WOW drama drama drama. This is a fine example why I don't post hardly anymore, but I had to say this little bit here.
Ladies use your head and your gut if it doesn't feel right
DON'T DO IT. We get to say who when and where. And I personally will not go with a He's fine etc. I want details when I ask about someone. It irritates the men but oh well and may some ladies idk. As far as RTP well no comment ... they knew me soooo well. LOL
Do not be fooled the po po is on
EVERY board. DC, P, local, national
ALL of them. Also just because a board says a person is verified that should not be your only screening tool. Use as many as possible. NBL, TER, P, DC, Heisacheater, (that last one cracks me up) and google of course is your friend. Matter a fact I could care less if a board says they are verified or not I am the one who has to decide if they are verified for me. If a gentleman even so much as says or acts the wrong way to me in an email. DELETE DELETE DELETE. I am a picky bitch but I am a happy one. Also I think outing this person whoever it is would only make them change their id and start over. Someone said how can you verify a provider. Trust me it is easier to verify a provider than a hobbyist. But you will never know if either will turn you in or if they have been busted. It is rare to find such information on anyone. I verify every reference before I contact them. I want to know what kind of lady I am contacting. And I am glad I do as one gentleman gave me an email and when I checked it it belonged to a little girls dollhouse club. Now can you imagine what would have happened if I sent a verification email to that asking all the questions I do when I verify a man. Wow is all I can say.
I am in no way taking anyone's side here but mine. So before you start slamming me just know I get on this board so rare I will probably never see it. If a friend had not brought this to my attention I would not have read this at all. They asked for my opinion so here I am doing my research on the subject so that I may be informed enough to answer their request.
Now let's all go get some virgin olive oil and a twister board