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Originally Posted by dtxdude
I am half black half Indian. When I tell providers this, they don't wanna see me. What gives? I also see on tons of ads that most ladies don't wanna see black or Indian. I happen to be a combo of both and rarely can I see anyone.
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Yes, it is unfortunate and it does suck. I am a dark skin male myself. It's worse being in Texas. I am someone who mainly prefers white or latina women. I also like more experienced, or "MILF" women. Some women have told me reasons why they don't see black or African american men. I am a rare exception; but even then, I usually avoid profiles that say "no AA."
There is a predetermined judgement and expectation of dark skin men in the U.S., as well as in this "hobby." I first started in 2016 when I lost my virginity to DaniDoesDoIt. I think I was around 25-26 at the time when I was in university. I was surprised and also not shocked when I saw all of the "No AA" on profiles. At the time, I did not know why other than expected stereotypes from television or ones that actually transpire in society.
This is a list of some things I have been told or researched:
1. Many of the black guys will attempt to negotiate prices much lower than the woman lists.
2. Some of them can be pimps trying to get girls.
3. As much as guys here think it is cool and thinks every woman wants to do it, many of them will try to bring in weed, other drugs, and attempt to start smoking and getting high. This includes drinking loads of alcohol as well.
4. Society, civilization, the media, and humanity as a whole anticipates and perceives the "black" dark skin man as being violent and more aggressive. Even though they are not the ones bombing and invading other countries. Most women are afraid to engage with a black man out of fear. The exception are the women who grew up in a hood, ghetto, or know how to deal with them.
5. Unfortunately, many of the women are racist and will not see a dark skin man. It is unfortunate. This is how the United States of A-holes. It's America. It is Texas. Find a woman who will accept you. Like I said. The ones who grew up around black men will like and accept you more.
I know this is all disappointing, but those are some of the things I have learned. Women know I am different when they meet me. I think I may be one of the few rare dark skin/black men on these websites. Here is a list of why many of the women like me:
1. I don't follow the stereotypes or social constructs created by the Chitauri cabal "elites," humans, and the media. I am not apart of the herd or the Matrix.
2. I have never smoked, drank alcohol, done illegal drugs, or even drank coffee before.
3. I am educated. I graduated with my Bachelor's degree in 2018, and I am working on my career.
4. I am potentially and plausibly too respectful. I show too much reverence, and people think they can take advantage of me until they learn the hard way. Basically, I come off as "too nice," but I am not a nice guy. It's difficult to describe. Most women say I am "cute" or "sweet." Meanwhile, I never use such words. haha.
5. Basically, I am not a thug or a criminal.
6. I like to spend time pleasing a woman. If she is not pleased before I leave, I will not feel satisfied. I don't rush to pump, dump, and leave. I believe in equality during physical situations.
7. Which leads into number 7. I am good with my oral skills and I spend time with a woman to give and receive the full package. I am not into the blow-n-go mentality, unless that is the only activity she does. One of my regulars I have been to over the years is a large BBW. She told me most guys only come to her for blowjobs. Why? Because from my outside observation on men, I think there is the absurd stereotype that large women give the best blowjobs because the act is associated with eating and food. I am not sure most women know this. She told me I am her favorite along with another guy because my dick size hits her spot with precision, and no other guys will penetrate her. They only come for blowjobs. Many of these women are not getting more action because of situations and mentalities like that.
8. I don't negotiate prices to insane amounts. A few years ago, I had to do a little less because I was still in school and pretty much lacked any money. Right now, I am in a somewhat good position. However, I still avoid three hundred and above. I try to go to women who offer below. Not because I don't think the women are worth that much. It's just too much for me to feel comfortable. I am more willing to repeat someone who is within the 200 range or lower. Perhaps I can meet LustyBustyGina38FF someday. She looks phenomenal. Just not now with some things I have going on.
9. I am single. I have never been in girlfriend relationship, and I have never been married. This shocks every woman I meet.
In conclusion, those are my thoughts on it. There ARE many provider profiles that say "No AA" and they actually do see black men. Again, mostly likely educated ones like me. I have met some women who I later found out had that posted on their profiles. Ironically, one of them had a mixed daughter with a black man. Many of them will post that to keep away the thugs and criminal stereotypical guys. I know it sucks to be judged from stereotypes and presumptions. I still like white women. Just find the ones who will accept you. There are also black women who will say "No AA." Even though they are rare in Dallas.
