Managed Verses Independent Ladies?

[Caligula1]

I think it is just me based on three data pints, Most of the managed have been abused as a child. So low self esteem . These managers are feasting on that weekness by pretending to be a supportive authority. Pathetic. And yes most of them have NBA policy to maintain non compete clause. Latin moxie is correct.

[SexyCassandra]

Interesting thread. We all come from different walks of life. Simply playing the cards we are dealt. Its easy to pass judgment on something we know nothing about.
We are all here on this board looking for the same thing. Whether it be entertainment or pleasure.
We all are giving and receiving one way or another.
Human trafficking is one thing, being forced to do something against your will is another. But as long as a provider is 100% willing and okay with the situation at hand, that is all that really matters.
I myself will never understand why a provider chooses to have management. Then again, what is management? Is it some guy who takes advantage of venerable women manipulating them how ever they feel fit in order to handle their money after they are putting in all the work? Is it some poor girl blinded by her version of love with control issues who feels some sort of power trip by being the bread winner and actually prefers to have her man close by and could careless he pretends to love her when the reality is he is just a lazy roach? That is just a couple scenarios, I am sure that there are many more that I still would not be able to fully understand. Which is why I can't pass judgment on something I know nothing about. What appears fucked up and strange to me, may be what someone else views to be acceptable and normal to them. At the end of the day, its not my problem. There is only one way to define independent. TBC skills are a must and important. As long as a provider has that, comes across as professional, makes the appointment special and comfortable that is all that should matter. Personal lives are just that, aside from complicated.
No one really has the right to point fingers here. No one here is more right or more wrong. Better than or less than. The guy who cheats on his pregnant SO because she's in her ninth month and lacks sexual desire, isn't better than the misguided girl who chooses to hand over all her hard earned doe gullible enough to believe lies from her unmotivated unemployed SO.
As long as no one is being forced or harmed in anyway, no one here should ever feel cocky enough to jump on a high horse. People from the RW stand point that remain oblivious to this world could pick apart every single one of us here.
Don't over analyze. Play safe. Pay attention to red flags. But most importantly Fuck like your Ex is watching!

[Island_Gent]

Originally Posted by SexyCassandra

Interesting thread. We all come from different walks of life. Simply playing the cards we are dealt. Its easy to pass judgment on something we know nothing about.
We are all here on this board looking for the same thing. Whether it be entertainment or pleasure.
We all are giving and receiving one way or another.
Human trafficking is one thing, being forced to do something against your will is another. But as long as a provider is 100% willing and okay with the situation at hand, that is all that really matters.
I myself will never understand why a provider chooses to have management. Then again, what is management? Is it some guy who takes advantage of venerable women manipulating them how ever they feel fit in order to handle their money after they are putting in all the work? Is it some poor girl blinded by her version of love with control issues who feels some sort of power trip by being the bread winner and actually prefers to have her man close by and could careless he pretends to love her when the reality is he is just a lazy roach? That is just a couple scenarios, I am sure that there are many more that I still would not be able to fully understand. Which is why I can't pass judgment on something I know nothing about. What appears fucked up and strange to me, may be what someone else views to be acceptable and normal to them. At the end of the day, its not my problem. There is only one way to define independent. TBC skills are a must and important. As long as a provider has that, comes across as professional, makes the appointment special and comfortable that is all that should matter. Personal lives are just that, aside from complicated.
No one really has the right to point fingers here. No one here is more right or more wrong. Better than or less than. The guy who cheats on his pregnant SO because she's in her ninth month and lacks sexual desire, isn't better than the misguided girl who chooses to hand over all her hard earned doe gullible enough to believe lies from her unmotivated unemployed SO.
As long as no one is being forced or harmed in anyway, no one here should ever feel cocky enough to jump on a high horse. People from the RW stand point that remain oblivious to this world could pick apart every single one of us here.
Don't over analyze. Play safe. Pay attention to red flags. But most importantly Fuck like your Ex is watching!

Point taken. I'm pretty sure I've seen a provider or two(unbeknownst to me) who was managed. But the way I choose to play this sport is by a fair one-on-one P4P exchange, not P4MP...don't need a middle man/woman. Basically I don't wanna fuck with trafficked or managed chicks(knowingly) cuz it fucks with my sense of fairness, as naive as that sounds.

And the SO sitting his lazy, broke ass at home living off the fruits of his girl's labour is on par with a manager imho, enjoying the fruits of someone else's labour.

[SexyCassandra]

Originally Posted by Island_Gent

Point taken. I'm pretty sure I've seen a provider or two(unbeknownst to me) who was managed. But the way I choose to play this sport is by a fair one-on-one P4P exchange, not P4MP...don't need a middle man/woman. Basically I don't wanna fuck with trafficked or managed chicks(knowingly) cuz it fucks with my sense of fairness, as naive as that sounds.

And the SO sitting his lazy, broke ass at home living off the fruits of his girl's labour is on par with a manager imho, enjoying the fruits of someone else's labour.

I totally get where you are coming from on the trafficked and managed girls we are on the same page. It's sad and nauseating. But as far as the lazy SO reaping the benefits of labor goes, I have witnessed some crazy dysfunctional things in the world.
There are some ladies that keep their men on short leashes and prefer it that way.
It's not hard to believe because the same thing goes down in the RW with successful business men and their trophy wives. Not all trophy wives work yet enjoy the fruits of labor.
So I guess my point is as long as no one is being forced to do something against their will, no one can tell someone how they spend their hard eared money.
That would be like a random guy in the RW collecting his check on Friday from his boss, and his boss say to the man, "now don't go spend your check on a prostitute because it fucks with my sense of fairness. I know plenty of unemployed men who would deposit that money into a savings account instead of giving it to a prostitute".

All I am saying is once someone hands someone money no one has the right to tell them how they spend it.
Trust me half of the young or just plain ignorant women who sling their pussy just to take care of a LAZY dude. I would say man but in this case I think they are considered to be anything but, will regret it one day. Lets face ladies do have an expiration date on their pussy. We cant do this forever. I do agree with you it is a mistake to carry around dead weight. But then again its one of her regrets and her mistake to make.
So if we are truly talking about fairness, we all can point fingers, but we all have reasons to have a finger pointed back at us.
I'll say it again if no one is being forced or harmed, Fun is the only factor that should really matter.

P.S. I still want to fuck the shit out of you, but you already know that.

[Island_Gent]

Originally Posted by SexyCassandra

I totally get where you are coming from on the trafficked and managed girls we are on the same page. It's sad and nauseating. But as far as the lazy SO reaping the benefits of labor goes, I have witnessed some crazy dysfunctional things in the world.
There are some ladies that keep their men on short leashes and prefer it that way.
It's not hard to believe because the same thing goes down in the RW with successful business men and their trophy wives. Not all trophy wives work yet enjoy the fruits of labor.
So I guess my point is as long as no one is being forced to do something against their will, no one can tell someone how they spend their hard eared money.
That would be like a random guy in the RW collecting his check on Friday from his boss, and his boss say to the man, "now don't go spend your check on a prostitute because it fucks with my sense of fairness. I know plenty of unemployed men who would deposit that money into a savings account instead of giving it to a prostitute".

All I am saying is once someone hands someone money no one has the right to tell them how they spend it.
Trust me half of the young or just plain ignorant women who sling their pussy just to take care of a LAZY dude. I would say man but in this case I think they are considered to be anything but, will regret it one day. Lets face ladies do have an expiration date on their pussy. We cant do this forever. I do agree with you it is a mistake to carry around dead weight. But then again its one of her regrets and her mistake to make.
So if we are truly talking about fairness, we all can point fingers, but we all have reasons to have a finger pointed back at us.
I'll say it again if no one is being forced or harmed, Fun is the only factor that should really matter.

P.S. I still want to fuck the shit out of you, but you already know that.

Very well put beautiful, and I'm in agreement with just about everything you've said...especially that last part.

Fa real, I didn't mean to come off as overly judgmental. In the end I suppose how a provider spends her hard earned cash is absolutely none of my business. But if she pointedly admits to me she's gonna use the money she earns in a way I don't feel comfortable with, then I prolly won't see her again is the point I'm making, no matter how much I enjoyed our time together. That's my right as a consumer too.