Ladies: Has an angry wife ever called you?

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

but "cold" nina? no - a real sweetie unless you piss her off the your ass is grass. Hell I'll have to find a way to start an argument with her one of these days so I can drool. Being insulted by super hot women turns me on :-)))) lol.

Thank you, love you too, you have become a truly lovely friend. I will write to you shortly ;-).

That said, I wanted also to inform Ava and others that I have worked at other rates , too, and am not a snob ;-). I am just an old hag , that explains the higher rates (bwahahah). Nothing more than that.

[pipefitter73]

Originally Posted by alluringava

.... finally I said, " You know, I can see why your husband wanted to see escorts. If you would just shut up and suck his dick more often, that might be the solution to his infidelity. "

I recently had the wife of a hobbyist contact me.

She sent me a message on my hobby facebook account- "You degrade women by soliciting them". First I told her she had the wrong person but she said, "I don't think so, I've seen the emails you guys send to each other, those poor girls".

I responded by saying, "Poor girls, what about us poor guys whose wives won't give us any? And I've never solicited a lady in my life. These ladies are grown women, just like yourself. Many are mothers. I'm sorry you feel like I'm the bad guy here, but look in the mirror. There's a reason your husband is seeing escorts and I didn't make that decision, he did. Besides, you should be thanking me for telling him where the nice girls are at. At least he's not out having unprotected sex with street walkers or having an affair and giving his heart to another woman. Instead he is having protected sex with nice girls and staying with you. You should be thankful he is still with you. This is between you guys, keep me out of it"

A few weeks later, believe it or not, she actually thanked me for encouraging her husband to see the nice girls and staying away from "dodgy" girls.

[Valerie]

Originally Posted by pipefitter73

A few weeks later, believe it or not, she actually thanked me for encouraging her husband to see the nice girls and staying away from "dodgy" girls.

Heheheh..You said dodgy..I'm so proud x

[WTF]

Would it be crass to say I would like to do the hokey pokey with all the ladies that have posted in this thread?

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by WTF

Would it be crass to say I would like to do the hokey pokey with all the ladies that have posted in this thread?

Would it be crasser to say I have?? (oooops....except Ava but that's a foregone conclusion)

[pipefitter73]

Originally Posted by Valerie

Heheheh..You said dodgy..I'm so proud x

yes Val, you taught me well

[Guest061612-1]

Rule #1: DENY...DENY...DENY
Rule #2: Dont crap in your own back yard...stink draws attention
Rule #3: ALWYAS...ALWAYS have a hobby phone...only use it for the hobby
Rule #4: Never respond to a text of email that accuses you of...
Rule #5: See above

[WTF]

Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

Would it be crasser to say I have?? (oooops....except Ava but that's a foregone conclusion)

Yea you and I wanna diddle the anger outta the wifey too!

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by pipefitter73

I recently had the wife of a hobbyist contact me.


I responded by saying, "Poor girls, what about us poor guys whose wives won't give us any? And I've never solicited a lady in my life. These ladies are grown women, just like yourself. Many are mothers. I'm sorry you feel like I'm the bad guy here, but look in the mirror. There's a reason your husband is seeing escorts and I didn't make that decision, he did. Besides, you should be thanking me for telling him where the nice girls are at. At least he's not out having unprotected sex with street walkers or having an affair and giving his heart to another woman. Instead he is having protected sex with nice girls and staying with you. You should be thankful he is still with you. This is between you guys, keep me out of it"

A few weeks later, believe it or not, she actually thanked me for encouraging her husband to see the nice girls and staying away from "dodgy" girls.

I agree, for me this is also better than actively trying to destroy a marriage thru an affair or some needy emotionally draining secret love affair.

Plus, the safe sex and the security about heaLTH IS also a big issue. I hate it when people get wary about @oh because you work with sex@, I think thez should rather get worried about people who have a lot of sex but are not professionals :-) healthwise. Ordinary women usually don"t think so much about what is going on below their navel, because they would never think about themselves in a @bad@ way, much rather admit to themselves they are kind of @doing it often@ and therefor shoould get check ups regularly

[Slave Guinevere]

Alluring Ava...

I am so sorry to hear about your negative experience with that woman...that must have been sooo upsetting for you... In my personal opinion...it is soo hard not to internalize an encounter of such vindictiveness... Even though you are a beautiful and confident woman... You are not made of steel...and she clearly violated your privacy...

I believe that at some point...everyone in their lives will have to go though some form of betrayal...and how we handle that transgession...will surely define us... That being said... I have had a man cheat on me... Last year as a matter of fact...and while I did want to SMACK his sexy ass... I have too much pride...to make such an idiot of myself...

There was a time...last fall when I first became Slave Guinevere... when I encountered an irate wife... Now, I was able to calmly talk her down...but she wasn't CRAZY!! Calling Ava 40 times ALONE... indicates a personality with compromised mental health...uncontrollable rage....and when faced with such narcissistic rage... I do believe it is BEST... to be AGGRESSIVE... and to be honest... Such a person will not RESPECT a calm diatribe of words...that sort of negotiation is viewed as a weak response...and encourages the narcissist to take out their insecurity and rage on their victim.

While Ava's words were harsh...I think they were needed...and I would like to applaud you for sticking up for your rights as a person...and for defending your family... The quickest way to feel despondent...is to let someone push you around...

Never...never...let anyone tell you that you are defenseless... You are not alone...there will always be providers and clients like myself...who are here...to help lend a hand...

I would also like to applaud Nina...for reaching out to us...so far over the ocean... My stepmother is from Austria...and she is constantly frustrated with what she terms are AMERICAN ways... Lol... What can I say... We are a feisty lot...

It is always good to have many different perspectives on any given situation...and I do understand your approach...you are a very passionate but private woman...and that sort of encounter just isn't your style... But our beautiful Ava...is passionate and alluring...and that makes her a special favorite with the men of Texas... Hmmm...probably some of the ladies as well... Lol...

I specialize in GFE and BDSM... and I've had to learn to tame my fiery nature...in order to be a professional slave/submissive.... But that took A LOT of SPANKINGS to get me to reign in my Scottish temper... Lol.. However, it sneaks out... When I am threatened... watching sporting events...movies... Etc... You should have seen me watching "The Warriors" the other night... Lol... I was fit to be tied...

Oops... I digress... Anyway, great topic...great discussion...and from now on I am saying I sell GOLDFISH on CRAIGSLIST when a wife or GF calls me!! Great suggestion!!

Paddles and kisses,

Slave Guinevere

[sexymaid_69]

I guess I've been lucky, All this time and I've never had an angry phone call from anyone.

However should I get one, I already advertise my civi work on a few websites and can easily say it's a case of mistaken identity.

[dilbert firestorm]

Originally Posted by tonytiger4u

OK, Zarah. You just can't drop a bomb like that and not give some details. I just have to know what happened! This sounds like a good laugh story.

I agree with that comment! Spill the details!!!!

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by dilbert firestorm

I agree with that comment! Spill the details!!!!

The details already spilled into Z's mouth. lol

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by dilbert firestorm

I agree with that comment! Spill the details!!!!

I've told it many times here and and on other sites. It's disturbing just thinking about it.

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

The details already spilled into Z's mouth. lol

Sorry. I don't CIM.

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Sorry. I don't CIM.

No need to be sorry. For some guys (not me) it's a deal breaker.