it's been a rough go the past couple of years.

I love change, as most change is for the better and usually improves situations for all concerned. I kind of hope the PTB see it that way as well.

Hope....now that's something no one can ever take from me.

I can just imagine. It was a nightmare trying to deal with those yahoos. I'm eager to see the difference. Even antiseptic, is better than out right hate and total disrespect for one gender or the other.

Poor Yoda. Has she been picked on. How can anyone pick on her when she is such an expert on everything. I don't think dislike for gender has anything to do with it. I think maybe dislike for an individual might be more appropriate. Is there any subject Yoda might not be a master of? I doubt it. Yoda if Ter is more your speed now maybe a permanent move might be the thought of the day. Now I'm sure we will just move without direction if you go but somehow someway this site will go on. It will be difficult since we will have no one to tell us how to live and breath.

MaxiMilyen · 04-01-2016, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by burkalini

Poor Yoda. Has she been picked on. How can anyone pick on her when she is such an expert on everything. I don't think dislike for gender has anything to do with it. I think maybe dislike for an individual might be more appropriate. Is there any subject Yoda might not be a master of? I doubt it. Yoda if Ter is more your speed now maybe a permanent move might be the thought of the day. Now I'm sure we will just move without direction if you go but somehow someway this site will go on. It will be difficult since we will have no one to tell us how to live and breath.

I hate you've come to comprehend all ladies are not limited to lying on their backs. It's an eye opener for many men, so you are not alone. However, you are much more so unpleasant about the realization than others. Your name calling is childish and offensive. I tattled, just as I indicated I would. I don't mind not agreeing with anyone. No doubt the site will go on, but if things do not change, it'll be a bunch of boys women hating as you enjoy and all playing "king if the hill".

I have been something much more offensive than simply, "picked on." While I won't elaborate....the PTB need not push me. It's one thing to take the stuff dished out on the board, and a whole other to do so off the board. Any imagined offense of mine does not compare. Period.

And since I've given my take on female clients, I'm sure everyone would love to know yours. Me, I think they ate awesome! I've had them, and they are awesome.