What is a high class provider to you?

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

There's no crash course for being a high class provider. Being a high class person and provider are the same thing. If you don't have the means to live a lavish life, or do things that require an above average financial situation, then don't fake it. Just find that balance between the value you have for yourself, and the amount you can charge in order to make ends meet where the phone won't stop ringing.

Being high class is a state of mind. I don't know how your got your start, or why you decided to become a companion. But there are companions of all types advertising on the internet. Being that you are married, I would think that you two would put a great deal amount of thought into the way you would work as a companion. Deciding to start with half hour sessions says a lot. I'm not judging you, but I'm just saying. It says a lot about your business sense, needs, and attitude.

Balance is key. Live your life. You should not be focused on 'becoming' an HDH. HDH's are HDH's because they can be. They are so many things, and just looking the part is only the beginning. If you can't afford to wait on clients at HDH rates, don't attempt it just for the hell of it. There is no shame in working the way you HAVE TO in order for you to make it.

One day, you and your husband will have everything you need in order to meet your goals. Your wardrobe will be the envy of all women. You will have been so many places, and done so many things, and accomplished so much. There will be nothing to do but celebrate, vacate, and appreciate. At that point, you will be a HDH, and you can charge whatever you want.

Just something to think about. All the best to you and yours!

Nicely stated, great input, Tiffani!

[cinderbella]

Often a high class provider will have something that is not often accepted or believed by the average board hobbyist or poster. That something might very well be a lot of reviews. It's frustrating as an intelligent lady who encourages a potential client an opportunity to interview her in order to discern whether they would be compatible.

Someone who is patient, thoughtful and intent upon deciding to only allow her time spent wisely with someone who cared enough to call upon her and not simply assume that a lack of reviews somehow means she isn't trustworthy or desirable.

I say this because of the times where someone has taken the time to interview me, told me something about his own personality and introduction will show up with a donation exceeding what I ever asked for...... proceeds to spend a wonderful, clock free joy fest where we both wind up with smiles on our faces a mile wide......
Either doesn't leave a review whatsoever or comes back to visit, texts or phones occasionally to say hello........ There is no advertising for that. It's only known to her and perhaps his confidants.

There have been a couple of times where someone point blank asked me, "Why no recent reviews? From my standpoint, I am someone blessed with enough repeat clientele and enough word of mouth recommendation to stay busy. My clients privacy is as important as mine. It's obvious from my incall location, my photographic talent and my attitude that I present myself truthfully. For me, trust and integrity are as important as looks and truthful integrity does not always come from a seasoned hobbyist. I understand from a man's perspective that doesn't mean much but I prefer to keep my private affairs private.

[Tiffani Jameson]

Originally Posted by Truthbetold

Tiffani imparted a lot of wisdom. My grandmother was a blue-collar woman married to a coal miner, but she had class. She was clean, well-spoken, polite, reserved and respectful. As Tiffani correctly said, having class is a state of mind. In my eyes, one who exhibits kind and respectful behavior is a classy individual and worthy of respect. Matters of the material world aren't a reflection of being a classy individual.

The world is full of foolish experts, critics and enthusiasts. Expensive clothing, good taste in dining and knowing how to spend money reflect knowledge of given material issues but offer absolutely no insight into whether someone is respect worthy. In other words, worldly doesn't mean classy.

Regarding fees, I'd like to share my thoughts. When I visit Eccie or P411 and find a girl I'm interested in seeing, fees aren't a primary concern. I see girls in all price ranges. Most of the girls I've liked as of late have been in the $300-500/hr range, though some have had very nice multi-hour visit discounts. In my experience, a woman's fees in the $300-1200/hour have had little to no correlation with the quality of my visit as well as the accuracy of her biography. I've seen some very expensive women with some incredibly bad attitudes and women whose services were more modestly priced who never cease to amaze me.

In the end, no matter what you do in life, it's a good idea to strive to be a classy person. It makes life easier.

Regarding the impact of being classy on one's fees as an escort, remember that you'll never be everything to everybody. Character driven clients like me will visit a girl irrespective of her fees, whereas price driven clients will stay within a given price point.

One thing that hurts your image in my eyes is the presence of your husband. Whether he's living out his cuckold fantasy, the two of you have a hot wife fantasy or if you just like a lot of sex and he has to live with it this way or the way of an affair, we don't need to and shouldn't know about it, at least not until we know you well. Another consideration is that as a client, I like to pamper the women I visit, but I don't like to feed her husband or boyfriend. Some will appreciate your open disclosure; most of us will not. We want the fantasy, and if we mutually decide to develop a close client/provider relationship, the discussion of RW lives is open game.

Good luck!

Thank you darling, and you have imparted a lot of wisdom as well. As a 'character driven client' (I like that!) you're ideal to a lot of women, and your post echoes the sentiments of men I admire.

The OP has youth on her side, and there's always room for growth.

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

When they adapted the novella, they made Holly less hookerish than the book. But your description is spot on in the film.

You are absolutely right! I'm reading the novella now. I've never been a fiction person, so I've never read it before now. Thanks for making that distinction!

[awl4knot]

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Thank you darling, and you have imparted a lot of wisdom as well. As a 'character driven client' (I like that!) you're ideal to a lot of women, and your post echoes the sentiments of men I admire.

The OP has youth on her side, and there's always room for growth.



You are absolutely right! I'm reading the novella now. I've never been a fiction person, so I've never read it before now. Thanks for making that distinction!

Point of order! if you hadn't read the book, how could you differ from my description? The movie is very different from the book. BTW, Capote wanted Marilyn to play Holly, presumably because she could show the transition from a poor background to someone comfortable in the demimonde and fast Manhattan cafe society.

for a girl who wants to "grow" the real value is exposure to great writing and literature. that it is about a hooker (this is pre-escorts) only makes it more accessible to this focused readership.

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Thank you darling, and you have imparted a lot of wisdom as well. As a 'character driven client' (I like that!) you're ideal to a lot of women, and your post echoes the sentiments of men I admire.

The OP has youth on her side, and there's always room for growth.



You are absolutely right! I'm reading the novella now. I've never been a fiction person, so I've never read it before now. Thanks for making that distinction!

Tiffani, I'm not a big fiction reader either. If you like New Orleans, you might enjoy The Last Madam. Great nonfiction.

[Msdivadee]

Great blog

[GoodGirlMedia]

Originally Posted by Gentlemen Rendezvous

Presentation, attitude, delivery, discretion. Presentation - present yourself as a lady, a courtesan, a companion. From your showcase, to your website, to your profile, present yourself as someone not involved with the BNG / half hour, use 50 symbols in my ad crowd.

Very well put, and presentation CANNOT be stressed enough. Especially if you're marketing yourself online, nothing else really matters if your photos or your website are scaring off the gents before they even have a chance to get to know you. You don't necessarily have to spend an arm and a leg either, as there are a lot of very talented photographers in the biz nowadays who can deliver magazine-quality photos, for little more than the cost of one or two gigs (of course it varies depending on your location). Same goes for a professional website. Search eccie and ask some of the other ladies on the board, you should be able to find all the tools you need in that department.


Merry Christmas &
Happy Holidays, Everyone!

[Christina Watkins]

Haven't checked this thread in awhile, lot's of good advice I must say. I think I've realized I am sort of high class, in my own way of course. I'm pretty sure coming from a working class family I would be uncomfortable in a place too far above my income. I truly believe however, that I'm a working mans high class and I'm very comfortable and happy to be in that role! Thanks to all that have contributed/posted, you all played a role in my coming to this answer!

Merry Christmas to you all and I hope you have a wonderful new year!

[ShawnaPatterson31]

High class?

Hmmmm....... When you can see yourself easily being viewed in public with her without fear of onlookers perception of her and you both. Dinner at a 5 star restaurant, on a 14 hour flight, or in the presence of those you respect.... she belongs.

Behind closed doors she's not just GFE, she's more so than any actual GF you've ever known. She seems immensely capable of maintaining the illusion of total passion. She does so with good reason, she does feel passion for you. Your not a walking ATM to her, a gig, a job.... you are what she holds in high regard A MAN.
Flawed is some ways yet perfect in many others, your own unique individuality she appreciates and values those qualities. Zeroing in on what they are quickly after making your acquaintance. You, like all men with unique attributes posses the ability to inspire her to desire you. YOU summon the passion from within her.

The musk of a man, the way large hands feel like gripping her, needing her unleashing a desire to be fully present and available to him and only him at the moment in time.

She is selective and cautious and enjoys the initial contact from a man viewing it as the first bit of foreplay they have exchanged. Just like any other type of foreplay it can drive her crazy with anticipation or leave her motor stone cold. She is aware the same is likely true for how she fuels his fire for her.

When all the fun has been exchanged she is someone that can carry a conversation ranging from Obama Care - the changing roles of men and women from 20th century to present - how "reality" TV is a cancer eating away at society or most important of all.... how NY style pizza destroys Chicago style hands down any given day of the week.

Oh... BTW, She can do all this in business Brooks Brothers pin stripes, a black evening gown that requires the precision of strong male hands to both zip and unzip, your favorite team jersey, or lingerie..... all of which she can pull off flawlessly in a 24 hr period if asked of her!

[Christina Watkins]

Originally Posted by ShawnaPatterson31

High class?

Hmmmm....... When you can see yourself easily being viewed in public with her without fear of onlookers perception of her and you both. Dinner at a 5 star restaurant, on a 14 hour flight, or in the presence of those you respect.... she belongs.

Behind closed doors she's not just GFE, she's more so than any actual GF you've ever known. She seems immensely capable of maintaining the illusion of total passion. She does so with good reason, she does feel passion for you. Your not a walking ATM to her, a gig, a job.... you are what she holds in high regard A MAN.
Flawed is some ways yet perfect in many others, your own unique individuality she appreciates and values those qualities. Zeroing in on what they are quickly after making your acquaintance. You, like all men with unique attributes posses the ability to inspire her to desire you. YOU summon the passion from within her.

The musk of a man, the way large hands feel like gripping her, needing her unleashing a desire to be fully present and available to him and only him at the moment in time.

She is selective and cautious and enjoys the initial contact from a man viewing it as the first bit of foreplay they have exchanged. Just like any other type of foreplay it can drive her crazy with anticipation or leave her motor stone cold. She is aware the same is likely true for how she fuels his fire for her.

When all the fun has been exchanged she is someone that can carry a conversation ranging from Obama Care - the changing roles of men and women from 20th century to present - how "reality" TV is a cancer eating away at society or most important of all.... how NY style pizza destroys Chicago style hands down any given day of the week.

Oh... BTW, She can do all this in business Brooks Brothers pin stripes, a black evening gown that requires the precision of strong male hands to both zip and unzip, your favorite team jersey, or lingerie..... all of which she can pull off flawlessly in a 24 hr period if asked of her!

Wow, good one!

[Exec_Enchant]

Originally Posted by christina86

Haven't checked this thread in awhile, lot's of good advice I must say. I think I've realized I am sort of high class, in my own way of course. I'm pretty sure coming from a working class family I would be uncomfortable in a place too far above my income. I truly believe however, that I'm a working mans high class and I'm very comfortable and happy to be in that role! Thanks to all that have contributed/posted, you all played a role in my coming to this answer!

Merry Christmas to you all and I hope you have a wonderful new year!

Great definition and eloquent description of what, I agree, is a true GFE. It transcends the menu items and goes into the holistic experience of true intimacy and connection.

[fine dimes21]

A woman that can cater to each clients' preferences and satisfy his or her fantasies in the end.
Nothing of course that would jeopardize a gals safety.

I mean if a guy has stated he loves a gal to wear stockings, then wear it for him.