Help Us Help YOU!! SCREENING 101

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia

The VAST majority of active hobbyists never, or almost never write reviews. Most of them never even post. They may have a handle so they can read reviews, but that's it.

It's nice to see a Provider stating something I've stated over and over and over for years.......

Very few people write and contribute compared to those that actively participate and spend money.....

That's why a board needs to stay informative and on track and does not need to cater to the personalities of the few that actively post.....

By the way.....


People that steal other people's identities should be banned.

People that falsely accuse other's should be banned.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Risn2TheOccasion

Sad. I tried to present my point in a civil manner. I was not insulting. Yet I was accused of misquoting and taking words out of context just because I used a common four word phrase. Sad to see some people be so angry.

You can't present a point in a civil manner that is contrary to what some provider and her PW following want to hear without catching some grief......

Adopt a "devil may care" attitude and post your opinions..... Far more guys read and will appreciate seeing it than those that will complain about it.

[Devynn von Tease]

Oh, my EMONESS! Man, can we just have some raging hot whoppie and move on?

Obviously this thread has struck a cord with many. I think the thread itself as well as comments got taken out of context, misinterpreted, miscommunicated, etc. At this point I think it's extremely hard for either side to see eye to eye or even listen to one another and has basically just turned into a public pissing contest =(

[TXBD]

I know that providers like P411 but there are issues with that as well. Not saying their not good, I am saying for me it is not a good choice. I work for a place that does not provide info out at all about an employee without screening the person requesting the info. That would be all I need, for my place of work to look into why P411 needs to know were I work. Not to mention employees are not allowed to get calls at all at work. I also don't hobby that much so keep refs is hard. Takes a little more work on my part but it can be done. The goal is for everyone to be safe.

[Sensual Sophia]

Originally Posted by TXBD

I know that providers like P411 but there are issues with that as well. Not saying their not good, I am saying for me it is not a good choice. I work for a place that does not provide info out at all about an employee without screening the person requesting the info. That would be all I need, for my place of work to look into why P411 needs to know were I work. Not to mention employees are not allowed to get calls at all at work. I also don't hobby that much so keep refs is hard. Takes a little more work on my part but it can be done. The goal is for everyone to be safe.

If you have 2 provider vouches from p411 members, you can get a p411 ID without providing ANY employment info.

Can't say enough good things about that service.

[sixxbach]

exactly right sophia, that is how i got my account. i like P411 and will actually pay for it when the 6 month trial ends!!!

[Logic]

Looks like i will be getting p411...cause after being in the hobby for 8 years screening is still a bitch!! Even when you know providors that have been in the biz since sexy maids was around. Its all good.

[dookiexp]

I use p411 its great, I like my 9 okays. usually makes screening painless!

I owe Alisha for getting me onto it, so Thank you to Alisha!!

[Whispers]

Still waiting for some proof of your accusations Karma.....



People that steal other people's identities should be banned.

People that falsely accuse other's should be banned.

[Blaze]

Whispers, why do you push people so that they will come at you that way? What pleasure do you derive by stirring the pot? I can see both sides of the coin here. Just because your way works for you IT may not work for another. Yes, Im sure you speak for some gents, but NOT all. Just as I speak for some providers NOT all. Maybe what she said aint right, but move it off the thread and deal with it properly.

BOT, I too am getting more and more of these type emails and PM's. Here's a real recent one from escorts.com I have to wonder if the guy thought I was worried about loosing biz? I personally like my @$$ where it sits not behind bars!!!

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on 1/15/2010 8:56:18 AM Its_A_Blaze said


Anything is possible......

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on 1/15/2010 1:08:11 AM ******** said

Hi would like some headache release every 2 weeks, possible? <--- First msg
i found someone thank you for the reply <--- Second msg after my reply

I love P411 and its really great when I can see the gents okays, after like 5 or 6 and there is at least one high profile provider I know on the list and its recent, I have no need to contact them.

I am newbie friendly here at home ONLY. When on the road or outcall,,, screening is a MUST! There are many ways we can get screening done and its painless. I am a reputable provider that is willing to do screening through an employer and would get rid of all info once everything is said and done.

I have seen gents by their board reps alone, but not many. I personally don't like the "entitlement attitude" I THINK they have when they throw it out for a session. No one is any better by which means they use.

We have our contact pages for a reason. Mostly so we can keep the info on one page. Why try and skate it? We are just going to either ignore you or ask for the info anyway. Why make our job harder than it has to be?

This thread could be a good learning tool for newbies or gents who just don't get why we ask for what we do. GEESH!

Everyone has their own comfort zone and where there is a will there is a way.

[Guest041611]

Hey Blaze.... love u ur hot...LOVE the handle....'Please don't feed the trolls.....

[Kit-4-Kat]

Well, after EIGHT flippin' pages of comments if the guys don't get it by now, they're just idiots & don't deserve an appt if they can't abide the wishes of the lady they've contacted. I personally am sick of all the bitching PERIOD.

Sometimes I'm newbie friendly as long as I don't get the heebie geebies from the caller. Other times, I'm grateful for those who provide refs w/out being asked so I can breathe easy & not have to worry that the guy is going to give me a hard time if I ask. Everyone has their methods so whether you subscribe to a service or choose more creative solutions for those concerned w/ discretion, it's a PERSONAL choice. Do as you see fit, put it behind you & MOVE ON!

Geez...

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Blaze

Whispers, why do you push people so that they will come at you that way? What pleasure do you derive by stirring the pot?

I derive no "pleasure" in upsetting people or in being attacked... Emotions are something people "choose" to have and when they allow their emotions to overshadow their thinking they tend to make fools of themselves.... Not my problem

As to "stirring the pot".... I believe it needs to be stirred from time to time in order to extract information as well as to encourage participation... Other wise the board is a bunch of flowery ads from girls disguised as posts and ass kissing by the guys that have nothing better to do....

I can see both sides of the coin here. Just because your way works for you IT may not work for another.

I totally agree and there is a thread somewhere right now about exactly that....

Yes, Im sure you speak for some gents, but NOT all.

I speak for no one other then myself.... I can say I get PM'd regularly, emails and texts from guys on subjects because they are afraid for some reason to post online..... some support what I have to say... Others do not.....

Just as I speak for some providers NOT all. Maybe what she said aint right, but move it off the thread and deal with it properly.

I tend to do exactly that unless the material is thread specific... then I debate it in the open forum.... I think I tend to stay on subject.... I'm not a poster with a lot of my stuff edited with a comment from a moderator replacing it......

BOT, I too am getting more and more of these type emails and PM's. Here's a real recent one from escorts.com I have to wonder if the guy thought I was worried about loosing biz? I personally like my @$$ where it sits not behind bars!!!

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on 1/15/2010 8:56:18 AM Its_A_Blaze said


Anything is possible......

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on 1/15/2010 1:08:11 AM ******** said

Hi would like some headache release every 2 weeks, possible? <--- First msg
i found someone thank you for the reply <--- Second msg after my reply

I love P411 and its really great when I can see the gents okays, after like 5 or 6 and there is at least one high profile provider I know on the list and its recent, I have no need to contact them.

I am newbie friendly here at home ONLY. When on the road or outcall,,, screening is a MUST! There are many ways we can get screening done and its painless. I am a reputable provider that is willing to do screening through an employer and would get rid of all info once everything is said and done.

I have seen gents by their board reps alone, but not many. I personally don't like the "entitlement attitude" I THINK they have when they throw it out for a session. No one is any better by which means they use.

We have our contact pages for a reason. Mostly so we can keep the info on one page. Why try and skate it? We are just going to either ignore you or ask for the info anyway. Why make our job harder than it has to be?

You would be surprised how many girls will allow a guy to "skate it" as you say.... I've seen more than one "screening provider" without paying any attention to her screening needs... never providing my information at all.....

This thread could be a good learning tool for newbies or gents who just don't get why we ask for what we do. GEESH!

Everyone has their own comfort zone and where there is a will there is a way.

I think it already IS a good learning tool....

[txtraveler07]

Originally Posted by Whispers

As to "stirring the pot".... I believe it needs to be stirred from time to time in order to extract information as well as to encourage participation... Other wise the board is a bunch of flowery ads from girls disguised as posts and ass kissing by the guys that have nothing better to do....

I don't know about information being extracted, but now every time I read one of your posts, I like to imagine that you sound like Rorschach. [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=62GucOPVt44&feature=re lated"]YouTube- The Watchmen - Rorschach[/ame].

Whispers' Journal
February 11, 2010

Beneath me, this awful forum, it screams like an abattoir full of retarded children. ECCIE. On Friday night, a John kissed ass on ECCIE. Somebody knows why. Down there... somebody knows. The dusk reeks of flowery ads and ass kissing. I believe I shall take my exercise.

Originally Posted by Whispers

I speak for no one other then myself.... I can say I get regular PMS...

And now I understand.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by txtraveler07

I don't know about information being extracted, but now every time I read one of your posts, I like to imagine that you sound like Rorschach.

That was funny..... I would rather be batman with the utility belt thing happening though