Why knock me for not doing bbbj

[citizen44]

If you didn't want to discuss her never giving head why would you bring it up on a internet forum in the trolling section? Also, threatening people on an internet forum? Really?

P.S. 30 years without a BJ? Dude, that would suck. Hell, I bet all your appointments are BBBJ only

[TravelingGentleman]

Originally Posted by citizen44

I never understand this. Why do people marry sexually repressed women? Long-term relationships are hard enough without starting off hobbled with one foot behind your back. Guaranteed divorce or extreme unhappiness. I wouldn't even date a girl that wasn't BBBJCIM and open to greek.

Seconded to D.G - if you want a guaranteed divorce, look to the couples who got married because the sex was great. Over time, sex decreases. You have kids and it trickles away further. Eventually you stop even going to bed at the same time.

Marriages don't last because your wife provides tail. They last because you have common interests and goals, and make a great team. Unfortunately, sometimes sex isn't part of that teamwork - but when you're 50/60/70 and your withered pork stick couldn't find it's way into bat-infested church of flesh no matter how much you oil the door hinges...it doesn't matter.

That's what goes the distance - someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. Now, if you know anyone who happens to be married to someone who not only shares the same interests, has the same goals, shares viewpoints...AND is a kinky, unsatiable, exploratory harlot in bed....

Well, that's better than winning the lotto. Because at least the lotto is real, and you have the tiniest, slim chances.

[txman123]

regardless of what we individually want gfe and pse to mean, in our marketplace to the vast majority of buyers gfe and pse includes bbbj. pse means cim.

so, I consider op to be practicing deceptive advertising.

op, I didn't do much research on your being hassled for not bbbj'ing, but I imagine much of it stems from advertising gfe and pse.

but if that's the worst that goes on around here, then we're doing pretty good.

[SweetDulce]

I only recently started offering bjs. Not even cbj was on my menu. In those 5 months only 1 eccie person told me they didn't know.
Op. I would always mention no bjs in my pm when giving other information. Just to make sure he knew. Maybe th as the would help.

[Xbar]

In my opinion you do whatever makes you feel comfortable. If a client does not like that, then he can move on to a provider that does provide a BBBJ. For me personally, it is not a deal breaker.

[D.G.]

Originally Posted by citizen44

If you didn't want to discuss her never giving head why would you bring it up on a internet forum in the trolling section? Also, threatening people on an internet forum? Really?

P.S. 30 years without a BJ? Dude, that would suck. Hell, I bet all your appointments are BBBJ only

I brought it up to say that attaching what physical act a person does does nit make an experiance girlfriend like. It is an attitude and chemistry.

I do not see how she is any less of a wife for not gibing me a blowjob. You must not be good at relationships.

[Camille Fox]

Originally Posted by awesomeash24

Why does everyone look down on me for not offering bbbj I understand that it is offered a lot on here but me personally I do not like offering any kind of bare services till I have an established relationship with a client. I have never had any complaints about my cbj amd have been told even with condoms I have one of the best mouths in the south. Do any other girls have this problem because I'm feeling like I'm the only one?????
I don't think I should be knocked for looking out for my safety.

No one has brought up the YMMV element. Many gents won't have a problem with you only providing CBJ, but when they find out you are providing a service they wish they would get to different gents, they feel devalued.

You only have one chance to make a great first impression. If it's a safety concern, stick with what you think it's best for you, but I would recommend against making it known you are a YMMV bbbj provider.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Originally Posted by D.G.

I have been with my wife for more or less 30 or more years. If not for a medical condition i would not be here so think before you open your mouth about a mans wife before some one has to shut it for you

And if he doesn't, then what?

Nobody here gives a shit about you and your sick mitch but.. well, you.

awesomeash:
90% of the fun of being an adult is doing what you want to do. Why would this be any different?

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by D.G.

I have been with my wife for more or less 30 or more years. If not for a medical condition i would not be here so think before you open your mouth about a mans wife before some one has to shut it for you

You brought your wife up on a hooker board..... but since you did .... may be your hostility is one reason you doesn't want to suck your dick. Females are "funny" like that.

But if your aggression is reserved for ONLY internet posting, my apologies.

[LexusLover]

Originally Posted by txman123

..... but I imagine much of it stems from advertising gfe and pse.

but if that's the worst that goes on around here, then we're doing pretty good.

Deception in consumer transactions is unacceptable in any profession.

A potential "guest" sees the ad, knows what it means, and sets up an appointment .... (discussing details is FORBIDDEN) ... gets ready for the meeting, travels across town in the traffic (or rents a room), blocks out 3-4 hours out of the work day, and then finds out she doesn't provide as advertised based on generally accepted "alphabet soup" definitions.

And in fairness the same with reviews. Hobbyists made up shit too.

[Jon Bon]

OP (Original Poster) do what is comfortable for you. If you want to do CBJ only, then do CBJ only.

I am confident that the OP had boyfriends before. OP, did you do CBJ on your boyfriends? Probably not, thus, I would argue that GFE (Girlfriend Experience) includes BBBJ.

However, you are in the hobby to collect donations, correct? If so, know that most guys on eccie LIKE BBBJ. Just know that there are fewer clients that prefer CBJ vs BBBJ on eccie.

Also, your rate structure can hinder clients from seeing you with CBJ. Maybe consider going to a lower rate, may help draw clients in.

With that said, I would suggest you update your services on your showcase (Escort (GFE) Escort (PSE) & 100% GFE) to properly reflect your true services/ expectations.

Good Luck

[JustMeCLTXGG]

Originally Posted by Jon Bon

.............................. .................I am confident that the OP had boyfriends before. OP, did you do CBJ on your boyfriends? Probably not, thus, I would argue that GFE (Girlfriend Experience) includes BBBJ.......................... ..............

agree with the modifying rates to reflect services/menu.

as for the above, you're assuming she even gave bf's bj's.

it keeps coming up. I wonder just how many people each person has dated. I've dated enough to know just because you have a gf doesn't mean you're getting bj's even when you've progressed to doing the deed. heck, one girl wouldn't even take her bra off. didn't care for that but she was a gf. you think a girl here would get away with that?

there is no generic this is how a gf acts and what they do other than they want to be with the bf and make him feel like he is the center of their attention. that and kissing pretty much. oh, and the CRAZY. still haven't seen anyone say they want the crazy included with their sessions. (I still love that graph SpiceItUp! and dammit! soo forgot to show my buddies that. ha, ha)

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by JustMeCLTXGG

agree with the modifying rates to reflect services/menu.

as for the above, you're assuming she even gave bf's bj's.

it keeps coming up. I wonder just how many people each person has dated. I've dated enough to know just because you have a gf doesn't mean you're getting bj's even when you've progressed to doing the deed. heck, one girl wouldn't even take her bra off. didn't care for that but she was a gf. you think a girl here would get away with that?

there is no generic this is how a gf acts and what they do other than they want to be with the bf and make him feel like he is the center of their attention. that and kissing pretty much. oh, and the CRAZY. still haven't seen anyone say they want the crazy included with their sessions. (I still love that graph SpiceItUp! and dammit! soo forgot to show my buddies that. ha, ha)

They cant handle crazy they already cry on here half the shit these tards do I don't see how they are even married.n

[SamHouston]

lol

[SamHouston]

just be honest in your ads about CBJ and thats what i expect.