The reason the porn industry features a lot of visuals of cumshots is that they want the reality that is often not there in "soft porn". COF is not necessarily the only "Money Shot" as was previously inferred. Any sequence that shows the actual cumshot is what the porn industry calls the "Money Shot".
Some great points about WALDT and perceptions have been made in this thread.
I personally do not like COF and CIM is not all that and a bag of chips either but I once had a girl tell me she liked to see guys cum and wanted to know if I would like to finish in her mouth or on her boobs. I figured if she liked watching, then I might, too. I opted for the breasts since I wanted to see it, too, and I also wanted to see her reaction.
It was truly memorable to see her light up and genuinely seem to feel a sense of accomplishment when she made it happen. She "dick-slapped" her boobs and I watched as she also rubbed my helmet across her very hard, aroused and erect nipples. There was absolutely no doubt that she was into what her actions were doing to my libido and how erotic she knew she was making me feel. She definitely enjoyed being able to make me succumb to her considerable skills, talents and sexuality.
I was completely at her mercy and besides that, I was definitely hooked on how she made me feel. I still see the lady UTR to this day.
In my mind she was never slutty nor did her actions seem degrading because she was really into seeing my reaction and she was also getting a definite high in knowing she had that sort of control over my arousal and climax.
All climaxes must have mental gratification along with the physical so if the girl enjoys what she is doing or even if she only enjoys the power her skills can have over you, then it is a turn-on for me. It is ALL up to her in my book. Her limits are her limits.
On the other hand, I agree with several other posters on various points like these quotes below:
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Originally Posted by outbound
With a woman who truly enjoys wants, COF can be a nice experience....Bottom line for me, the sexiest thing about a finish (whether it be CIM, COB or even just the let it fly from an HJ) is the perception that the woman is excited for you to do it there.....it makes all the difference in the world....A hot session can cool off pretty quickly if your partner treats finishing you off with all the clinical excitement of milking a cow at 6:00am.  |
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Originally Posted by rex4998
I like it, but she has to like it too to make it work. it's a mutual, complete visual stimulant. there is no stimulation if she doesn't want it....no one has to "get it" when it comes to what stimulates other people. there is no right or wrong answer.
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Originally Posted by Dr-epg
I had 1 provider ask me to COF it was stimulating she said she enjoyed it and she asked me to do it....My fav is CIM or COT
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I fully agree that watching as a girl does something that makes her feel uncomfortable or worse is not my thing and never will be. I respect all boundaries and simply enjoy the giving aspect of what the ladies in the hobby provide me.
BTW, L1 and L2 sensual massages with happy endings are in essence similar in nature and even in some of the mental aspects involved in their completion. Part of the ending is seeing the "money shot" (CIM, COF, COT, COB, COA or just LIF - let it fly) and don't let anyone tell you that an approving reaction from the masseuse is not an integral part of the level of "happiness" we all take away from that experience.
Well come over and I'll show ya how much of a dirty girl I can be!
What is it about COF?
I really did. I'm not faking this ladies! Look what I did! 
I'm really curious...because, yeah...I don't get it. 
